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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The Democrats Need an Honest Conversation on Gender Identity Part 2

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Ingenieur · 18/11/2024 09:33

Starting a new thread in case the first fills up.

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LesbianNana · 19/11/2024 23:57

Manxexile · 19/11/2024 22:02

@LesbianNana:

"Actually the 14 million who didn’t show up for democrats this year will likely never show up again, as they were an anomaly in 2020.

2016 Hilary Clinton received 65,853,514 votes
2012 Barack Obama received 65,915,795 votes
2008 Barack Obama received 69,498,516 votes

This year votes increased for both parties but are closer to average turnout for democrats.

Also, Trump won with 76,430,999 votes this year and he lost with 74,223,975 in 2020. So he received 2,207,024 more votes this year."

Perhaps asking why so many democrat voters didn't turn out to vote in 2024 is the wrong question?

Maybe the right question is how the hell Biden got 81,283,501 votes in 2020, and where did they all come from?

How could Biden possibly have got 17% more votes than Obama did in 2008, and 23% more than Obama did in 2012?

Maybe Trump was right...

Lol A few days ago I saw a comment on a liberal sub on Reddit that said “Maybe we did steal the last election.”

Especially as this was a much, much more contentious election than the last one. It’s eyebrow raising for sure.

BonfireLady · 20/11/2024 00:00

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/11/2024 23:54

Women and girls are half the population. There's no excuse for promoting an unpopular pseudoscientific belief system over female rights.

Agreed. There's also no excuse for promoting it in schools. Vulnerable children are conflating their teenage angst (some with autism-related puberty distress, e.g. sensory issues with breast development and periods) with a belief that it's possible to be born in the wrong body.

Acknowledging that some people believe in it is not the same thing as promoting it.

LesbianNana · 20/11/2024 00:00

@Manxexile Where did they come from and where did they go this year?

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:02

BonfireLady · 19/11/2024 23:48

What is god?

There are many different answers to this. Many go round in a circle without explaining what or who god is e.g. god is in all of us, god is love, god is good, god is omnipresent. It's entirely coherent within a framework that supports the idea that god is real: if you believe in god, all these things make sense.

Just as the circular definition of gender identity is entirely coherent within a framework that supports the idea that gender identity is real. If you believe that gender identity is real, gender expression and gender affirming care make sense.

The salient point being that laws, education and healthcare shouldn't ratify any of it as real. Luckily, Christians agree (and there are church schools for those that want it ratified in education). Even more luckily, a belief in god won't lead anyone to harm themselves or others these days - unless your local church is run by the rave vicar of Sheffield, or you happen to be in Jonestown or Waco etc. Thankfully the church has left most of its extreme beliefs behind, a couple of centuries ago.

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I'm sorry, but no, within Christian philosophy, which is essentially a form of platonism, there are quite well defined definitions of what God is, what his relation is to the material world, and so on.

Yes, many people who are Christians don't get into philosophy, in the same way many people who "believe in science" couldn't tell you about the mathematics of black holes. That doesn't mean every individuals literary or imaginative ideas about them mean that science doesn't say something coherent.

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:05

BonfireLady · 19/11/2024 23:54

This is an interesting post. I have a couple of questions:

I start to think why can't boys compete alongside girls?

Does this mean you currently think that they shouldn't? If so, why not?

Why can't trans girls compete against girls?

What's the difference between a boy competing against a girl and a transgirl competing against a girl?

I was on mix-gender sports teams when in school and never had an issue personally, and don't see a problem with mix-gender sports. In fact I strongly believe that pushes to keep women out of men's sports has come from men not wanting to compete with us.

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:07

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/11/2024 23:37

Goodness, why did they have the opportunity to court feminists? What could have happened to make some left wing women think Trump was a better option?

Is Trump supposed to be the white supremacist?

I have a fair bit of non-white family and a lot of them would have voted for Trump over Harris, and while I wouldn't exactly say they like him, they don't think he's a white supremacist.

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:11

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:07

Is Trump supposed to be the white supremacist?

I have a fair bit of non-white family and a lot of them would have voted for Trump over Harris, and while I wouldn't exactly say they like him, they don't think he's a white supremacist.

Yes, he is racist. He has a long history of documented racism, including racist comments.

He aligns himself with white supremacists like Steven Bannon and Steve Miller. It's not a reach to think he shares their beliefs.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:11

Acknowledging that some people believe in it is not the same thing as promoting it.

I don't care that some people believe incoherent things. That's up to them, it's a free country. It doesn't mean that I have to treat them as a legitimate thing to believe.

As pp said, it's a 5 minute old belief. I'm not going to put in on the same level as more established ones.

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:11

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:05

I was on mix-gender sports teams when in school and never had an issue personally, and don't see a problem with mix-gender sports. In fact I strongly believe that pushes to keep women out of men's sports has come from men not wanting to compete with us.

Did you see what happened when Serena Williams played against the 203rd ranked male player?

She lost. Not a close match. The greatest female tennis player in history.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:12

Is Trump supposed to be the white supremacist?

Not just Trump I think, many of the people voting for him in the eyes of some.

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:13

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:11

Yes, he is racist. He has a long history of documented racism, including racist comments.

He aligns himself with white supremacists like Steven Bannon and Steve Miller. It's not a reach to think he shares their beliefs.

Yes, that is certainly the usual rhetoric one hears.

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:14

However, given some of the comments many progressive Americans consider bigoted, it's hard to take that kind of thing at face value.

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:14

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:13

Yes, that is certainly the usual rhetoric one hears.

When someone shows me who they are, I believe them.

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:15

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:11

Did you see what happened when Serena Williams played against the 203rd ranked male player?

She lost. Not a close match. The greatest female tennis player in history.

At a certain level of sport, or really anytime you're in the top of your field (and 203rd worldwide is still the top of the field), it is as much about luck as it is about anything else.

The old story of the girl and Babe Ruth comes to mind.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:16

When someone shows me who they are, I believe them.

Absolutely agree.

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:17

LesbianNana · 20/11/2024 00:00

@Manxexile Where did they come from and where did they go this year?

There are so many people who don't vote in the US, it's very possible there could be that kind of increased turn out.

Why would be the question.

Possibly people were more worried about Trump then? But for some reason are less so now. But I think what's more likely is those people turned out mainly against Trump and felt some kind of confidence about Biden. But they don't feel confident about Harris at all.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:18

At a certain level of sport, or really anytime you're in the top of your field (and 203rd worldwide is still the top of the field), it is as much about luck as it is about anything else

You should read up on the match. He had a few beers and cigarettes. He was out of shape. They were young and fit. It wasn't about luck, but of course that's always the genderist line Grin maybe try to come up with some less cliched arguments.

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:21

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:18

At a certain level of sport, or really anytime you're in the top of your field (and 203rd worldwide is still the top of the field), it is as much about luck as it is about anything else

You should read up on the match. He had a few beers and cigarettes. He was out of shape. They were young and fit. It wasn't about luck, but of course that's always the genderist line Grin maybe try to come up with some less cliched arguments.

Why would I bother? I could produce a twenty-year long multi peer review study for you in support of my argument and it wouldn't matter to you.

You'll just say oh, bingo/cliche/whatever excuse to not critically consider other viewpoints than your own.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:21

Possibly people were more worried about Trump then? But for some reason are less so now. But I think what's more likely is those people turned out mainly against Trump and felt some kind of confidence about Biden. But they don't feel confident about Harris at all.

Thing is, as a feminist, I agree there's probably sexism at play. Unlike Kamala Harris who I imagine thinks it's her gender identity people are judging.

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:22

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:15

At a certain level of sport, or really anytime you're in the top of your field (and 203rd worldwide is still the top of the field), it is as much about luck as it is about anything else.

The old story of the girl and Babe Ruth comes to mind.

What is that even supposed to mean? You think she lost because of bad luck?

She wouldn't agree with you, btw. That's why they chaallenged the #200 mean, not the # 1 man.

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TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:24

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:21

Possibly people were more worried about Trump then? But for some reason are less so now. But I think what's more likely is those people turned out mainly against Trump and felt some kind of confidence about Biden. But they don't feel confident about Harris at all.

Thing is, as a feminist, I agree there's probably sexism at play. Unlike Kamala Harris who I imagine thinks it's her gender identity people are judging.

Oh, I don't know.

The Democrats have been very odd in choosing as their first two women to run as president, very unpopular people.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:24

Why would I bother?

Because no one will take your comments seriously unless you do? Up to you whether you want to make any reasoned case for your views.

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:24

TempestTost · 20/11/2024 00:22

What is that even supposed to mean? You think she lost because of bad luck?

She wouldn't agree with you, btw. That's why they chaallenged the #200 mean, not the # 1 man.

Yes, luck.

Googling "times women have beaten men at sports" brings up a wealth of examples.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:25

It wasn't luck Grin

PinkChesnut · 20/11/2024 00:27

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/11/2024 00:24

Why would I bother?

Because no one will take your comments seriously unless you do? Up to you whether you want to make any reasoned case for your views.

Mmmm, no, I could be the most reasonable person on this and it wouldn't fly with you because you are entrenched in your beliefs and neither evidence nor perfectly framed arguments will sway you.

At this point your feelings matter more than hard facts. I'm centrist on this issue, and see the hardened attitudes in both camps.