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WPUK statement

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RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 28/11/2024 12:12

What should people make of this?

https://x.com/womans_place_uk/status/1862105940176060787?s=61

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Shortshriftandlethal · 29/11/2024 10:26

OldCrone · 29/11/2024 09:23

And they absolutely did not align with Hayton et al. That’s just nonsense.

Debbie Hayton spoke at three meetings. Kristina Harrison (another male) also spoke at three meetings.

A record of the meetings organised by WPUK

Yes, Hayton spoke at the Liverpool meeting in 2017, I think it was.

Pluvia · 29/11/2024 11:40

Like so many others here I'll always be grateful to them for being the first women's organisation to hold regional events that attracted significant numbers of women and allowed us/ encouraged us to network and get our own groups and campaigns started. It was clear from the outset that they were of the socialist left and I don't really see that the far left has shifted on gender ideology. Certainly at Labour's conference in Liverpool this year I had no sense that the unions had moved an inch on their pro-trans stance. It's ironic that instead of being able to shift opinion on the 'progressive' left or the unions or the Labour Party, WPUK galvanised a more effective populist movement that did have effect. I imagine it's been both challenging and embarrassing seeing the Tories come out in support of women while the Labour's left and the unions still take the TWAW line.

I stuck with WPUK through the 'domesticated zombies' and other concerns, but I was one of those who emerged from their Filia event in 2022 feeling uncomfortable with the finger-wagging warnings that we needed to be socialists or their undercover attack on KJK and her followers. My feminism doesn't extend to attacking women who hold different views in the way WPUK did, and their handling of criticism on this thread brought my relationship with them to a hard and unpleasant end.

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Pluvia · 29/11/2024 11:45

sweetsardineface · 29/11/2024 00:53

I’d love to hear Kathleen Stock’s response to the idea that ‘if you are an academic you can say things and others will nod in quiet agreement’. Do you have any idea how badly bullied, isolated and abused GC academic women have been?

Or Jo Phoenix's.

Pluvia · 29/11/2024 11:53

EmpressaurusKitty · 29/11/2024 08:33

The Bloomsbury meeting? Weren’t we sitting with Datun, Eresh?

Although I think the first meeting about all this was the one that Venice Allen organised in 2017, which was when a TRA beat Maria MacLachlan up at Speakers Corner, & they surrounded the (backup) venue with shouts of BURN IT DOWN. I remember someone pointing out important people to me (that’s Janice Turner, that’s PencilsInSpace) & the police escorting us out after.

Glad to see Venice Allen getting some credit here. She also organised a meeting at Millwall FC which was cancelled at the last minute. David TC Davies, a despised Tory politician, found a room in the HoC to hold the meeting and came and listened. I don't want Venice's contribution to be written out of all this. It was good to see her at the Supreme Court this week, with other top terfs.

RethinkingLife · 29/11/2024 11:54

My feminism doesn't extend to attacking women who hold different views in the way WPUK did

Agreed. I like Dworkin's advice on this:

“Feminism is a political practice of fighting male supremacy on behalf of women as a class, including all the women you don’t like, including all the women you don’t want to be around, including all the women who used to be your best friends whom you don’t want anything to do with any more. It doesn’t matter who the individual women are.” - Andrea Dworkin

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/11/2024 11:56

Glad to see Venice Allen getting some credit here. She also organised a meeting at Millwall FC which was cancelled at the last minute. David TC Davies, a despised Tory politician, found a room in the HoC to hold the meeting and came and listened. I don't want Venice's contribution to be written out of all this. It was good to see her at the Supreme Court this week, with other top terfs.

I linked to a great Feminist Current piece from that time.

Pluvia · 29/11/2024 12:04

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/11/2024 11:56

Glad to see Venice Allen getting some credit here. She also organised a meeting at Millwall FC which was cancelled at the last minute. David TC Davies, a despised Tory politician, found a room in the HoC to hold the meeting and came and listened. I don't want Venice's contribution to be written out of all this. It was good to see her at the Supreme Court this week, with other top terfs.

I linked to a great Feminist Current piece from that time.

Sorry, missed that.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/11/2024 12:09

It was her treatment by the Labour Party following on from Madigan etc that made me leave.

JoandArcFeminist · 29/11/2024 12:17

RethinkingLife · 29/11/2024 11:54

My feminism doesn't extend to attacking women who hold different views in the way WPUK did

Agreed. I like Dworkin's advice on this:

“Feminism is a political practice of fighting male supremacy on behalf of women as a class, including all the women you don’t like, including all the women you don’t want to be around, including all the women who used to be your best friends whom you don’t want anything to do with any more. It doesn’t matter who the individual women are.” - Andrea Dworkin

Agreed, which is also why I find those celebrating WPUKs end so aggravating too.

If we're respecting everyone's way if approaching women liberation (or, possibly just the gender ideology issue?? Depends whos talking I guess) then we need to respect WPs way of going about things

JoandArcFeminist · 29/11/2024 12:19

I'm so grateful for all the videos they put in youtube - free and informative and all starting just as I 'peaked' and was feeling lost - a bunch of us teens reading 2nd waves texts and wondering where it had all gone.

Pluvia · 29/11/2024 12:36

RethinkingLife · 29/11/2024 11:54

My feminism doesn't extend to attacking women who hold different views in the way WPUK did

Agreed. I like Dworkin's advice on this:

“Feminism is a political practice of fighting male supremacy on behalf of women as a class, including all the women you don’t like, including all the women you don’t want to be around, including all the women who used to be your best friends whom you don’t want anything to do with any more. It doesn’t matter who the individual women are.” - Andrea Dworkin

Yes, I have that quote here on my computer desktop. I'm also very aware that some of the most effective, and frankly nicest, women in my local ReSisters group and other groups I'm involved with don't share my political views.

IIRC, at the Filia event one of the speakers (was it Ali Ceesay?) talked about the need to include all women and not leaving any woman behind, while the event was aimed at attacking women like KJK, Kara Danksy, WDI supporters and any other woman who wasn't a socialist. Too much dissonance.

Pluvia · 29/11/2024 12:38

JoandArcFeminist · 29/11/2024 12:17

Agreed, which is also why I find those celebrating WPUKs end so aggravating too.

If we're respecting everyone's way if approaching women liberation (or, possibly just the gender ideology issue?? Depends whos talking I guess) then we need to respect WPs way of going about things

Ah, the fauxgressive left just arrived and told us to stop thinking what we're thinking and to shut up.

RoyalCorgi · 29/11/2024 12:40

EmpressaurusKitty · 29/11/2024 08:33

The Bloomsbury meeting? Weren’t we sitting with Datun, Eresh?

Although I think the first meeting about all this was the one that Venice Allen organised in 2017, which was when a TRA beat Maria MacLachlan up at Speakers Corner, & they surrounded the (backup) venue with shouts of BURN IT DOWN. I remember someone pointing out important people to me (that’s Janice Turner, that’s PencilsInSpace) & the police escorting us out after.

Yes, and it was that event, and what happened to Maria, that prompted the formation of WPUK.

EmpressaurusKitty · 29/11/2024 12:49

I’m reminiscing about Fair Play for Women’s Hands Off My Rights campaign in 2018 now. Was anyone else out there leafleting in a red T-shirt?

NotAnotherFeckingMuftiDay · 29/11/2024 13:06

Yes - I was out leafletting in my red t shirt with a group of women that I met on here.

Pluvia · 29/11/2024 13:12

Yes: I still have some of those Hands off My Rights leaflets on the premises, along with various others. I did have a t-shirt, too. No idea what happened to it.

Datun · 29/11/2024 13:12

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/11/2024 09:46

Debbie Hayton spoke at three meetings. Kristina Harrison (another male) also spoke at three meetings.

Yes and WPUK organisers told off anyone who pointed out that they were male. I remember Dr Julia Long getting shamed for it in a London meeting (not that she was that bothered I think).

They didn't/don't understand AGP, or grasp the nature of it.

Hence platforming an autogynephile in feminist meetings, attended by hundreds of women.

Datun · 29/11/2024 13:13

And yes Venice Allan was the first to hold meetings, certainly on my radar.

Am I imagining it, or did she actually write down her phone number on here. I'm sure I called her on my way to work!

RoyalCorgi · 29/11/2024 13:22

Datun · 29/11/2024 13:12

They didn't/don't understand AGP, or grasp the nature of it.

Hence platforming an autogynephile in feminist meetings, attended by hundreds of women.

In fairness to WPUK, those were early meetings and they stopped platforming trans women after that. Back in 2018/19 a lot of us still made the distinction between the old-fashioned type of trans-sexual and the newer type of trans-identifying men. And also platforming trans women provided WPUK with a handy rebuttal to people who said they were transphobic. Not that it did much good.

OldCrone · 29/11/2024 13:29

Datun · 29/11/2024 13:12

They didn't/don't understand AGP, or grasp the nature of it.

Hence platforming an autogynephile in feminist meetings, attended by hundreds of women.

I don't think Hayton was 'out' as an AGP at that point. I wasn't aware of that at that point, and I had no idea he had a wife and children (I think I assumed he was gay). But he was known to be a man pretending to be a woman, as was Harrison, which should have been enough for them not to be invited as speakers (multiple times).

I just couldn't get my head round how a group could be formed which took the view that women are female and need single-sex spaces, and people can't change sex, and then invite males pretending to be women to speak at their meetings.

I watched the video of Harrison's performance at one of their meetings, and I could see just how thrilled he was to be speaking there. It was all about him and it was extremely uncomfortable to watch. I don't understand how they couldn't see this and kept inviting him and Hayton to speak.

OldCrone · 29/11/2024 13:32

RoyalCorgi · 29/11/2024 13:22

In fairness to WPUK, those were early meetings and they stopped platforming trans women after that. Back in 2018/19 a lot of us still made the distinction between the old-fashioned type of trans-sexual and the newer type of trans-identifying men. And also platforming trans women provided WPUK with a handy rebuttal to people who said they were transphobic. Not that it did much good.

Yes, I think it probably was about fending off accusations of transphobia. But as you say, this didn't work. And I'm sure I wasn't the only woman who was put off by their platforming of males in womanface.

Datun · 29/11/2024 13:34

OldCrone · 29/11/2024 13:29

I don't think Hayton was 'out' as an AGP at that point. I wasn't aware of that at that point, and I had no idea he had a wife and children (I think I assumed he was gay). But he was known to be a man pretending to be a woman, as was Harrison, which should have been enough for them not to be invited as speakers (multiple times).

I just couldn't get my head round how a group could be formed which took the view that women are female and need single-sex spaces, and people can't change sex, and then invite males pretending to be women to speak at their meetings.

I watched the video of Harrison's performance at one of their meetings, and I could see just how thrilled he was to be speaking there. It was all about him and it was extremely uncomfortable to watch. I don't understand how they couldn't see this and kept inviting him and Hayton to speak.

Indeed.

It's something that Tinsel often points out. That people simply cannot help platforming men!

I guess that's down to a couple of millennia of telling women their opinions don't count. But once you notice it, it goes off like a klaxon.

But you have to notice it first.

DrSpartacular · 29/11/2024 13:40

It's good to see Venice getting the credit she deserves, but let's not also forget the feminist work done before then, eg:

'Thinking Differently: Feminists Questioning Gender Politics’ a one-day conference held at Conway Hall, London, UK, on Saturday 16 July 2016.

sweetsardineface · 29/11/2024 13:49

I also remember Dittany warning about the dangers of the gender cult here years ago.

RethinkingLife · 29/11/2024 14:17

Back in 2018/19 a lot of us still made the distinction

The scales upon scales discussion was invaluable here and always comes to mind for me…

You look at the handful of men with gender dysphoria and how to include them, and wish, with all your heart, that it could be that simple again.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me?messages=100&pg=1

This thread has been astonishing. I thought the scales had fallen from my eyes several months ago and realise now the scales had only fallen from the scales. The process of burrowing down beneath the layers of gas lighting, compromising, desire to be kind and inclusive that have clouded the arguments and caused people to find these issues confusing is really a journey in understanding how massively the world is run by men, for men. I thought I knew that, but I didn’t really have a clue. I rarely post but I read avidly and am spreading the word in real life. Every single person I have spoken to about the implications of self ID gets it immediately. They just find it very hard to believe that the govt, the BBC, schools, the NHS, the prison service, the Girl Guides, political parties, sports bodies, local councils, psychologists have all abandoned rational belief and scientific knowledge and think men are actually women “because they say so”.

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