That's a great photo of Martina, she's not impressed.
The whole "grace" thing reminds me of a TV/movie trope I hate, where a woman either submits to rape, keeps it secret, doesn't report and/or refuses to show any aftereffects, therefore nobly "protecting" everyone else from her trauma instead of recognising it and getting angry. Of course the perpetrator gets off scot-free unless a male family member finds out about it way down the line, and exacts frontier justice despite her begging him not too 🙄