I adored his books (loved TP more, but still) and did think he seemed one of the good ones.
Then that Times article about their marvellous open marriage gave me the slight ick.
Then he started supporting the medicalisation of confused children and calling concerned women bigots.
Then he fucked off from NZ and abandoned his child in the middle of a pandemic.
At this point I thought selfish Wokey Blokey twat, what's new.
Still didn't expect this but I note it's a well trodden trajectory.