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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lib Dem manifesto

153 replies

GoogleWhacking · 10/06/2024 11:36

Has anyone seen it? They are pledging to recognise non binary identities in law and remove the need for medical reports for the GRA!

Definitely not voting for that!!

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Cattenberg · 10/06/2024 17:29

TinselAngel · 10/06/2024 12:47

It's not a veto, it's an exit clause. Removal of the Spousal Exit Clause is a long term Liberal Democrat Policy.

Annelise Dodds has also said recently that it is Labour Policy.

That’s disgusting 😔. I can’t vote for any party which shows such contempt for women’s rights.

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 10/06/2024 17:33

"Philosophically, I believe in the freedom of the individual to be who they want to be"

What about women who want to be in a women only space? Doesn't your philosophical freedom extend to us?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/06/2024 17:42

Ta-daa!

Thanks @ArabellaScott! Silly fool.

ArabellaScott · 10/06/2024 17:45

Bit harsh, I was only trying to help. 😂

fedupandstuck · 10/06/2024 17:58

""Philosophically, I believe in the freedom of the individual to be who they want to be"

If that was a pre-prepared answer in 2019, Davey and his team haven't really analysed that though much.

He talks as if it's an established well known freedom. But, it isn't and it can't be. People can't just be who they want to be. I can't be the president of the USA. I can't be a prize winning artist or an Olympic sprint champion. I can believe, or pretend to be those things. But I can't make anyone else agree with me and behave accordingly.

Perhaps he means, the freedom of an individual to express themselves how they want to express themselves. Which is a more realistic position, but of course one person's way of expressing themselves cannot override any one else's rights and personal freedoms. Surely he knows that?!

borntobequiet · 10/06/2024 18:01

Philosophically, I believe in the freedom of the individual to be who they want to be

Unless what they want to be is not someone forced into a “same sex” marriage against their will.

elgreco · 10/06/2024 18:10

Not only forced same gender marriages. Some gay men and lesbians will be forced into opposite gender marriages also.

How is this even possible though, surely someone will take legal action. You can't enter a contract and then change the terms without the agreement of the other party.

GoogleWhacking · 10/06/2024 18:18

I find it thoroughly concerning that our electoral candidates don't have the intelligence to see the full impact of the bullshit that they spout to their natural conclusion. How on earth have we got to this.

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Brainworm · 10/06/2024 18:19

I think the bit about wanting people to be able to define themselves and not let others define them is something that gets very mangled.

Scenario 1: Many socially liberal people are against people being pigeonholed by societal norms. With this in mind, we have GC people who can get behind the idea that your sex should not limit you in terms of stereotyped ideas about femininity and masculinity. Here, there is push back in relation to ideas that being in the male or female category should limit opportunity based on sex stereotypes.

Scenario 2: Then there are some batshit 'social liberals' that seem to suggest (I don't think they actually do believe) that sex categories are opt in/ out categories and any suggestion otherwise is committing the same problems as the above scenario highlights.

People like Ed Davie use the Scenario 1 rationale to make a case for or defend the Scenario 2 position and it infuriates me.

What remains unknown, is what part the different MPs are playing. Are they deliver avoiding thinking it through properly? Are they cowardly and not wanting to rock the boat? Are they fully aware of the manipulation but think the ends justify the means?

I simply don't believe that they don't understand the difference!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/06/2024 18:22

Bit harsh, I was only trying to help.

Grin
MagnetCarHair · 10/06/2024 18:26

PlanetJanette · 10/06/2024 16:42

I’m sure AfD voters spoke of nothing else other than LibDem gender recognition policy over the last few weeks.

https://www.euronews.com/my-europe/2024/05/28/why-is-german-youth-so-easily-seduced-by-afds-ideas

^"What I hear from young people repeatedly when I am at schools is this whole LGBTQ+ community, that you are no longer allowed to criticise things without being immediately labelled as a right-wing extremist."

"Or if you say a man in women's clothes is still a man, you immediately have to hear, 'Oh, you're just a Nazi,' which has become so commonplace in our society."

Some of these ideas seem to be resonating with a surprising number of people.^

Why are German young people so easily seduced by AfD's ideas?

Why are German young people so easily seduced by AfD's ideas?

Recent voter surveys say between 14% and 22% of under-30s would vote for the far-right Alternative for Germany party in the upcoming European elections. But who are these potential voters? #EuropeNews

https://www.euronews.com/my-europe/2024/05/28/why-is-german-youth-so-easily-seduced-by-afds-ideas

MagnetCarHair · 10/06/2024 18:31

So, no, they aren't talking about the libdems but they are talking about how they are held in contempt for not falling in line with faith-based truth claims generated by the progressivists.

WickedSerious · 10/06/2024 18:40

They forgot free ice cream and a pony for every household.

BloodyHellKenAgain · 10/06/2024 19:09

The state of left and centre left politics is really upsetting. I'm seriously considering voting Conservative as a protest vote.

NecessaryScene · 10/06/2024 19:20

but of course one person's way of expressing themselves cannot override any one else's rights and personal freedoms. Surely he knows that?!

I think you have to be a Level 11 Liberal Democrat to acquire that sort of Knowledge. I guess he just wasn't there yet in 2019? But maybe...

JanesLittleGirl · 10/06/2024 19:30

Philosophically, I believe in the freedom of the individual to be who they want to be

So if I wanted to be a serial killer.......

Chersfrozenface · 10/06/2024 19:38

JanesLittleGirl · 10/06/2024 19:30

Philosophically, I believe in the freedom of the individual to be who they want to be

So if I wanted to be a serial killer.......

It's like that saying "Be true to yourself".

What, even if yourself is a violent psychopath?

RoyalCorgi · 10/06/2024 19:40

People can't just be who they want to be. I can't be the president of the USA. I can't be a prize winning artist or an Olympic sprint champion. I can believe, or pretend to be those things. But I can't make anyone else agree with me and behave accordingly.

Davey has a first-class degree in PPE from Oxford. I would have assumed that grappling with difficult philosophical and political ideas are a fundamental part of doing a PPE course. It beggars belief that Davey can't even grasp the simple distinction you make between being what you want to be and being free to express yourself in the way you want.

You can't just be what you want to be in the sense of having the state and wider society accept your own self-definition. You cannot just decide that you are black, or 15 years old, or have a disability, and expect the state to treat you accordingly.

I absolutely despair if this is the level of thinking from people who are supposed to be our brightest and best. I've come across 10 year olds who could do better.

Zita60 · 10/06/2024 19:55

"While I don't pretend to be an expert, I do find the different arguments and evidence that trans women are somehow a danger to other women totally unconvincing. Like all bad arguments, they take one or two rare incidents, and try to hang a full-blown thesis on them. These are not "legitimate concerns' and I don't believe we should engage with them."

That's part of the problem, right there.

Whether or not transwomen can be a danger to women isn't an "argument", a matter of belief. It's either true or it isn't. That's what he should engage with, not dismiss them as "not legitimate concerns".

The statistics strongly suggest that transwomen are more of a danger, especially if they still have male genitalia, in which case they are capable of raping us. The statistics of the rates of sex offending among trans prisoners show this. It's not just "one or two rare incidents".

Not all transwomen are rapists, of course, just as not all men are rapists. But all rapists are men or transwomen, and that's why we want safe spaces that keep them out.

Brainworm · 10/06/2024 20:27

The 'I find the argument that trans women are a danger unconvincing/bigoted/prejudiced' line is similar to the 'live and let live' line. Both show a lack of understanding of the objections being made.

Some people pull those lines knowing full well that this misrepresents the objections GC make. Some do this simply to obfuscate as they know that they will lose ground if people properly understand the objections. Some do it simply to enjoy the frustration and upset it causes GC women.

Citrusandginger · 10/06/2024 20:36

fedupandstuck · 10/06/2024 13:03

Perhaps a coalition is more possible than I'm currently thinking. Lots could change between now and July 4th, no doubt. At the moment though it seems likely that Labour will have a large majority.

That's a concern of mine. I want a labour government but I'm worried enough about Annaliese Dodds & her ilk prevailing. We don't need women's rights to become a bond to throw at a coalition partner.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/06/2024 20:40

Citrusandginger · 10/06/2024 20:36

That's a concern of mine. I want a labour government but I'm worried enough about Annaliese Dodds & her ilk prevailing. We don't need women's rights to become a bond to throw at a coalition partner.

Yes!!! That’s exactly what happened before - in 2010 Cameron threw it as a sop to the Lib Dem’s and we got the transgender action plan https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a79d132ed915d6b1deb38f7/transgender-action-plan.pdf

i doubt the tories even gave it a second thought but it underpinned do much of the crap we’re having to unpick

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/5a79d132ed915d6b1deb38f7/transgender-action-plan.pdf

DesparatePragmatist · 10/06/2024 20:40

This is so depressing. I looked for this thread to help me understand just how bad it is... and it's bad. I'd even flirted with the idea of voting LibDem as they're stronger on environmental issues than Labour and in my Tory stronghold might be the best bet to remove the Tory MP. I was doorstepped by my very personable LibDem candidate the other day, told him why I'd left the party and couldn't vote for them, asked his views, he said 'if you have testicles and a penis you're a man, even if you've altered your body with surgery'. They're not all loons. It's such a shame their manifesto team are...

Chersfrozenface · 10/06/2024 20:43

DesparatePragmatist · 10/06/2024 20:40

This is so depressing. I looked for this thread to help me understand just how bad it is... and it's bad. I'd even flirted with the idea of voting LibDem as they're stronger on environmental issues than Labour and in my Tory stronghold might be the best bet to remove the Tory MP. I was doorstepped by my very personable LibDem candidate the other day, told him why I'd left the party and couldn't vote for them, asked his views, he said 'if you have testicles and a penis you're a man, even if you've altered your body with surgery'. They're not all loons. It's such a shame their manifesto team are...

What would that candidate do if he became an MP and was whipped to vote with the party line on gender issues?

Labour MSPs were whipped to vote in favour of the SNP/Greens' batshit gender legislation, remember.

GoogleWhacking · 10/06/2024 20:51

DesparatePragmatist · 10/06/2024 20:40

This is so depressing. I looked for this thread to help me understand just how bad it is... and it's bad. I'd even flirted with the idea of voting LibDem as they're stronger on environmental issues than Labour and in my Tory stronghold might be the best bet to remove the Tory MP. I was doorstepped by my very personable LibDem candidate the other day, told him why I'd left the party and couldn't vote for them, asked his views, he said 'if you have testicles and a penis you're a man, even if you've altered your body with surgery'. They're not all loons. It's such a shame their manifesto team are...

What about the ones who have had their male parts removed? They are still men.

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