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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Genuinely baffled by this article

5 replies

AltitudeCheck · 20/07/2024 21:02

I know, my own fault for opening a Metro article and expecting common sense...

On the one hand, lesbian dating apps are full of men and couples and it doesnt feel like a safe space to be... therefore lesbian dating apps need stricter controls to filter out cat fishing, unicorn hunting and cis-men pretending to be women to get cheap kicks out up chatting lesbians.... sounds good!! But also.... stricter controls shouldn't disadvantage non-passing trans identifying males who are just there to flirt with the gals like the rest of us lesbians... 🤦🏼‍♀️

https://metro.co.uk/2024/07/14/using-dating-apps-a-lesbian-pretty-grim-21121491/?ico=mosaic_sex

OP posts:
Catsmere · 21/07/2024 00:29

"Lesbians should know they exist to service TW, not those other men."

Helleofabore · 21/07/2024 05:00

Apparently more indepth questioning on sign up is the answer, OP. That miraculously can sort the genuine male ‘lesbians’ and women from the men.

The article read like the dissonance alarm was deafening for the writer.

theilltemperedclavecinist · 21/07/2024 09:14

However, there is a concern that such verification processes might place obstacles in the paths of transgender users who merely wish to flirt on dating apps like the rest of us, particularly those who aren’t physically ‘female passing.’

Journalist doesn't say she shares this concern. I think this piece could make some readers think on.

KnittingKnewbie · 21/07/2024 09:19

Hmm so they want to get rid of the men who are pretending to be women (ie MEN) but not the men who are pretending to be women (ie TW, aka MEN)

timenowplease · 21/07/2024 09:27

At least there's an article about it in a mainstream newspaper. The narrative has moved on from 'people are who they say they are - no debate'.

I don't think that could have happened last year.

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