When you talking about "being friends", what do you mean?
From my persepctive I think far too many people have a deep need to belong to a group and feel that having lots of 'friends' is desirable. Often it turns out that these 'friends' exist only in the mind, or on social media; and also these sort of 'friendship' groupings can get you excluded very quickly for the slightest 'wrong think' or smallest wrong step.
When people express, according to their own level of education or verbal dexterity, that they feel that there is a double standard operating whereby, for example, it is open season on criticising Christians (such as Katie Forbes during the SNP leadership election) whilst simultaneously lionising Islam ( New Muslim SNP leader shown at prayer in Bute House with his male relatives - as if this is some sort of 'progressive' success) - that is not "bollocks" at all. It is a valid observation.
Two tier policing has been very much in evidence recently....with Jews being arrested..whilst Gaza protestors scream anti semtic abuse and wave flags demonising Israel...without any police action at all......or when women gather to speak and trans activists, wearing masks, turn up screaming abuse: screaming " Fascist" and " scum" at you.......and the police do nothing at all. And this is outside of the Labour party conference and some of those screaming abuse are Trade union officials and Labour party delegates.