Hello, I hope it's OK to post here, I'm a man (retired NHS psychiatrist) and not a parent either but I've followed this thread with great interest because I have the same problem as many who've posted here. I too live in MK where if she's elected Frances Bonney would be my MP so I googled and found this very helpful discussion. Thank you. I have tonight emailed her (I hope it does actually reach her for there's only an address given for the constituency). I'm not at all sure she'll reply, apart from understandable reasons of being very busy right now!
After a preamble in which I stated my own gender-critical views, I got to this bit: 'My understanding is that the Green Party as a collective would not agree with me.
'But right now I'm most interested in what you yourself personally believe and would campaign for, or would be permitted by your party to campaign for, should you be elected to parliament. Would you campaign to uphold the facts of biology, to respect language and logic, to discourage (at least) the forced speech involved in pronoun deployment? Would you campaign to safeguard the freedom from legal prosecution of anyone who refuses to deny the evidence of their own eyes and ears, and simply cannot take part in some polite pretence that a man is (really, somehow) a woman? (A person might choose as a courtesy, out of not wishing to upset someone, to reify gender over sex and I could understand that, and indeed sometimes respect it, but only if it's a course freely chosen.) ...
I added that I'd always been a lifelong Labour voter but simply can't vote for them this time, however there were times in the past I voted Green and even was, albeit briefly, a party member.
If she does reply, I'll report it here, if that's OK.
All best
Brian