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MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 21/01/2025 23:22

@RanchRat
GC ideology is now so right wing that you support pussy grabbing Trump and nazi saluting Musk. Shame

The far right has always been strong in this corner of MN, it used to be more covert and bubbling underneath the surface.
It's just now it's wide out in the open, pretence has been dropped. Mask has slipped, so to speak.

Snowypeaks · 21/01/2025 23:24

Katbum · 21/01/2025 23:08

Yes I think this would be the best outcome - where people can play with their gender presentation and norms, but we don’t pretend that changes the sex of those who choose to do so. Where we differ is that I see today’s ’two sex/two genders’ as a regressive mandate that makes that outcome less likely - and in fact is probably going to inflame claims to sex-change because ‘I really am a woman if I dress like one’ seems like the logic that underpins both trans rights, and this EO unfortunately, but from wildly different ideological positions. Trans has always been a means of conformity to sex/gender essentialism and this makes it much more likely we will continue down that path rather than uncoupling them.

I'm not convinced that you have read the EO text.
For a start, you describe it as a "two sex/two genders" mandate but the EO is clear that sex is not gender - and the provisions are about sex.
The EO is also very clear that men cannot become women or vice versa which necessarily precludes claims to sex change by clothing choices.

TheCatsTongue · 21/01/2025 23:26

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 21/01/2025 23:22

@RanchRat
GC ideology is now so right wing that you support pussy grabbing Trump and nazi saluting Musk. Shame

The far right has always been strong in this corner of MN, it used to be more covert and bubbling underneath the surface.
It's just now it's wide out in the open, pretence has been dropped. Mask has slipped, so to speak.

Something, something, far-right!

Can someone explain (other than everything you don't like is far-right) how believing that there are only two sexes is far-right?

Sexual dimorphism is now far-right?

Katbum · 21/01/2025 23:33

Snowypeaks · 21/01/2025 23:24

I'm not convinced that you have read the EO text.
For a start, you describe it as a "two sex/two genders" mandate but the EO is clear that sex is not gender - and the provisions are about sex.
The EO is also very clear that men cannot become women or vice versa which necessarily precludes claims to sex change by clothing choices.

Well you can be as unconvinced as you like. I think you haven't understood my point which is that both the EO and the trans movement traffic in concepts of biological essentialism that are ultimately not feminist.

Katbum · 21/01/2025 23:35

TheCatsTongue · 21/01/2025 23:26

Something, something, far-right!

Can someone explain (other than everything you don't like is far-right) how believing that there are only two sexes is far-right?

Sexual dimorphism is now far-right?

No but applauding a rapist for introducing a mandate targeted at a minority group is quite close to the definition of 'far right'. Of course Trump believes men are men and women are women; have you seen how he treats women? You think this EO is good for women?

ChishiyaBat · 21/01/2025 23:39

Plastictrees · 21/01/2025 20:56

What a strange post. I’ve no idea what you think my problems are.

You seem totally ignorant to the fact that most people who are desperate to ‘transition’ are obviously in a state of distress and unhappy with themselves and their lives. Medical professionals, including mental health professionals, promote the idea that the solution to this distress is to ‘change gender’. Therefore it’s unsurprising we are in the position we are as a society, but I don’t blame individuals as this is very much a societal problem. If people are now expected to ‘de transition’ of course this will cause distress and possibly suicides, considering this was meant to be a solution to their problems and it’s now being ripped away - especially if they have had surgeries and taken hormones for years. It’s only human to have some empathy.

Where is the empathy for the women who want their privacy away from males and their rights upheld? What about empathy for the children who needed help not pushed into binders, puberty blockers and abused and sold a lie? Oh that's right there was and is none, you can keep bleating on about how hard it is for people who want to change gender (which is impossible anyway ), but it's equally as hard for women to be heard and their rights respected. Yet there is no empathy for them.

TempestTost · 21/01/2025 23:40

Katbum · 21/01/2025 23:33

Well you can be as unconvinced as you like. I think you haven't understood my point which is that both the EO and the trans movement traffic in concepts of biological essentialism that are ultimately not feminist.

It's biologically essentialist to say that sex is biological?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/01/2025 23:43

Katbum · 21/01/2025 23:33

Well you can be as unconvinced as you like. I think you haven't understood my point which is that both the EO and the trans movement traffic in concepts of biological essentialism that are ultimately not feminist.

Can you please quote the things in the EO you fear could be used to tie gender roles to sex? It's not how I read it but prepared to have my mind changed.

If your fear is more general along the lines of "having people's sex recognised legally could be used to oppress based on sex as well as support based on sex" well yes, that's kind of unavoidable.

You could even conceivably say that the only reason feminists need to care about sex is because sexists care about sex (1). Feminism ultimately only exists because of an injustice that I'm sure we'd all rather not face in the first place.

But, as long as the sexists do care about sex, we also need to be able to define people by their sex and at times support them in ways specific to their sex.

(1) Simplistic take of course, because even if sexism itself goes away it will be a very long time, if ever, before society manages to design itself in a way that women don't carry an extra burden and financial risk due to our reproductive role and therefore need sex specific rights and supports.

TheCatsTongue · 21/01/2025 23:43

Katbum · 21/01/2025 23:35

No but applauding a rapist for introducing a mandate targeted at a minority group is quite close to the definition of 'far right'. Of course Trump believes men are men and women are women; have you seen how he treats women? You think this EO is good for women?

I don't care about the history of the politician bringing in this EO, I care about the content. I don't care if the politician is from the red or the blue party.

There has just been pages and pages of ad hominem attacks in the hope that it diverts away from the content of the EO. People want an end to gender ideology.

And whenever it gets to people going on about the EO it is simply "trans people are vulnerable because they are trans", which is meaningless.

GlomOfNit · 21/01/2025 23:53

Haroldwilson · 21/01/2025 12:51

Would you say the same if he abolished gay marriage, brought in gay military bans, banned IVF, etc etc? They're of a piece with this.

You can think what you like about trans issues, a fascist leader making policy to appease right wingers rather than provide for the rights and freedoms of individuals is a bad thing.

It's pandering to the evangelical right and I guarantee you won't like all their views, even if you like this one.

Yeah, this. I cannot understand what this board has become, seemingly. Used to be lefties as far as the eye could see. Sad

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Ppzd · 22/01/2025 00:26

Toseland · 21/01/2025 20:29

Hmm, yes maybe I've not explained that very well. Take David Bowie, if he had been growing up today he'd probably be transitioned to being a girl and been too busy with that to bother making any music.

David Bowie never identified as female. He played with stereotypes and styles and he certainly believed in the fluidity of genders, but you're just talking nonsense and making hypothetical bollocks.

OvaHere · 22/01/2025 00:26

On the subject of empathy.

I'm willing to extend the same amount of empathy to the other side as they've shown to women and girls who have been asking for our rights, dignity and privacy back for the last decade.

I'll leave it to our trans activist visitors to determine for themselves just how much empathy that is.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/01/2025 03:47

Katbum · 21/01/2025 22:09

No. I don't support any policy that is targeting a vulnerable group by basically declaring they don't exist.

Sections Two F and Two G literally acknowledge the existence of gender identity as something that some people believe. No one, not even President Pussygrabber, is saying that trans people don't exist.

It's fine to disagree with what the EO actually says but it's dishonest to fabricate statements that aren't actually there.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 22/01/2025 03:50

Katbum · 21/01/2025 22:04

There have been concessions in the law that balance the rights of different groups since we have had laws. For example, we balance the rights of an unborn child to life with the right of a mother to choose by legislating around abortion (how many weeks, the health of mother and child commonly being areas of legislative change and debate). Women exist and men cannot become women. That's obvious and anyone arguing anything else is deluded. A very small minority of men choose to live as women, and have in most every society for as long as we have records (the sitiation on women living as men is much more complicated), the law somehow needs to accomodate those people, who are an enduring group. I'd prefer the law finds ways to accomodate them, while maintaining adequate protections for women. So no self ID, no males in women's prisons or sports etc. But to launch a presidency basically saying 'these people no longer have any rights in our society, the lives they are living are now unteneable and there is no debate on this' is not to me a progressive, feminist stance. Particularly not when dressed up in the language of 'two genders' corresponding to 'two sexes', which it doesn't take a great deal of foresight to see the people saying that have absolutely no interest in any kind of gender non conformity and are in fact proven rapists and abusers. It's just absolutely nuts any women are applauding this.

This is what happens when activists overreach and interfere with the rights of others: the pendulum swings back a looong way. We were warning you about this six years ago, if not longer.

Snowypeaks · 22/01/2025 05:31

Katbum · 21/01/2025 23:33

Well you can be as unconvinced as you like. I think you haven't understood my point which is that both the EO and the trans movement traffic in concepts of biological essentialism that are ultimately not feminist.

I have understood your point. You are fundamentally wrong about the EO, so I was charitably assuming that you had not read it.
Perhaps you can explain why you think it trafficks in concepts of biological essentialism with reference to the text of the EO?

Holeinamole · 22/01/2025 06:52

On minority status: just because someone is in a minority does not mean that their beliefs and opinions deserve respect or that the minority group is vulnerable. In the case of those who call themselves transgender, we are clearly speaking about an internally very diverse group that includes many, mostly male, individuals with power and privilege. Think about the last US presidential administration with a transgender surgeon general (who seemed to care very little about child welfare) or the congressman Sarah McBride who has been given high office despite minimal experience.

The discursive construction of trans vulnerability has for a long time been part of the wider political project, and that construction is driven by the males in the movement (possibly because it aligns with personal beliefs that consolidate individual identity and give them pleasure and satisfaction). Perhaps another reason why trans-identified women remain marginal in transgender politics despite making up the biggest cohort among trans-identified teenagers.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2025 06:54

OvaHere · 22/01/2025 00:26

On the subject of empathy.

I'm willing to extend the same amount of empathy to the other side as they've shown to women and girls who have been asking for our rights, dignity and privacy back for the last decade.

I'll leave it to our trans activist visitors to determine for themselves just how much empathy that is.

This and this

This is what happens when activists overreach and interfere with the rights of others: the pendulum swings back a looong way. We were warning you about this six years ago, if not longer.

All the attempted lines of attack on this thread are as hollow as the earlier threats and abuse. Women didn't give their consent, you didn't listen it was more important to keep overriding their views.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2025 06:57

Yeah, this. I cannot understand what this board has become, seemingly. Used to be lefties as far as the eye could see.

You didn't listen when women said they don't give consent.

Threats and abuse work for so long, then they don't.

BonfireLady · 22/01/2025 07:01

GlomOfNit · 21/01/2025 23:53

Yeah, this. I cannot understand what this board has become, seemingly. Used to be lefties as far as the eye could see. Sad

Perhaps this board is "me" in this infographic?

I think the spell is finally broken...
EasternStandard · 22/01/2025 07:12

MakeYourOwnMusicStartYourOwnDance · 21/01/2025 23:22

@RanchRat
GC ideology is now so right wing that you support pussy grabbing Trump and nazi saluting Musk. Shame

The far right has always been strong in this corner of MN, it used to be more covert and bubbling underneath the surface.
It's just now it's wide out in the open, pretence has been dropped. Mask has slipped, so to speak.

You didn't listen to women when they said no consent either. Why not?

Why did you think you could keep overriding their ask for dignity, privacy and safety?

AlisonDonut · 22/01/2025 07:15

The so called Lefties are now in power in the UK plotting how to freeze and legally 'voluntarily self delete' as many ill, sick or unhappy people as they can whilst they line their own pockets and concentrate on 'wealth creation' so excuse me if those of us left behind decide that Left isn't all it is cracked up to be.

Plastictrees · 22/01/2025 08:01

Pluvia · 21/01/2025 21:28

It's almost as if the women of FWR haven't been debating GI at a high and informed level for the last ten years, isn't it? As if real movers and shakers such as Magdalen Berns, people from. the Tavi and top-notch legal and academic experts never posted here to keep us informed. As if we've never sat through court cases, read the transcripts, debated the nuances of the Equality Act and the GRA, read the academic articles, studied the research and raised hundreds of thousands to support women's rights court cases — including Keira Bell. Let alone been to loads of events at which serious people spoke, or the fact that many of us have turned out in the rain to demonstrate, written hundreds of letters and created local terf groups together to turn this thing around.

This is terf central. This is where the UK fightback started. And you come on here and have the nerve to tell the equivalent of the terf SAS to 'Have some empathy' ? Not happening. We started out years ago with empathy, thinking there mustt be a middle way that would leave everyone happy enough. And then we learned about autogynephilia and fetishism and we saw how it all worked and we began to understand that this was a men's rights movement.

We have no more fucks to give. Stop it with the 'be kind' shite. We were beyond that by 2019.

I really cannot take anyone who says ‘TERF SAS’ seriously.

nutmeg7 · 22/01/2025 08:02

Katbum · 21/01/2025 20:00

its fairly obvious that trans women are at a huge risk of male violence. I don’t think ‘validation’ comes into it.

So why, when neutral 3rd spaces are proposed as a solution, do the TRAs react with such anger and talk of “othering”?

It is not totally about safety (and why don’t they campaign for acceptance by other men?) it is about being validated in their performative role as a woman.

Why is there an expectation that women will be accepting but men can’t possibly be expected to do the same?