I got an email notification that a post of mine had been quoted
It has taken me a long time to read up to here because I did not want to jump in and respond to the quoting of my email in case I was misinterpreting the intention
I reject wholly my ‘status’ as a sexual assault survivor being cherry-picked out of my post and used as justification for a refusal to engage with another poster asking for just a list of reading sources
You did that Cassie whilst wholly ignoring the rest of my post which stated
that I had been excluded from “women’s” spaces when I needed them most by some left-wing females
that that experience has and is making my recovery significantly more difficult
and that despite that I had not gone to the far right because of it
but in fact had felt, and do feel, very lonely
that loneliness is because my need for my rights as a female to be upheld and supported has not been met by either ‘side’
Perhaps I should have been more explicitly clear - I have been excluded from most of public life because, perhaps well-meaning at first, left-leaning individuals who are employed by or work with organisations with direct power or influence on public services/spaces have decided that “women’s” spaces and services should include males and exclude females who need respite from males
I always associated right-leaning people with gender ideology in that they believed in distinct ‘males are/do this, females are/do that’ and males get to decide the breadth of responsibilities that females must shoulder and all the limitations they must live under
The shock and betrayal that I feel that left-leaning people - including left-leaning females who I had associated with championing female rights, now not only buy into that gender bullshit but have gone further by buying into and insisting males be allowed free reign in every aspect of a female's existence
because by doing so they are denying females any respite whatsoever from males gaze, presence, supervision, direction, involvement, access to our bodies - or even innermost thoughts on our trauma
It’s insidious, it’s absolutely institutional capture - right up to funders insisting males be included or services shut down.
And while it is ‘both sides’ for 100% sure the left - like women’s spaces - used to be a safe(r) option for females
And now have made it abundantly clear that, like the right, they want to support male wants over female needs
And anyone that objects is a bigot
I asked a female political rep from a left leaning party about female only services for rape victims and was called a bigot…
And here you are using my post about my trauma to deflect debate yet later on in this thread you question ‘what women’s spaces are’
I’m disgusted by the whole bloody shebang of arguing over who is the best feminist but using rape survivors as shields to cover yourself from criticism is really low Cassie and I am putting as much clear water between myself and you as I put between myself and racists like that TR man
because both of you are using the trauma of females abused by males to bolster your own agendas whilst simultaneously giving no fucks about how we feel about that - nevermind actually doing anything to address the root cause of our trauma
Males