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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
SushiAndRamen · 26/05/2024 22:12

MotherEarthisaTerf · 26/05/2024 10:34

boils down to

  1. social media is not the place to have a debate
  2. she hasn’t researched enough
  3. she needs to devote a whole book to the issue
  4. the debate is toxic and scary

🙄🙄🙄

SushiAndRamen · 26/05/2024 22:13

fiskaloopa · 26/05/2024 10:42

Her cowardice on this subject really riles me up. She monetises feminism
without doing the work or living the values.

Similar to sending her kids to private school, she made her name / money from her identity as working class hero and then claimed some absolute bollocks about not being able to get a school place (in London Hmm). Fine if she'd been honest about wanting to make that choice for her kids but the hypocrisy is really grim.

She annoys the living crap out of me! Insufferable woman.

HermioneWeasley · 26/05/2024 22:15

She’s a hypocrite and a coward who knows dam well we shouldn’t be putting rapists in women’s prisons and stands by and lets better women take the abuse for saying that.

she can fuck off. I won’t give her clicks or buy any of her books again.

SnapdragonToadflax · 26/05/2024 22:19

I really don't think it's helpful to have a go at women who are fairly obviously GC but don't want to incite the wrath of the TRAs. Yes, of course it's cowardly - but everyone has their reasons and their lines, and the right to be a coward if they want to be. Someone who had teenage daughters when this all started was probably in a very difficult position. And it's true she hasn't made enough money to risk never working again.

ditalini · 26/05/2024 22:26

I assume a private gender critical position in anyone like Moran who doesn't genuflect twaw to appease the holy gods of Pride.

I don't read her anymore because, while I understand her position is a financially astute one, it rather detracts from the way she initially presented herself. There are plenty of other women to read instead.

I hope in her private life she sticks up for the women in media who are braver than her though.

popebishop · 26/05/2024 22:28

I think she got into hot water ages before all of this as well by using a word that rhymes with granny, as an affectionate term she said because she had lots of TW friends who were fine with it as a sort of jokey term, but then lots of people were "you don't get to"-ing her . So I think she had an early taste of the "cancelling". I could be misremembering though!

MyOleMan · 26/05/2024 22:46

She is such a disappointment. A couple of years ago she said only women knew what it was to have periods or have a womb or something and she was attacked by YRAs. She immediately backed down. All that ‘I’m so hard, I’ma kick ass woman’ turned out to be total rubbish

Mumoftwinsandasingleton · 26/05/2024 22:49

Talking about this topic openly on a public platform is scary. Your whole career could be ruined for voicing an honest opinion. She's probably just aware that her career will end if she talks about it

WinterTrees · 26/05/2024 23:03

Mumoftwinsandasingleton · 26/05/2024 22:49

Talking about this topic openly on a public platform is scary. Your whole career could be ruined for voicing an honest opinion. She's probably just aware that her career will end if she talks about it

This may be true but she can't have it both ways. She's either a feminist commentator (which is the brand she's built) or she's not. If she is, she should comment on this core feminist issue. If she doesn't feel able to do that maybe it's time to carve out a new media niche for herself, as a gardening writer or something.

OriginalUsername2 · 26/05/2024 23:08

HermioneWeasley · 26/05/2024 22:15

She’s a hypocrite and a coward who knows dam well we shouldn’t be putting rapists in women’s prisons and stands by and lets better women take the abuse for saying that.

she can fuck off. I won’t give her clicks or buy any of her books again.

wrong Thread

AstonUniversityPotholeDepartment · 26/05/2024 23:24

Credit where credit's due: she's better than Layla Moran.

theDudesmummy · 26/05/2024 23:25

Moran has always been an annoying and rather immature performative "feminist " and very much in the "I'm mad me" mould as a PP has observed. I lost patience with her a long time ago. My DD, aged 31, liked her for a while but has outgrown that too.

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 26/05/2024 23:28

I did agree that the vitriol around this subject is much worse because of social media.

HermioneWeasley · 27/05/2024 06:59

@OriginalUsername2 how is my comment on the wrong thread? It’s about Caitlin Moran’s craven Vichy “feminism”.

wizarddry · 27/05/2024 07:00

ladybirdsanchez · 26/05/2024 10:36

NR accuses her of sitting it out, because it's just easier and nicer and allows her to sell books without any of the toxicity being associated with her and she agrees with him! Pathetic IMO. She's no feminist.

Well is he joining in or is he sitting it out? Why is it on her?

Villagetoraiseachild · 27/05/2024 07:38

I don't know, maybe she is going through the menopause from hell as well as challenging family circs that can occur simultaneously.
Maybe all the courage she has is needed elsewhere.

SidewaysOtter · 27/05/2024 07:59

ArabellaScott · 26/05/2024 16:25

It's completely up to her what she talks/writes about. I just can't find it very engaging when it's dithering about while avoiding the scary questions, so I'd generally rather read someone like Victoria Smith.

Although it would be good to have Moran's voice included. She can be funny.

And I agree, it's scary. It's always been scary for women to speak out, probably always will be.

If we speak at all we are likely to get shat on. We will get vilified. There's no escaping it.

I'm aiming to toughen up, personally.

My issue with CM is that she positions herself as someone who will speak out, but then shuts up on the most contentious issue of them all.

I like her writing, she’s very funny and her “How To Be A Woman” was what got me into feminism (having been brought up with the idea that “no-one wants to know a feminist, they’re all man-hating ranters” Hmm ). But I feel let down on her silence here.

senua · 27/05/2024 08:00

wizarddry · 27/05/2024 07:00

Well is he joining in or is he sitting it out? Why is it on her?

You are kidding, right? Nick Robinson has been a huge ally. He (and fellow Today-er Justin Webb) is one of the few sane voices on the BBC.

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 27/05/2024 08:26

My issue with CM is that she positions herself as someone who will speak out, but then shuts up on the most contentious issue of them all.

Exactly. That's the annoying part about it - she has built up this persona as a 'tell it like it is, no holds barred' feminist. That's her whole career basically.

Except on this issue, she suddenly has nothing to say...

Alltheprettyseahorses · 27/05/2024 09:00

CM has already been clear that she thinks transwomen are women (possibly better women too). She may have changed her mind of course - if so, she's unlikely to get the pushback she's both afraid of and insulated from because Palestine is the fad du jour for them.

Tbh, if everyone had said no at the start instead of indulging it all we'd be in a much better position. It wasn't courage that was needed, it was being an adult.

AlisonDonut · 27/05/2024 09:28

HermioneWeasley · 27/05/2024 06:59

@OriginalUsername2 how is my comment on the wrong thread? It’s about Caitlin Moran’s craven Vichy “feminism”.

They posted on the wrong thread...not you.

AlisonDonut · 27/05/2024 09:29

There is going to have to be a huge swathe of 'Do it to Maya' people pouring out of the circus tent over the next year.

RoyalCorgi · 27/05/2024 09:32

CM has always been a gifted, funny, interesting writer. But she has her limitations, one of which is a tendency to generalise from her own experience. When I read excerpts from her book on men, she seemed to be under the illusion that previous feminists had never thought about, let alone written about, male experiences or the harm done to men by socialisation and gendered upbringing. I think you really see that limitation in her take, or lack of it, on the trans issue. Despite her impoverished start in life, she knows she's never going to share a prison cell with a rapist or need to escape from an abusive partner in a domestic violence refuge. So she can afford not to take a stance on the issue.

When I look at women like her, it makes me admire the bravery of JKR all the more.

TheaBrandt · 27/05/2024 09:36

Can you imagine where we would be if every woman had taken her cowardly approach? Zero women only spaces /womens sport annihilated/ widespread 1984 TWAW compelled speech. Dystopian nightmare frankly.

Owen jones has wittered about “the wrong side of history” on this it’s emerging confirmed by the cass report that he and Caitlin are the ones on the wrong side.

ArabellaScott · 27/05/2024 09:42

AlisonDonut · 27/05/2024 09:29

There is going to have to be a huge swathe of 'Do it to Maya' people pouring out of the circus tent over the next year.

There are really very few who are still out there raging at women for asking for single service provision. That might have been a fashionable stance four years back; it certainly isn't now.

The idea that the smooth, attuned Streeting is in any way saying anything that isn't entirely bland and calibrated as an unexceptional 'reasonable' position is looking extreme and very brittle, tbh.

As if Williams has been sat with her headphones on staring at Twitter hard for the past four years.