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tobee · 22/08/2024 22:41

Pushing of the trans agenda has given "woke" a bad name, and right wing traditionalists are all about reaping the benefits from this.

Lots of initiatives are lazy and performative because it's harder to do it well. Companies and institutions like to be performative to get kudos the easiest way.

And social media encourages people to be us or them; with help from populist governments etc.

Now other initiatives are going to lose out as a result in the name of anti woke roll back.

tobee · 22/08/2024 22:44

I started a thread on this board recently asking if trying to be truly diverse is always going to mean someone missing out.

AnnaBegins · 22/08/2024 22:47

I work for an American multinational who never bought into the gender politics thing, but sadly our DE&I training is still woeful and consists of a middle aged white guy explaining in a video why we shouldn't assume women like shopping.

Scrapping totally is not the way, but certainly encouraging to hear a move away from an anti-women agenda.

Rymeswithpunt · 22/08/2024 22:47

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Hoardasurass · 22/08/2024 22:50

If edi was actually doing anything to help disabled people (like my son and I) or helping women (the none penis owning type) or stopped any other form of discrimination instead of sowing devision and pitting groups against each other then yes this would be a sad thing but the fact is that it only helps men with special identities whilst paying lip service to everything else.
I'd like to see something that actually works instead of the current monstrosity that we have, how about instead of dividing us into competing groups we look at what we have in common and build on that for a change

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Scautish · 22/08/2024 22:55

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TempestTost · 22/08/2024 23:01

one that celebrates the return to racism, sexism and ableism. Seriously what the fuck?

No one said anything like this though.

DEI is not synonymous with avoiding discrimination etc.

It's way of thinking that is crude and reductionist and so doesn't lead to effective policies.

DevotedSisterBelovedCunt · 22/08/2024 23:03

Combattingthemoaners · 22/08/2024 21:55

Also struggling with this one myself! Making sure your staff body reflects wider society is a bad thing and “woke”? I don’t get it.

Me too. As far as I can tell, it's a shortcut used by people who aren't willing (able?) to form an argument to specifically address the thing they're concerned about and so just lump it in with everything else they don't like as "woke".

And so, very ironically, it's really just forced teaming. Just as our GC side has been perceptive in criticising the forced teaming of the T with the LGB, increasingly being GC seems to carry the assumption that you'll hold a suite of other views too. I used to enjoy KJK's rants about TW but, despite her insistence that she's a single issue activist, she does lately spend a lot of time on mad paranoid rants about two-tier policing and inverse snobbery about how everyone supposedly hates the working class. See also Glinner who has glided from trans issues to yelling about woke "NPCs" in reference to anyone who expresses mild criticism of Israel's actions or thinks Elon Musk is a bit bonkers.

And, just as ironically, it ("woke") is also a thought-terminating cliche. And after all our criticism of "trans women are women" and "my existence isn't up for debate", too! Tsk.

Rymeswithpunt · 22/08/2024 23:06

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I 've reported your post for the extreme emotional distress its caused me.

sadmillenial · 22/08/2024 23:08

i cant celebrate this - the best DEI initiatives arent about division, they're about being inclusive and removing barriers for some people. My workplace held all important meetings at 4pm (after hours) until it was pointed out that this time significantly reduced the input of working parents and carers. Now the time of meetings is rotated. We also had a prayer room that was only accessible by steep stairs, very difficult for anyone with mobility issues to use. Not everything is "woke"

Rymeswithpunt · 22/08/2024 23:14

Why am I not surprised that staunch defenders of the new liberal fundermentalism are the first to censor a mixed race disabled working class women.
Do you think this might be why EDI leaves a bad taste in most peoples mouths?

Scautish · 22/08/2024 23:15

Rymeswithpunt · 22/08/2024 23:06

I 've reported your post for the extreme emotional distress its caused me.

I’m autistic so sarcasm not my thing but suspect that you are being sarcastic about being distressed?

If it’s not sarcasm then perhaps don’t be mean to people and then get uppity when they call you out?

in any case I don’t think your attitude is helpful in trying to promote your cause (whatever that may be)

namenamification · 22/08/2024 23:22

This thread is deeply disturbing. It’s such a childish knee jerk reaction to be “anti-woke”. I have fought so long and so hard for inclusion and recognition of value in the workplace of women, of POC, of gay and lesbian people, of people with disabilities.

It is utterly sickening to see the destruction of that celebrated by people.

Rymeswithpunt · 22/08/2024 23:34

Scautish · 22/08/2024 23:15

I’m autistic so sarcasm not my thing but suspect that you are being sarcastic about being distressed?

If it’s not sarcasm then perhaps don’t be mean to people and then get uppity when they call you out?

in any case I don’t think your attitude is helpful in trying to promote your cause (whatever that may be)

and now your telling me how I should speak? oh my god
Just stop

Scautish · 22/08/2024 23:40

Rymeswithpunt · 22/08/2024 23:34

and now your telling me how I should speak? oh my god
Just stop

No just gently sharing some thoughts as you seem really wound up and angry.

But speak however you like but do be mindful of MN guidelines.

Rymeswithpunt · 22/08/2024 23:46

You are imposing your own discriminatory framework over the voice of someone with less power than you.
This is totally unacceptable in this space.
Instead of being an ally you have chosen to speak over and censor bipoc disabled voices.

You really need to reflect.

1dayatatime · 23/08/2024 00:01

@Combattingthemoaners

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Also struggling with this one myself! Making sure your staff body reflects wider society is a bad thing and “woke”? I don’t get it."

Because a company's employees (or as you describe it staff body) should be based on those that want who the job and who are the best candidates.

Trying to make your employees (or staff body) a mirror of society in terms of it's composition is both impossible to achieve and the act of trying to do so means selection becomes based on identity rather than ability.

95% of plumbers are male, 76% of teachers are female, 43% of footballers in the Premiership are black. Should this all change to become more reflective of society??

XChrome · 23/08/2024 00:13

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sunseaandsoundingoff · 23/08/2024 00:19

Jack Daniels, a company that profits off addictions and damaging people's organs and doesn't care that their products increase domestic violence, aren't woke? I'm shocked.

PurpleSparkledPixie · 23/08/2024 00:26

Ilovetuesdays · 22/08/2024 22:18

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Hope this works.

Unfortunately not. It loads halfway then stops. This site hasn't loaded properly for a few weeks now but not sure if its them or me.

Manxexile · 23/08/2024 00:47

1dayatatime · 23/08/2024 00:01

@Combattingthemoaners

"
Also struggling with this one myself! Making sure your staff body reflects wider society is a bad thing and “woke”? I don’t get it."

Because a company's employees (or as you describe it staff body) should be based on those that want who the job and who are the best candidates.

Trying to make your employees (or staff body) a mirror of society in terms of it's composition is both impossible to achieve and the act of trying to do so means selection becomes based on identity rather than ability.

95% of plumbers are male, 76% of teachers are female, 43% of footballers in the Premiership are black. Should this all change to become more reflective of society??

This ^^

I've never understood why it's a good thing that "the staff body" should reflect the composition of wider society.

I'd prefer that "the staff body" was made up of the best people to do the job - and I'd always thought that that was the whole point of equality and increasing diversity - they both widen the pool of talent that you can call upon and don't restrict you to looking just at white middle-class males - or whatever.

But if the purpose of DEI is just to try to remedy some perceived inequality of opportunity or other unfairness - historic or current - then it isn't going to work just by employing people on the basis of their sex or colour. It's only going to work by addressing the root causes of those inequalities and unfairness - and that means going back to more fundamental building blocks of society. Employing people just because they belong to a particular group isn't going to work.

And if DEI is about removing inequality of opportunity and unfairness, organisations ought to be employing more poorly educated working class white boys as they seem to be the ones missing out at the moment.

I worked as a NHS manager for 25 years. I think it all that time my trust was criticised by regulatory bodies because the composition of the board did not reflect the community we served. We had too many women executive directors and too many non-white executive directors. But nobody cared because they were the best people for the job. And that's what you need to look at - not whether somebody belongs to some group with an "identity".

Combattingthemoaners · 23/08/2024 01:19

1dayatatime · 23/08/2024 00:01

@Combattingthemoaners

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Also struggling with this one myself! Making sure your staff body reflects wider society is a bad thing and “woke”? I don’t get it."

Because a company's employees (or as you describe it staff body) should be based on those that want who the job and who are the best candidates.

Trying to make your employees (or staff body) a mirror of society in terms of it's composition is both impossible to achieve and the act of trying to do so means selection becomes based on identity rather than ability.

95% of plumbers are male, 76% of teachers are female, 43% of footballers in the Premiership are black. Should this all change to become more reflective of society??

But that wasn’t happening for decades was it? Meritocracy didn’t exist. If you were a well educated white heterosexual male you were more likely to get the job. This isn’t like a really fair and open process has been replaced with a very narrow and selective one. What do you want the alternative to be if diversity and inclusion is too woke and to be scrapped? Saying “the best person gets the job” would work if we didn’t live in a society full of prejudice and discrimination.

Regarding your examples. Plumbers = yes, more women would be brilliant, I imagine it’s white dominated too. White males don’t pop out the womb being excellent plumbers. Teachers = yes, especially primary. It would be great if it wasn’t seen as a female. This said, although teaching is female dominated guess who tends to dominate senior leadership positions? The Premier League = how many black managers or owners do you see? You can’t just pick one job role out and say it’s really reflective.

I am all for the best person getting the job but it simply wouldn’t happen regardless of D&I policies because we do not live in a fair society. We never have.

Codlingmoths · 23/08/2024 01:28

Ledeluge · 22/08/2024 20:56

Do you not worry at all that the people celebrating the end of diversity targets might also be anti woman and quite happy to see disabled and ethnic minority people under represented in the workforce?

I certainly do, this doesn’t seem a good move to me.

knitnerd90 · 23/08/2024 01:32

I fully acknowledge that corporate DEI is often window dressing. However the trans issue is really just a smokescreen. These companies don't want to deal with other forms of discrimination, but to say so would be vastly unpopular. That's why the American right is so obsessed with trans people. They certainly don't care about women's rights.

Brainworm · 23/08/2024 01:49

Bananaspread · 22/08/2024 22:28

Whilst equality of opportunity is obviously a good thing, most DEI initiatives do not really help. They are often tokenistic and superficial (eg trying to recruit more black people and not worrying about the fact that they’re all privately educated; fixating on pronouns). And they are a form of social engineering which is selective and crude: they fixate on skin colour because it’s easy to measure but ignore education, social class etc. Obviously the inequalities in society can’t be fairly solved by DEI initiatives anyway, they need to be addressed at the root (education/family/area).

Because of all the above people have become cynical and even hostile towards DEI. It’s sensible for businesses to scrap these initiatives and save some money, and just try to be as robust as possible when real discrimination occurs.

I agree with this, but I think we can be more ambitious than just seek to address discrimination when it occurs.

There are reasons why people from certain groups are underrepresented in certain roles and companies. We need to address them, not just engineer things so people from the underrepresented groups are slotted in. Unless they are the best candidates, a host of issues will arise.

In the last 10 years I have worked with people who have massively under performed due to being slotted in as part of a quota. Some of whom had significant potential, and if they had had better early opportunities, or better professional development, would have become shining stars (this is what EDI initiative should be about - getting the best people for the role and not letting them slip through the net due to not having had the right opportunities until 'now'). Some have just been rubbish hires and selected for quota reasons.

I think there are plenty of people out there that think companies should hire people from marginalised groups as this is social justice. Unless they are a charity with this specific aim, this is crazy. Furthermore, it's somewhat discriminatory when done so with an unconscious assumption that those people can't get the job on merit.