I was told by a female NHS gynaecologist that women wanted HRT to make them attractive to younger men again. And that menopause only lasts two years.
I'm not a LN patient but I have watched her a few times on telly. In the early days she came across as wanting to help educate women but more recently - and since her clinics have multiplied - she seems different. As if she knows her clinics will be searched for by desperate women who might be getting the same nonsense from the NHS I was getting.
I did find another NHS gynae who listened to me, knew I'd done my homework (I found lots of information on the Menopausematters site), knew I'd had problems on some forms of HRT and knew I was concerned about endometrial cancer as my nan died from it. My mum spent the last miserable 5 years of her life in a body cast as her spine had crumbled from osteoporosis so I don't want that either.
My gynae also knew of my concerns about heart problems as heart attack killed most of my mum's family side in their 50's. This lot, along with awful menopausal symptoms made me determined to find a HRT that suited me. We agreed on a plan and I get annual endometrial scans, 3 monthly BP checks and annual cholesterol checks.
Or should.
My GP says every 5 years is enough for cholesterol despite me taking a drug that's known to raise it (and most of my family being seen at the high cholesterol clinic). I've not been scanned since just before Lockdown either and my GP says there's no need if I take my HRT as prescribed. Incorrect, but there you go.
My lovely gynae has retired and I've lost the will to live going through the GP to find a new one.