What is unsurprising to most of us is that inevitably, the vast majority, bar a very few, of male people with transgender identities all end up with variations of the same line. That is ‘I still want to use female toilets and there is nothing you can say to stop me! And little you can do to stop me!’
No matter how supportive they are on the surface and how moderate they are on some issues, that end point tends to be sticky. Just look at Brianna Wu even in the past month. From the emotionally manipulative ‘but you all want me to be assaulted’ to the equally emotionally manipulative ‘I know I am not quite like you other women but yous all don’t know anything about the pain of not being able to present how you want to or to live with not expressing yourself like we poor men’s do!’ (paraphrased obviously).
It really is like a constant replay of most of the male posters with transgender identities we have had post similarly on MN FWR.
And yes, sadly it is those ‘reasonable’ male people who shape the policies. That is why I laugh in the face of despair when any poster tries the ‘but you should be moderate and reasonable, you are too extreme’.