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biscuitandcake · 08/09/2024 15:25

SerendipityJane · 08/09/2024 10:23

He's also quite receptive to the idea that democracy is a dud and what we really need are men (natch) like him to run our lives.

Love the trend for American "thinkers" at the moment to talk themselves into reinventing the monarchy. Like what was the whole point of the last 250 years? Do the Bri'ish get an apology?

Happyher · 08/09/2024 15:31

Yes he’s a twat. I also think he’s very immature.

Happyher · 08/09/2024 15:32

Goatblu · 07/09/2024 17:43

I haven't even read your link but saw the thread title and wanted to say, yes, he is.

Same here 😀

EasySkankin · 08/09/2024 22:01

I like him. He is so unguarded- it’s an antidote to all the carefully staged personas people have in the social media age.

TempestTost · 08/09/2024 22:40

I don't think Musk is stupid, but like most people he has a lot more smarts about some things than others.

As far as women speaking or thinking freely. I do think that women are overall more risk adverse than men - maybe significantly so. I think there are a lot of solid biological reasons for that.

I've wondered if it means women are somewhat less likely to pursue risky ideas, or socially unpopular ideas.

TheCultureHusks · 08/09/2024 22:41

Money can’t buy brain cells.

unwashedanddazed · 08/09/2024 23:03

I don't get all the hate for him. I really like him.

I like how he's unafraid to tell powerful people to fuck off if he thinks they're behaving badly. I like that he wants to get us to mars. I like that he reinstated the accounts of people who have been silenced on Twitter, even the people I don't agree with. I don't agree with everything he says, but I don't completely agree with many people. It's ok to hold different ideas from others, it doesn't automatically make them twats.

UtopiaPlanitia · 08/09/2024 23:17

biscuitandcake · 08/09/2024 08:49

But its relevant, because the whole point of the post he found "interesting" is that people like him - neurodiverse "high status" males are better suited to making decisions than everyone else. If you are setting yourself and other men like you up as natural leaders, you open your character and leadership qualities (or lack thereof) for public discussion.

A lot of wealthy business people and high status academics seem convinced that they are more capable of running the world properly and that the plebs having a vote is a waste of time.

Doing well in one sphere of life, particularly one in which success insulates you from dealing with everyday peoples' problems, will give you an inflated idea of your own ability and competence. Musk is no different to a lot of this type of people.

TempestTost · 08/09/2024 23:26

Imean, as far as a public leader, I would not want Musk to be kind of sole dictator. But I think I'd prefer him as an MP or in that kind of role - where there are other people working together - over a lot of people actually doing it. I think he'd at least ask good questions and have some ideas that were really different from the same old approaches.

Jjiillkkf · 09/09/2024 07:01

MarieDeGournay · 08/09/2024 13:37

I'm not 'fundamentally at his mercy because' I have never engaged with Twitter or X because I could see what it was and where it was heading from the beginning.
I don't hate Elon Musk, I just don't engage with his empire.

I don't use Twitter either - but you can't argue that it isn't a powerful force in the feminist/TRA discourse. 4 years ago people were banned for telling the truth there, "misgendering" etc it simply couldn't be discussed and there was no way to raise awareness. Now they're not and the tide has turned.

biscuitandcake · 09/09/2024 08:13

TempestTost · 08/09/2024 22:40

I don't think Musk is stupid, but like most people he has a lot more smarts about some things than others.

As far as women speaking or thinking freely. I do think that women are overall more risk adverse than men - maybe significantly so. I think there are a lot of solid biological reasons for that.

I've wondered if it means women are somewhat less likely to pursue risky ideas, or socially unpopular ideas.

I think it makes women more likely to policeother women/"hold other women accountable" for "anti-social" behaviour. At one extreme that's bad, and leads to excessive purity spiralling. But at the other extreme it is good - e.g. If your friend abandons their child, or starts catcalling 15 year olds, or cheating on their spouse with gigalos, you as a woman will judge the shit out of them. Or all the men that were aware of the French rape case and didn't report to the police.

But men do care about what other men think and the consequences of not looking good in front of their friends. Hence other men awkwardly not saying anything when they think their friend is behaving badly. I think for men, the need for male approval comes more from a need for social status than for group safety. **

**obviously not all men are bad to that extreme. But anyone who has had a teenage boy misbehaving because their friends were will know males absolutely alter their behaviour to fit in with their peers at least as much as women.

TempestTost · 09/09/2024 10:28

biscuitandcake · 09/09/2024 08:13

I think it makes women more likely to policeother women/"hold other women accountable" for "anti-social" behaviour. At one extreme that's bad, and leads to excessive purity spiralling. But at the other extreme it is good - e.g. If your friend abandons their child, or starts catcalling 15 year olds, or cheating on their spouse with gigalos, you as a woman will judge the shit out of them. Or all the men that were aware of the French rape case and didn't report to the police.

But men do care about what other men think and the consequences of not looking good in front of their friends. Hence other men awkwardly not saying anything when they think their friend is behaving badly. I think for men, the need for male approval comes more from a need for social status than for group safety. **

**obviously not all men are bad to that extreme. But anyone who has had a teenage boy misbehaving because their friends were will know males absolutely alter their behaviour to fit in with their peers at least as much as women.

Yes, I'd agree with all that. Even most bad impulses have a reason behind them.

Teens in general are very conformist, contrary to what they seem to think themselves, boys and girls. No society would do well without some social norms. I think men might be a little more inclined to challenge social norms but that is not always a good thing!

TorghunKhan · 09/09/2024 10:35

Like everyone. Some of his ideas are insane, some are to be congratulated. It's as if the world is not a black and white place of heroes and villains.

TorghunKhan · 09/09/2024 10:38

MarieDeGournay · 08/09/2024 13:37

I'm not 'fundamentally at his mercy because' I have never engaged with Twitter or X because I could see what it was and where it was heading from the beginning.
I don't hate Elon Musk, I just don't engage with his empire.

By existing on planet earth - you do, whether you like it or not. From the effects of Twitter, Tesla and Starling not to mention SpaceX, your life has been deeply and unavoidably affected, I'd say majority (not entirely) for good, by Musk.

Lose6pounds · 09/09/2024 22:47

I think he’s brilliant. And I think the people on this thread saying he’s stupid are clowns.

Westea · 10/09/2024 02:11

Lose6pounds · 09/09/2024 22:47

I think he’s brilliant. And I think the people on this thread saying he’s stupid are clowns.

I don't think anyone is suggesting he's stupid. They are saying - and I agree - he lacks wisdom and shows poor judgement. That's entirely different from 'stupid'.

Lose6pounds · 10/09/2024 06:11

Summerhillsquare · 07/09/2024 16:45

A stupid one at that.

are you sure about this @Westea ?

ErrolTheDragon · 10/09/2024 08:17

I don't think anyone is suggesting he's stupid. They are saying - and I agree - he lacks wisdom and shows poor judgement. That's entirely different from 'stupid'.

It's the other common meaning of 'stupid', which is entirely different from intellectual and technical capability.

If you don't know clever people who've done stupid things you've never met many professors.Grin

SensibleSigma · 10/09/2024 08:29

He’s very useful. We need people who will throw ridiculous ideas and statements into the ring to duke it out with reality. Sometimes we make massive strides as a result.

The court jester was someone allowed to speak truth and poke fun at power.

Rogues and mavericks are important in healthy society. They help challenge the universally accepted but wrong. It goes wrong if they get into authority. Musk is powerful but has no authority. That’s good.

What matters is that we don’t keep holding people up as all knowing.

What has happened to us that we’ve lost our ability to discern and just become Team Posie, or Team Labour, or Team Musk?

Everyone says dumb stuff sometimes.

CassieMaddox · 10/09/2024 08:32

I think he's very dangerous. He appears to be well brought into a range of supremacist ideas.

This idea about "low T" is straight out of the incel playbook.

He also regularly tweets and responds to "replacement theory"/anti-muslim stuff.

He has numerous children by surrogate or IVF, mainly boys, with an implication the embryos are prescreened. He bank rolls the pronatalist movement that is encouraging "free thinkers" to reproduce to improve humanity

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/may/25/american-pronatalists-malcolm-and-simone-collins

He's regularly using twitter to undermine different countries democracies including ours.

Don't know how much more clearly someone needs to say who they are before people believe them.

America’s premier pronatalists on having ‘tons of kids’ to save the world: ‘There are going to be countries of old people starving to death’

Elon Musk (father of 11) supports their cause. Thousands follow their ideology. Malcolm and Simone Collins are on a mission to make it easier for everyone to have multiple children. But are they really model parents?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/may/25/american-pronatalists-malcolm-and-simone-collins

Brainworm · 10/09/2024 08:50

SensibleSigma · 10/09/2024 08:29

He’s very useful. We need people who will throw ridiculous ideas and statements into the ring to duke it out with reality. Sometimes we make massive strides as a result.

The court jester was someone allowed to speak truth and poke fun at power.

Rogues and mavericks are important in healthy society. They help challenge the universally accepted but wrong. It goes wrong if they get into authority. Musk is powerful but has no authority. That’s good.

What matters is that we don’t keep holding people up as all knowing.

What has happened to us that we’ve lost our ability to discern and just become Team Posie, or Team Labour, or Team Musk?

Everyone says dumb stuff sometimes.

I agree with this, but add that social media has changed the landscape.

There is an interesting Triggernometry podcast this week with a guy from the Center for Countering Digital Hate. Whilst I disagreed with a fair bit of what he said, he made some good points about algorithms and the impact they have.

Apparently, the CCDH are less interested in censoring speech than in seeing laws introduced whereby companies are required to publish the principles that inform their algorithms. This way, advertisers and consumers can make informed decisions about which platforms they wish to use and can better understand the information presented on the platforms.

I am not sure if such laws would achieve what's intended, but it's an idea I can get behind.

Knowing the ways in which Musk is manipulating the information we see (how popular certain views seem to be, how strongly they are felt, how common certain events are etc.) would mitigate some of the risk that comes with the power he has through controlling X.

Alwaystired94 · 10/09/2024 09:16

Agreed.

Dangerous man who will happily sell your soul to benefit himself. The fact he's putting so much money into Trump should say it all...

alittleprivacy · 10/09/2024 09:32

OvaHere · 07/09/2024 18:29

Maybe high T makes you say stuff when it would have been better to say nothing. Plenty of evidence for that. 😂

Musk would have low testosterone. High levels of belly fat in men causes a significant drop in testosterone. His weight coupled with his age mean he'd be very low for a man.

TorghunKhan · 10/09/2024 10:32

CassieMaddox · 10/09/2024 08:41

Selected Musk insights:

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/technology/2023/nov/16/elon-musk-antisemitic-tweet-adl

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna145020

https://techcrunch.com/2023/08/16/elon-musk-reportedly-donated-10-million-to-a-fertility-research-project/

I absolutely loathe the man. In my opinion he's got where he is through a combination of extreme privilege from the outset and a willingness to exploit others. He is no kind of role model and I'm not interested in those acting like he's some sort of unique genius just because he's mega rich.

He's literally changed the world, in at least 4 major, separate areas and moved humanity on by a generation. StarLink. SpaceX, Tesla. These things changed the world for the better by incredible margins. I'll put up with the rest of it, and not all of the rest is crap.

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