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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Cross party support to make misogyny a hate crime

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CassieMaddox · 18/06/2024 23:30

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c899nxwz3y3o

Reform and Conservatives not interested, natch.

But this is great news. Looks like it will happen, and about bloody time.

A cardboard sign saying "STOP KILLING US" is seen at a memorial site, among candles and flowers, in Clapham Common Bandstand, following the kidnap and murder of Sarah Everard

Support for plan to make misogyny a hate crime

There have been cross party calls to make misogyny a hate crime on during an election debate on women's safety.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c899nxwz3y3o

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AlisonDonut · 20/06/2024 18:50

UtopiaPlanitia · 20/06/2024 17:35

I would like to think this couldn’t happen but I’ve read multiple news stories (UK & Ireland) over the years in which men who committed gross indecency, child sexual abuse, and common assault have all claimed gender dysphoria in the witness box and been given suspended or lighter sentences because of it. I genuinely can’t understand why judges see the concept of gender-related distress as a way of justifying or explaining away horrific behaviour - these men were in full control of their faculties when they committed the crimes.

The way in which the legal system lets down women and children never fails to shock and distress me.

I want legislation that protects women and children and so also want judges to properly apply it.

Legislation that sentences people for bad crimes rather than intent?

For deeds not words?

And that stops putting dangerous men straight back on the streets?

Yes please!

Morwenscapacioussleeves · 20/06/2024 18:58

Lou7171 · 20/06/2024 12:32

Really? A hate crime has broader effect beyond the individual victim targeted.

Having this distinct category of crime and subsequent data helps a society recognise if it has a problem with racism, homophobia etc. Of course it's needed! It's not just something recently made up by the woke!

Yes really 🤷‍♀️
Of course data should be collected but it shouldn't make a difference to the punishment etc

BloodyHellKenAgain · 20/06/2024 19:03

duc748 · 20/06/2024 18:45

Been waiting for Val to pitch up on this thread! 😃

😁

CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 19:15

TempestTost · 20/06/2024 18:01

Sure. A woman kills a man because she hates men. A woman destroys some man's property because she sees him as a symbol of male privilege.

It only has to happen once for that to be a hate crime, if we actually think that crimes due to sex categories are wrong.

Are you willing to say that things like this hasn't ever happened?

How we decide whether any particular individual crimes are examples of this is, of course, very fraught, in almost all instances, because proving people's motivations is very difficult.

Has this ever happened or is it purely theoretical?
As opposed to the unquantifiable women affected by misogynistic crime every day?

It is the very definition of "what about the men?" Time was this sort of thing got short shrift on here, because it's anti-feminist.

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CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 19:19

Imnobody4 · 20/06/2024 18:06

Maybe rapes could be exempt on the grounds its already a sex based crime so inherently misogynistic? 🤔

Rape is not I repeat not a sex based crime from a victim perspective. Men can be raped. Currently the most prolific rapist in the UK exclusively raped men. It's a serious crime which should be treated seriously in every case.

If you have street harassment legislation that again addresses the problem, as did the upskirting law. The Tories have agreed this.

Legislation may be needed re social media with regard to threats but that applies to everyone. The Hate Crime aggravation stuff is a distraction, it would have to be proved and be outside the parameters of free speech and the right to offend.

Make the police do their jobs and hold them to account for bias. If they don't arrest offenders and CPS wont prosecute misogyny as a hate crime is useless.

Dont introduce more divisive ill thought out legislation. Look what a mess the GRA has visited on us.

I'm not sure you've read my posts properly.

It is a sex based crime (biological sex, not fun sex) because all rapists are men

Therefore I think it could be exempted so as to not create a hierarchy of victims. Actually it would be nice if we did something effective about rape full stop.

Why are you so keen to argue that women shouldn't benefit from the same laws that are already in place to signal no tolerance for other types of discrimination?

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CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 19:23

BloodyHellKenAgain · 20/06/2024 18:30

Yes, the attempted murder of Andy Warhol by Valerie Solanis on behalf of SCUM (Society for Cutting up Men).

So a crime motivated by something else (the fact she thought he was stealing her work) that was committed over 60 years ago in a different country demonstrates it necessary to also legislate against misandry while dealing with misogyny, which causes countless women to experience various levels of harm every day in the UK.
Gotcha Hmm

Why can't we for once just do something for women?

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CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 19:25

Also it doesn't look like it was associated with SCUM but nice try. I'm pretty good at spotting mens rights propaganda.

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LlynTegid · 20/06/2024 19:25

The sooner it happens the better.

There was no chance of it happening when Boris Johnson was Prime Minister as his behaviour was misogynistic or worse.

BloodyHellKenAgain · 20/06/2024 19:38

CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 19:23

So a crime motivated by something else (the fact she thought he was stealing her work) that was committed over 60 years ago in a different country demonstrates it necessary to also legislate against misandry while dealing with misogyny, which causes countless women to experience various levels of harm every day in the UK.
Gotcha Hmm

Why can't we for once just do something for women?

I think you're putting words into my mouth. I just answered your question.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/06/2024 19:48

CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 15:50

Of course governments prefer input from orgs than "the public". Because the public has a very diverse spectrum of views and its not possible to gather and represent them all. That's also why we have a representative democracy rather than a direct democracy.

that sector is largely middle-class, IDPol-espousing women who are anti-GC Right, so it's not actually about men being in charge then? It's about the "wrong kind of women", e.g. ones who don't agree with your politics.

I'd far rather a "non-GC woman" was involved in drafting anti-hate crime legislation than we had none and continued with a situation where misogyny is tolerated. Or it wad drafted by a GC man.

I find this so interesting. To me it's ideological purity to say you don't want "middle-class, IDPol-espousing women who are anti-GC" involved in legislating for women. Excluding certain types of women based on their politics is often a criticism made of "the left" yet increasingly its being used by GC feminists as a reason not to engage with various other womens groups.

That's a false dichotomy. No one is saying these women should not have a voice. We are saying they should not have the only voice. Activism for cross sex identities and rights, mainly by incorrectly presenting these demands as analogous to LGB or feminist causes, has resulted in GC perspectives being excluded and therefore groupthink on trans issues by those who are heard.

Waitwhat23 · 20/06/2024 20:08

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 20/06/2024 15:45

Imagine if women had said that about self ID in 2015.

What do you mean? Women did say "there is no sensible way to do this that doesn't damage women" and got thoroughly ignored. While in Scotland the government's favourite women's organisations all said "lovely jubbly" and we very nearly got stuck with self-id. It's only because FWS argued it through the courts (which cost hundreds of thousandsof pounds out of women's pockets) and showed that self-id messed with UK equalities legislatiton that the UK govt stepped in and stopped it. (Well, mostly - Isla Bryson helped as well.)

If one party tried to use this as an opportunity to harm womens interests, the other parties would use that to make political capital.

No they wouldn't, that's not how political capital works. Making political capital is about how good things sound, not how good they are. Being anti-misogyny sounds good and whether the proposal actually harms women or not is secondary. As it is for you.

And not even that but in Scotland the only groups invited to be part of the conversation by the Government all receive funding from the SG which is contingent on them having 'inclusive' policies (I.e. self id in prisons and refusing to provide single sex rape crisis provision). There was no opposing views permitted. Reem Alsalem, the United Nations Special Rapporteur on violence against women and girls, was only invited to speak at Stage 3 of the GRR bill and after public opinion forced it.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 20/06/2024 20:15

Cometh the legislation, cometh the accusations. We don't know what this "misogyny" hate crime will be or what people will make of it.

And you reckon we're just going to have to legislate against misandry as well, are we? OK then, here's a sex-based example for you: a woman kills her abusive husband and is found guilty of a hate crime because she was heard to say "all men are bastards".

Wonder how long it will take before equality slips in a hate crime of "misandry"? I reckon about two months after misogyny.

Most people didn't predict what a fuckup gender self-id was going to be for women. The women who realised and tried to warn were told they were making a fuss over nothing, that this never happens, that it only affected a teeny number of people, that it was happening anyway, that it was just a bureaucratic nothing, that women were being petty and that everything from electoral reform to climate change was more important.

And then of course a lot of it did happen, and it continues to happen, with women fighting frantically just to roll back to the level of misogyny we had before and no worse.

So I've become mistrustful of well-meaning but badly thought out proposals for legislation. I'm not a legal expert but you'd better make sure that it is better for women and that you have a good hard listen to the legal experts and knowledgeable people (including Conservatives) who says it isn't and their reasons before you decide. .

TomPinch · 20/06/2024 20:17

CassieMaddox · 19/06/2024 21:42

Sorry, I don't understand.
The cross party proposal is to make misogyny a "hate crime" like racism. I.e. an aggravation to an existing offence.

It's a bit confusing because pp started talking about Scotland where there are specific crimes of misogyny. But I think meadow was talking about the hate crime proposal for England and Wales.

In that case I'm not sure we disagree then :-) I was originally replying to Meadow' post further up: it said misogyny should be made a hate crime.

But it seems even the UK Law Commission are using that that when what they're actually discussing is whether misogyny should make existing offending a hate crime. That's loose language by the Law Commission and it's misleading.

As for Scotland, well, they're doing all sorts of ideological, impractical things up there.

Waitwhat23 · 20/06/2024 20:22

So I've become mistrustful of well-meaning but badly thought out proposals for legislation.

Same.

CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 20:30

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/06/2024 19:48

That's a false dichotomy. No one is saying these women should not have a voice. We are saying they should not have the only voice. Activism for cross sex identities and rights, mainly by incorrectly presenting these demands as analogous to LGB or feminist causes, has resulted in GC perspectives being excluded and therefore groupthink on trans issues by those who are heard.

I think it would help to read the whole conversation to fully comment. It was quite a complex conversation that can't be boiled down to "false dichotomy" on the basis of one reply.

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AmaryllisNightAndDay · 20/06/2024 20:32

TomPinch · 20/06/2024 20:17

In that case I'm not sure we disagree then :-) I was originally replying to Meadow' post further up: it said misogyny should be made a hate crime.

But it seems even the UK Law Commission are using that that when what they're actually discussing is whether misogyny should make existing offending a hate crime. That's loose language by the Law Commission and it's misleading.

As for Scotland, well, they're doing all sorts of ideological, impractical things up there.

Scotland is not an irrelevance to England and Wales.

It's a warning.

CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 20:32

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 20/06/2024 20:15

Cometh the legislation, cometh the accusations. We don't know what this "misogyny" hate crime will be or what people will make of it.

And you reckon we're just going to have to legislate against misandry as well, are we? OK then, here's a sex-based example for you: a woman kills her abusive husband and is found guilty of a hate crime because she was heard to say "all men are bastards".

Wonder how long it will take before equality slips in a hate crime of "misandry"? I reckon about two months after misogyny.

Most people didn't predict what a fuckup gender self-id was going to be for women. The women who realised and tried to warn were told they were making a fuss over nothing, that this never happens, that it only affected a teeny number of people, that it was happening anyway, that it was just a bureaucratic nothing, that women were being petty and that everything from electoral reform to climate change was more important.

And then of course a lot of it did happen, and it continues to happen, with women fighting frantically just to roll back to the level of misogyny we had before and no worse.

So I've become mistrustful of well-meaning but badly thought out proposals for legislation. I'm not a legal expert but you'd better make sure that it is better for women and that you have a good hard listen to the legal experts and knowledgeable people (including Conservatives) who says it isn't and their reasons before you decide. .

I'm not sure who you are replying to. I 💯 agree there is no need for a hate crime of misandry. It would be ridiculous.

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CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 20:33

TomPinch · 20/06/2024 20:17

In that case I'm not sure we disagree then :-) I was originally replying to Meadow' post further up: it said misogyny should be made a hate crime.

But it seems even the UK Law Commission are using that that when what they're actually discussing is whether misogyny should make existing offending a hate crime. That's loose language by the Law Commission and it's misleading.

As for Scotland, well, they're doing all sorts of ideological, impractical things up there.

That's what I thought! I thought we were on the same page about it.

The different legislation in Scotland is confusing this I think!

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AmaryllisNightAndDay · 20/06/2024 20:47

CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 20:32

I'm not sure who you are replying to. I 💯 agree there is no need for a hate crime of misandry. It would be ridiculous.

I thought I was replying to you, when you asked "Has this ever happened or is it purely theoretical?" but things were a bit embedded by then so I was mistaken(!)

But even if you think there's no need for an aggravating crime of misandry and it would be ridiculous, and even if I think so too, well we might find a lot of other people disagree. If we can have misogyny then why not?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/06/2024 21:03

CassieMaddox · 20/06/2024 20:30

I think it would help to read the whole conversation to fully comment. It was quite a complex conversation that can't be boiled down to "false dichotomy" on the basis of one reply.

I did read it thanks. I also know how to suck eggs, in case you felt like offering any advice in that area.

Your post claimed posters "don't want "middle-class, IDPol-espousing women who are anti-GC" involved in legislating for women" and were "Excluding certain types of women based on their politics"

Please post what you think was said prior to that which invalidates my point that interpreting other posters saying the groups consulted came from a narrow range of people as them saying certain groups should not be consulted at all is setting up a false dichotomy between GC posters who want to "exclude certain types of women" and the current position where it is GC voices that are excluded, when the real improvement is to have a range of voices which is what the posters were actually proposing.

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/06/2024 21:11

I am a feminist. My feminism centres women.
Not men.
Not men that I agree with.
Not fear of men.
Not even men who say they're women.
Definitely not men who "are only trying to protect" women.

I can see the benefits for women of making misogyny a Hate Crime, of dedicated courts to deal with the disgusting backlog of rape cases, of cross party cooperation on how best to protect women and children. I am not frozen or governed by fear that some blokes might benefit.

If it happens, we'll fight it. It's the feminist way.

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/06/2024 21:20

TempestTost · 20/06/2024 18:01

Sure. A woman kills a man because she hates men. A woman destroys some man's property because she sees him as a symbol of male privilege.

It only has to happen once for that to be a hate crime, if we actually think that crimes due to sex categories are wrong.

Are you willing to say that things like this hasn't ever happened?

How we decide whether any particular individual crimes are examples of this is, of course, very fraught, in almost all instances, because proving people's motivations is very difficult.

No it doesn't only have to happen once. I don't think you understand misogyny and it's cost.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 20/06/2024 21:24

CassieMaddox · 19/06/2024 13:26

Fascinating that the default of many posters is to think that this is a coordinated attempt by "the left" to use the law to attack GC women, rather than a change in government being seen as an opportunity by the majority of parties to provide parity in how crimes against women are treated compared with other crimes motivated by prejudice.

I don't think it's a coordinated attack on GC women. I do fear the intersection of well meaning misogyny legislation and a social environment where the basis on which a person is understood to be a woman is not universal will have unintended results.

"Mlud, members of the jury, I put it to you that although my client admits he did indeed throw tomato juice over Ms X's white jeans and lead the chant of "on the rag, on the rag" , this behaviour, while admittedly assault, can hardly be considered misogynistic, since we as a civilised society rightly acknowledge menstruation is not an perogative only of women, nor is it in any way expected that all women will have the type of body that menstruates"

"Sorry luv, I know he called you an uppity bitch who needs a slash to match her gash, but you were wearing an obviously unfeminine outfit at the time so it's unlikely he perceived you as a woman. It's not a hate crime"

My fear is that the things that can be accepted as clear misogyny will exclude things that are based in women's biology or directed at female people, which leaves very little.

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/06/2024 21:26

Morwenscapacioussleeves · 20/06/2024 18:58

Yes really 🤷‍♀️
Of course data should be collected but it shouldn't make a difference to the punishment etc

Of course it should. If someone is inherently hostile to the point of being violent to over 50% of the population, they should face increased sentences. They should not be released until they are capable of managing their rage.

Morwenscapacioussleeves · 20/06/2024 21:32

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/06/2024 21:26

Of course it should. If someone is inherently hostile to the point of being violent to over 50% of the population, they should face increased sentences. They should not be released until they are capable of managing their rage.

My objection is to all hate crime legislation.

man A kills man B because he doesn't like his football team.
man C kills man D because he doesn't like that he is gay.

Both A & C should be punished, I don't believe that man A deserves a lesser punishment.