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LoyalMember · 16/04/2025 17:05

NImumconfused · 16/04/2025 12:25

What a relief. We were right. They were wrong.

If I knew how, I'd attach a clip of David Tennant as Crowley doing the "you were right, I was wrong" apology dance in Good Omens series 2 (not likely that he'd ever apologise in real life, obvs)!

David Tennant's a smug, wee luvvy arsehole.

KnottyAuty · 16/04/2025 17:08

myplace · 16/04/2025 16:52

And apparently the judges made this decision without hearing from any transwomen at all!

Says my friend/colleague.

Well I suppose that is true in a way. There were 4 intervenors in the case and none were trans organisations. I suppose that was possibly because the entire scottish government was on the trans side - which might not seem like much but was a fairly large obstacle to the 3 women who run FWS

HootyMcBoobys · 16/04/2025 17:08

It's honestly the biggest own-goal in history.

I'm sure if this ideology hadn't been pushed and pushed to the Nth degree, that trans people quietly going about their own lives would still be doing so.

It was the utter refusal to be seen as anything less than actual women, and the forced language/speech, and the invasion of sports, and many other things, that initiated a push back.
If they had been content to accept that they could not change reality, then they would not be in this position.
You can only scream so many times that the Emperor is not naked, before people wake up and see that he is very much naked indeed.

Biggest fail in history, and they did it to themselves.

AshesofTime · 16/04/2025 17:11

I can’t believe some people are NOW calling for third spaces when if they’d just accepted them years ago, instead of calling us evil apartheid loving nazis, so much heartache could have been saved for so many women. The cheek of it.

KnottyAuty · 16/04/2025 17:12

FairCat · 16/04/2025 16:54

This is true and because case law confirmed that acquired gender was legally equivalent to sex for EA 2010 purposes, organisations could provide only male and female facilities and comply with the law. That changed today.

From today organisations will have to rewrite policy to comply with the new legal interpretation of EA 2010 (no other law is affected). Forcing trans people into facilities inconsistent with their acquired gender has obvious legal and public liability issues. The least of which is how to enforce it.

Put yourself in the shoes of someone responsible for those facilities, ungendered provision is now the only obvious way to comply with EA 2010. I really don't know, but we'll find out over the next year or two.

I don't think that is going to meet the single sex exemptions though is it? The whole point is that mixed sex or ungendered is not acceptable for specific situations like toilets, changing rooms, sports, hospital wards etc as mentioned in the ruling. So there will have to be female changing rooms etc and then there might be unisex. It will be for the men or transwomen to then exert their rights to whatever spaces might meet their needs independent of the women

NoWordForFluffy · 16/04/2025 17:12

Dozer · 16/04/2025 15:10

confusing statement from the UK government on BBC website in response to the ruling: the statement doesn’t align with my understanding of Labour policy.

‘Reacting to the Supreme Court ruling, a UK government spokesperson says: "We have always supported the protection of single-sex spaces based on biological sex.

"This ruling brings clarity and confidence, for women and service providers such as hospitals, refuges, and sports clubs.
"Single-sex spaces are protected in law and will always be protected by this government."

Oh, I must be mistaken that every time a Labour representative was asked specifically about SSS in the run up to the GE, they responded by talking about 'safe spaces' which were clearly not the same thing at all.

Jesus wept, they must think we're idiotic / amnesiacs to fall for that bullshit.

Rummly · 16/04/2025 17:12

Good work by the SC. Future generations will look back on the last 15 years of trans rights and arguments as being a case of mass delusion. It is amazing that this nonsense captured major political parties and even a government.

I suppose there’s always the possibility of an appeal to the ECtHR. But I doubt that will happen.

highame · 16/04/2025 17:13

MrsOvertonsWindow · 16/04/2025 14:56

Have IPSO spoken about this?

Haven't seen anything Mrs O, but I should think they'll be taking a look at their policies because if woman means biological woman, they will have to ensure a distinction is made (my guess)

Arran2024 · 16/04/2025 17:13

FairCat · 16/04/2025 16:03

Agree, some posters here are making big leaps of imagination but the ruling only makes it lawful to exclude trans people in a small range of situations, and nothing more. If you run a public facility, drafting policy to comply with all parts of equality legislation just became very challenging.
The most likely outcome is public facilities will generally be ungendered. It's unclear how all provisions of the law can be satisfied any other way.

It will allow law suits against orgs which insist on allowing men into women's spaces. I wonder what the FA is going to do now for example.

heathspeedwell · 16/04/2025 17:18

Just a reminder of how important single sex spaces are: women and girls are at 9 times more risk of sexual assault in mixed sex spaces.

From the Independant:
"The vast majority of reported sexual assaults at public swimming pools in the UK take place in unisex changing rooms, new statistics reveal.
The data, obtained through a Freedom of Information request by the Sunday Times, suggests that unisex changing rooms are more dangerous for women and girls than single-sex facilities.
Just under 90 per cent of complaints regarding changing room sexual assaults, voyeurism and harassment are about incidents in unisex facilities."

Unisex changing rooms put women at danger of sexual assault, data reveals | The Independent | The Independent

Unisex changing rooms put women at danger of sexual assault, data reveals

The vast majority of reported sexual assaults at public swimming pools in the UK take place in unisex changing rooms, new statistics reveal.

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women/sexual-assault-unisex-changing-rooms-sunday-times-women-risk-a8519086.html

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 17:18

That blithering numpty Robin Moira White is currently on PM. No great surprise there. Evan Davies is a TRA to the end of his fingertips. At least he had Michael Foran on first.

Delphigirl · 16/04/2025 17:19

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 17:18

That blithering numpty Robin Moira White is currently on PM. No great surprise there. Evan Davies is a TRA to the end of his fingertips. At least he had Michael Foran on first.

Yes he said that the ruling doesn’t stop trans women from going into women’s toilets. He is wrong.

NoWordForFluffy · 16/04/2025 17:20

FairCat · 16/04/2025 16:54

This is true and because case law confirmed that acquired gender was legally equivalent to sex for EA 2010 purposes, organisations could provide only male and female facilities and comply with the law. That changed today.

From today organisations will have to rewrite policy to comply with the new legal interpretation of EA 2010 (no other law is affected). Forcing trans people into facilities inconsistent with their acquired gender has obvious legal and public liability issues. The least of which is how to enforce it.

Put yourself in the shoes of someone responsible for those facilities, ungendered provision is now the only obvious way to comply with EA 2010. I really don't know, but we'll find out over the next year or two.

I don't think you're right. The EA 2010 is about discrimination. Transpeople aren't being discriminated against by being told to use the facilities by sex, as they aren't being singled out for being trans. Everyone has to use the facilities of their sex. 'Acquired gender' is not relevant in relation to SSS.

And there is no 'new' interpretation of the EA2010, today's judgment is the law as it's always been. Stonewall law no longer applies.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/04/2025 17:22

akkakk · 16/04/2025 17:05

Yes - I understand that - however, at a personal level it is why I have been very pro this not being ignored for women (see my posting history) - I am sorry that I didn't have the ability to stop other men - each of us can only influence our own sphere...

the difficulty with your comment on some transmen (and I understand where it comes from) is if you swap that around to men not wanting some transwomen - and then we are back at square 1 with the implication that they should use women's spaces... which is wrong. It becomes very tricky if an individual of either sex takes themselves to that point...

I understand the point that you're making, but that's why the public debate about this needs to be honest about the fact that the impact of people using spaces for the opposite sex isn't equal both ways.

Men represent a threat to women and women do not really represent a threat to men.

So if a passing trans man is in a women's space, the women in that space will perceive the threat to be the same as if an actual man were in there. And the perceived threat they experience is harmful in itself because of the distress it causes, even if there is no actual threat.

If you flip it round, a passing trans woman in a men's space might make the men in that space feel uncomfortable, but they are not going to feel that their physical safety may be at risk. They represent much more of a risk to the trans woman than the trans woman represents to them.

Feeling discomfort is not the same as feeling unsafe. (And I mean actually unsafe in the usual sense of the word, not claiming to feel "unsafe" because someone does not share your views.)

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 17:22

Delphigirl · 16/04/2025 17:19

Yes he said that the ruling doesn’t stop trans women from going into women’s toilets. He is wrong.

Of course he said it would put transwomen at greater risk of violence. As stated time without number here, let's not worry at all about the greater risk of violence and voyeurism for women and children if any man who says 'I'm a woman' is allowed into female changing rooms, toilets, refuges, prisons, you name it.

Felinnefine · 16/04/2025 17:23

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 17:18

That blithering numpty Robin Moira White is currently on PM. No great surprise there. Evan Davies is a TRA to the end of his fingertips. At least he had Michael Foran on first.

So glad you said finger tips.

Zita60 · 16/04/2025 17:23

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2025 17:18

That blithering numpty Robin Moira White is currently on PM. No great surprise there. Evan Davies is a TRA to the end of his fingertips. At least he had Michael Foran on first.

He (White) thinks this might go to the European Court of Human Rights. I wonder if that's true?

Some of the GC comments on social media regarding this seem to think this ruling is declaring that all transwomen, even with a GRC, are now to be considered male in law. I'm not sure whether that's true - the ruling today was specifically about the definition of sex in the Equality Act. Are the protections that still remain in the Equality Act for trans people enough to keep this from going to the ECHR?

akkakk · 16/04/2025 17:24

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/04/2025 17:22

I understand the point that you're making, but that's why the public debate about this needs to be honest about the fact that the impact of people using spaces for the opposite sex isn't equal both ways.

Men represent a threat to women and women do not really represent a threat to men.

So if a passing trans man is in a women's space, the women in that space will perceive the threat to be the same as if an actual man were in there. And the perceived threat they experience is harmful in itself because of the distress it causes, even if there is no actual threat.

If you flip it round, a passing trans woman in a men's space might make the men in that space feel uncomfortable, but they are not going to feel that their physical safety may be at risk. They represent much more of a risk to the trans woman than the trans woman represents to them.

Feeling discomfort is not the same as feeling unsafe. (And I mean actually unsafe in the usual sense of the word, not claiming to feel "unsafe" because someone does not share your views.)

Agree with you - but the answer can only be that society deals with that specific issue - otherwise you leave it wide open for transwomen to enter women's spaces - it is going to be difficult to work through...

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/04/2025 17:24

murasaki · 16/04/2025 16:12

And the 'most people' does include most men too. All my male friends don't want mixed loos and changing rooms. As they'd feel awkward and uncomfortable and deserve their privacy too. Men in dresses, not an issue, apparently. As they're men. So I have been told.

I think that in the hierarchy of needs, the need not to feel uncomfortable ranks lower than the need to actually be safe.

AshesofTime · 16/04/2025 17:25

Zita60 · 16/04/2025 17:23

He (White) thinks this might go to the European Court of Human Rights. I wonder if that's true?

Some of the GC comments on social media regarding this seem to think this ruling is declaring that all transwomen, even with a GRC, are now to be considered male in law. I'm not sure whether that's true - the ruling today was specifically about the definition of sex in the Equality Act. Are the protections that still remain in the Equality Act for trans people enough to keep this from going to the ECHR?

Yes, but the protections for trans people are in Line with their sex. Basically, you can’t treat a transwomen any differently to any other man. You don’t have to treat them as women. As long as they’re no worse off than anyone else of their sex, then that is completely lawful.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 16/04/2025 17:26

Helen Webberley was just on the really. God she’s dangerous and frankly bonkers crazy.

murasaki · 16/04/2025 17:27

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/04/2025 17:24

I think that in the hierarchy of needs, the need not to feel uncomfortable ranks lower than the need to actually be safe.

I think we're agreeing, they want single sex loos. Albeit for different reasons. And sex as defined by the supreme court for us as well as them. Sure awkwardness comes second, but they are supportive.

akkakk · 16/04/2025 17:27

I think that we should put to bed the argument that possible threats against transwomen means they need facilities other than male ones...

History shows us that large sections of society treat badly all sorts of sections:

  • trans
  • gay
  • ginger hair
  • freckles
  • spectacle wearing
  • weaker people
  • disabled people
  • deformed people
  • different skin colours
  • etc.
None of that means that the answer is to provide separate facilities / allow them to use the opposite sex's facilities - the answer is to deal with the underlying issue....
KnottyAuty · 16/04/2025 17:30

Zita60 · 16/04/2025 17:02

Radio 4's PM programme is covering this.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/live/bbc_radio_fourfm

At 17.13 TW barrister Robin White commenting. Says it is not OK for those without GRCs to have to use the gents loos and it will be worse for butch lesbians being chased out of the ladies.

notwavingbutsinking · 16/04/2025 17:30

akkakk · 16/04/2025 17:05

Yes - I understand that - however, at a personal level it is why I have been very pro this not being ignored for women (see my posting history) - I am sorry that I didn't have the ability to stop other men - each of us can only influence our own sphere...

the difficulty with your comment on some transmen (and I understand where it comes from) is if you swap that around to men not wanting some transwomen - and then we are back at square 1 with the implication that they should use women's spaces... which is wrong. It becomes very tricky if an individual of either sex takes themselves to that point...

My (admittedly quite uneducated) take on this is that some people will always behave in a way that best suits them, rather than the way required by law, and yes, they will frequently "get away with it". So on a practical level, someone who convincingly passes as the opposite sex will be able to continue to use opposite sex facilities if they choose to do so. I can't think how that could be prevented, without resorting to the the infamous 'genital inspections' which is clearly unacceptable to everyone.

But this ruling means that the moment a trans identifying man makes a woman feel uncomfortable in a single sex space, the woman can now (in theory - we'll see what it means in practice) quite rightly call this out and seek to have that individual removed from that space without being gaslit, accused of bigotry, or finding themselves barred from their own space. I think that is a momentous change.

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