This is very difficult, but I don't think the way forward can be denying that a good law or policy is in fact a good law or policy.
I don't think it can even be denying, if it turns out to be the case, that the Trump administration turns out to be better than Biden was, or Harris would have been.
It's a very serious problem that media, including trusted media like the BBC, are so overwhelmingly wedded to a particular viewpoint over someone like Trump that they deliberately lie, even by omission, about what is going on so as to make him seem awful.
Andrew Sullivan mentioned an example of this in his substance the other day - they posted a picture of Trump at a party thrown for him by a supporter with a headline that said something about him promoting the interests of white people. The kicker - the supporter was a black guy, (not mentioned in the article) and they actually clipped the photos they printed to make sure neither he, nor any other black people at the party, were in the photos.
I think there is something really completely diabolical about that, and it tells us something about the state of the part of the left that will simply reject anything associated with Trump no matter what.
It's another manifestation of their unwillingness to deal with reality, and as such, I think pandering to it, even with the best of intentions, is a mistake.
I do think that your instinct that it is better to bring people along rather than impose is correct so far as it goes. But, remember that actually, most Americans, and even most Democrats, agree with the content of these EOs. It wasn't the ideas and beliefs of the electorate keeping these ideas in institutions.