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Will US Democrats support a WOC as their candidate or will they by pass Kamala Harris?

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IwantToRetire · 21/07/2024 22:24

Biden Drops Out of Presidential Race and Endorses Harris: Live Updates

After intense pressure from within his own party, President Biden said he was ending his campaign and backing Vice President Kamala Harris to run in his place. Ms. Harris said she would seek the nomination, adding: “Together, we will fight. And together, we will win.”

https://www.nytimes.com/live/2024/07/21/us/biden-drops-out-election

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TempestTost · 22/07/2024 19:34

I think George Clooney has too many skeletons that he'd like to remain in the closet to go into politics.

TempestTost · 22/07/2024 21:40

RedToothBrush · 22/07/2024 11:29

Women are held to higher standards than men.

Hence why Trump's divorces and sexual conduct are overlooked.

You have to compare what is overlooked and tolerated in Trump's behaviour and consider whether that would be the case for any woman.

Indeed your point here is that Harris and Clinton's performance and personal manners is used when deciding whether they are suitable.

Yet these things are as rock bottom as it gets when it comes to Trump.

A Republican woman who wasn't whiter than white wouldn't ever make the nominations. They have to be wholesome - any hint of there being something perfect and it's fully used against them. Even Sarah Palin had issues when stuff came out about her daughter. She had to say her daughter would have the baby and marry the father (the daughter didn't in the end).

Don't forget as I say, there's different values systems at play here. A republican woman must be pure and wholesome. A democratic woman must be a good career woman with an excellent track record. Arguably men from their respective parties don't have to display the same qualities. And equally this issues have cross over. An American who is left leaning will not value a republican female candidate who is religious and does the whole pure thing unless they have the career track record. And an American who is right leaning will not value even an excellent democratic candidate as highly unless they have the right values and respect for religion. But the same can not be said for male candidates. There's less weight put on the problems with male candidates who have had affairs and don't have the best track record as long as they are perceived as 'good strong leaders'.

Again it comes back to the stereotypes of weak not being as strong and capable as leaders and having to demonstrate significantly more than a male candidate in the same position.

So I stand by what I said.

I think their personal manners are all relevant, but it isn't always in the most obvious way. I don't think your idea that expectations for male and female figures is divided quite so clearly holds up. Some people connect and some don't. Men that don't connect, or seem to despise their voters, also don't get votes.

I'm not really understanding this idea you have that a Republican woman would be less likely to have had a career, I suppose it's possible but most female Republican political figures have had careers. Especially any of them likely to run for president.

Lots of people hate Trump's manner, and his divorces, etc. Some vote for him despite these things. - many people are choosing what policies seem least bad to them. any people feel like that about Bill Clinton too. But others like Trump's big, weird personality, and no one denies BC had a ton of charisma. HC and Harris aren't disliked despite having similar personality flaws to Trump and Bill, their inability to connect with voters is entirely their own.

Sun7July · 23/07/2024 13:44

I think we are all really just scared she doesn't get in and so many of our posts express our worry, which is by nature more negative than the real picture.

Trump is a deeply flawed character, and a lot of sane people would need to hold their noses to the point of pain to vote for him simply to avoid a non-descript black one.

However, the worrier in me has to concede that it is possible. I just hope we all fear too far.

MarieDeGournay · 23/07/2024 16:23

I'm still chuckling at Kamala Harris's speech yesterday where she said :

I took on perpetrators of all kinds. Predators who abused women. Fraudsters who ripped off consumers. Cheaters who broke the rules for their own gain. So hear me when I say, I know Donald Trump's type

Smoking!😄

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:16

XChrome · 21/07/2024 22:30

If I know the Democrats, they'll run her despite her unpopularity, and they will lose. Making a statement seems to be more important to them than winning. Far better to run somebody who can win, giving them the chance to actually help WOC.

What do you mean by 'making a statement'?

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:20

CantDealwithChristmas · 22/07/2024 12:42

Republicans have had to pivot their rhetoric on the hop from "Biden isn't fit to run for the next term" to "Biden is completely unfit right now", because they can't do anything else.

...which is precisely the hot question on US media right now, after Frank Biden's clusterfuck of an interview a few hours ago.

KH might end up having to invoke the 25th.

She also got a problem, which is by no means a small one, of legal challenge - Republicans could quite well argue that they now have to start an entirely new campaign against Harris after spending $$$ against Biden and, if it was known beforehand that Biden was never capable of second term, this amounts to fraud.

if they can bring these challenges in a number of states as some of them have just confirmed they will, then KH won't get on the State ballots in time.

Really is worst case scenario for the Dems and I wonder what happened in the last 24 - 48 hours to force this.

The Republicans have no case. The Dems don't have to formally endorse anyone until their Convention, and in fact the nomination isn't even legal until September when the papers are filed. It was great timing for Biden to step down after the Republicans wasted their convention hating on Biden for his age and decrepitude. Bit of an own goal given Trump's age and cognition.

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:21

MarieDeGournay · 23/07/2024 16:23

I'm still chuckling at Kamala Harris's speech yesterday where she said :

I took on perpetrators of all kinds. Predators who abused women. Fraudsters who ripped off consumers. Cheaters who broke the rules for their own gain. So hear me when I say, I know Donald Trump's type

Smoking!😄

That is depressing. Only a presumptive nominee one day and rather than presenting proper arguments and ideas she resorts to name calling.

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:26

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:20

The Republicans have no case. The Dems don't have to formally endorse anyone until their Convention, and in fact the nomination isn't even legal until September when the papers are filed. It was great timing for Biden to step down after the Republicans wasted their convention hating on Biden for his age and decrepitude. Bit of an own goal given Trump's age and cognition.

It seems an odd case for republicans to try to make. On the otherhand, if I was a member of the Democratic Party, I would be furious at the anointment of Harris by the party elite without party members being asked. I saw Harris stating she was the nominee and had the support. But on what basis did she say that? Surely it needs to go to the democratic conference first and for the state reps to decide, not just mega fund raisers and party elite?

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:26

Floisme · 22/07/2024 09:40

I don't think it can be underestimated, the breathtaking arrogance of Harris and other senior Dems in recent months, lying to camera again and again, saying that Biden was 'sharp as a tack'. A bare faced lie told again and again. The sheer disrespect shown to democracy of that will be one for the history books.

I couldn't agree more. Industrial scale deception and, as far as I'm concerned, no-one who colluded with it should be allowed anywhere near public office again .

And the breathtaking arrogance of the Republicans in nominating Trump, a sexual predator, instigator of an actual coup and disgusting rip-off merchant? What was democratic about January 6th? I reckon that will be somewhat more prominent in the history books.

As Biden's VP, she stayed loyal to him. That's an admirable quality. He hasn't given a reason for withdrawing. They let it play out and hopefully laughed themselves silly at the Republicans only strategy as seen at their convention - denigrating Biden for his age and condition.

As the Republican Nikki Haley said to her party - if you nominate Trump, you end up with President Harris.

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:28

Trump fought the primaries and won. That is democracy.

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:32

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:26

It seems an odd case for republicans to try to make. On the otherhand, if I was a member of the Democratic Party, I would be furious at the anointment of Harris by the party elite without party members being asked. I saw Harris stating she was the nominee and had the support. But on what basis did she say that? Surely it needs to go to the democratic conference first and for the state reps to decide, not just mega fund raisers and party elite?

Well 2,688 delegates have endorsed her so far so it's hardly a risible number seeing as a candidate only needs 1,976 votes to secure a nomination. The clincher in one way is that all the other potential strong candidates said they wouldn't be running within hours of Biden's announcement.

Given the confusion over the past month, I imagine the firmness of the endorsement and the subsequent show of unity is welcomed by a lot of party members. They can wait until 19th August but I don't see it likely that there will be any other viable candidates.

RitaIncognita · 23/07/2024 17:33

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:26

It seems an odd case for republicans to try to make. On the otherhand, if I was a member of the Democratic Party, I would be furious at the anointment of Harris by the party elite without party members being asked. I saw Harris stating she was the nominee and had the support. But on what basis did she say that? Surely it needs to go to the democratic conference first and for the state reps to decide, not just mega fund raisers and party elite?

A majority of delegates to the Democratic convention have declared for her. That makes her the presumptive nominee. The delegates are elected in the state primaries. There's no time to redo the primaries, so those delegates will choose the nominee.

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:33

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:28

Trump fought the primaries and won. That is democracy.

How about his encouragement of the attempted coup on 6th January 2021? Was that democratic?

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:35

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:21

That is depressing. Only a presumptive nominee one day and rather than presenting proper arguments and ideas she resorts to name calling.

At least it's based in fact unlike the disgusting Republic name-calling

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:39

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:35

At least it's based in fact unlike the disgusting Republic name-calling

The republicans name calling of Biden’s cognition was based in fact too. But it is still depressing that Harris starts her presidential campaign with mud slinging. ‘The other side does it too/more/worse’ doesn’t make it less depressing.

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:44

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:39

The republicans name calling of Biden’s cognition was based in fact too. But it is still depressing that Harris starts her presidential campaign with mud slinging. ‘The other side does it too/more/worse’ doesn’t make it less depressing.

How was what she said name calling? All those things are on the legal record. Biden's cognition isn't.

Floisme · 23/07/2024 17:46

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:26

And the breathtaking arrogance of the Republicans in nominating Trump, a sexual predator, instigator of an actual coup and disgusting rip-off merchant? What was democratic about January 6th? I reckon that will be somewhat more prominent in the history books.

As Biden's VP, she stayed loyal to him. That's an admirable quality. He hasn't given a reason for withdrawing. They let it play out and hopefully laughed themselves silly at the Republicans only strategy as seen at their convention - denigrating Biden for his age and condition.

As the Republican Nikki Haley said to her party - if you nominate Trump, you end up with President Harris.

Once again, diverting the discussion to the Republican party.

I would never vote for Trump and, for what it's worth I was, until the last election a dyed in the wool Labour voter. However I think the most toxic and dangerous of all Trump's legacies is the way some Democrat supporters now appear unable or unwilling to ask questions of their own party's behaviour, or hold them to account. I think the way they tried to cover up Biden's failing health was an absolute disgrace, not to mention unbelievably cruel to him.

IwantToRetire · 23/07/2024 17:51

I would be furious at the anointment of Harris by the party elite without party members being asked. I saw Harris stating she was the nominee and had the support. But on what basis did she say that? Surely it needs to go to the democratic conference first and for the state reps to decide, not just mega fund raisers and party elite?

There is nothing to say they want go through the process of the usual convention.

And it has been said that one of the reasons Obama hasn't said anything yet (well may have changed in the past few hours) is to press for the usual process to be carried out. (He seems to be the master of behind scenes manipulation ie getting his article published as though from an outside "actor" and now this.)

This is because Obama wants or knows how important it is given they type of accusation Trump will make as well as Democrat voters alienated by the Washington elite, that KH is seen to have been chosed via the usual democratic process.

And not as a fan of Obama, and thing this will be really important for her.

Nothing worse for a woman in a top job to think she has been given it by her male patrons, rather than winning on her own merit.

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twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:52

Floisme · 23/07/2024 17:46

Once again, diverting the discussion to the Republican party.

I would never vote for Trump and, for what it's worth I was, until the last election a dyed in the wool Labour voter. However I think the most toxic and dangerous of all Trump's legacies is the way some Democrat supporters now appear unable or unwilling to ask questions of their own party's behaviour, or hold them to account. I think the way they tried to cover up Biden's failing health was an absolute disgrace, not to mention unbelievably cruel to him.

Speaking as a Democrat supporter and absolutely against Trump.

It's simple. A massive swathe of voters see Trump as the biggest threat to democracy in American history and so their focus is defeating him whatever it takes. It's a binary choice between him and a Democratic nominee, and so anything said about the Democrats needs to be countered in case it affects that key objective which is to stop Trump becoming president. To millions who are completely terrified of a Trump presidency, this is a completely urgent situation with more at stake than any previous election.

Floisme · 23/07/2024 17:56

I think 'whatever it takes' is very, very dangerous thinking.

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 17:57

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:33

How about his encouragement of the attempted coup on 6th January 2021? Was that democratic?

If he has the right to stand then it is up to people to decide to vote against him. Questions over a coup should have been addressed through the courts and if found guilty should have banned him from political office. As they didn’t, intense dislike/concern for his policies is not enough reason to stop him standing. I would like to think the Republican’s would be in a better position now with a different candidate but Trump knows how to appeal to a lot of Americans.

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 18:07

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 17:44

How was what she said name calling? All those things are on the legal record. Biden's cognition isn't.

He has not been found guilty of any of those things. He was found guilty of false accounting by recording payments to his lawyer as legal advice rather than as onward payments to another party. The rest might seem obvious, as obvious as Biden’s cognitive decline, but he has not been found guilty of those things. Perhaps why Harris only inferred the relationship between ‘his type’ and those activities. But such name calling doesn’t take us anywhere. We know what Trump is like, those who disagree will ignore. Republicans will respond in kind. We are told nothing positive about what she intends to do as president. It is depressing because Presidents should be chosen because you think they can do good, not because you hate the other guy.

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 18:18

Floisme · 23/07/2024 17:56

I think 'whatever it takes' is very, very dangerous thinking.

I'm just reporting on what I've seen - as in people saying they'd vote for anyone the Dems nominated - and clearly to a lot of voters a Trump presidency is by far the most dangerous prospect.

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 18:22

Sloejelly · 23/07/2024 18:07

He has not been found guilty of any of those things. He was found guilty of false accounting by recording payments to his lawyer as legal advice rather than as onward payments to another party. The rest might seem obvious, as obvious as Biden’s cognitive decline, but he has not been found guilty of those things. Perhaps why Harris only inferred the relationship between ‘his type’ and those activities. But such name calling doesn’t take us anywhere. We know what Trump is like, those who disagree will ignore. Republicans will respond in kind. We are told nothing positive about what she intends to do as president. It is depressing because Presidents should be chosen because you think they can do good, not because you hate the other guy.

I'd also like to know more about her actual policies but she can't directly campaign to be President yet as she hasn't been formally nominated as a candidate. I'd presume that if/when she is nominated is the time for her to set out her policies. For now, the most pressing thing is that Dems have to be convinced she can beat Trump so they can get behind her.

Floisme · 23/07/2024 18:33

twodowntwotogo · 23/07/2024 18:18

I'm just reporting on what I've seen - as in people saying they'd vote for anyone the Dems nominated - and clearly to a lot of voters a Trump presidency is by far the most dangerous prospect.

I realise that and I remain shocked, firstly at the lengths Biden's team must have gone to in order to deceive their own voters, secondly at the humiliations they've subjected Biden himself to, and thirdly at the apparent reluctance of some Democrat supporters to even say, 'What the actual fuck were you playing at?'

I'm getting concerned that we might be losing sight of the very thing we're supposed to be trying to defend.

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