I think we also need to remember that the academic GC feminists are not very far removed, sociologically or ideologically, from the TRAs. They just want to be able to dissent on one thing.
I honestly don't say that to belittle them. They've shown real courage in sticking to a principled position at the cost of friendships, reputations, often loss of work. In a way they're like the Jewish lefties who want to be able to dissent on one thing. Even if I believe they're on a hiding to nothing, I've still got genuine sympathy with their position.
But I'm under no illusion that a huge part of their pain comes from being cast out of their social circle. They'd very much like to get back into that social circle, even if it doesn't want them. They certainly don't want to be associated with scruffy plebs who don't even have doctorates, who just happen to agree with them on this one thing.
All I'd say to them is that in my experience of left wing activism, being subjected to Scientology style shunning was not very pleasant. But it was a huge liberation to realise that I no longer cared what left wing activists thought about me.
Come over to the dark side. We have cookies.