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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Voyeurs in gender neutral changing rooms

29 replies

IcakethereforeIam · 25/04/2024 18:19

This actually dates back a few years, I'm assuming the crimes recently cames to light.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/04/25/gang-hid-changing-rooms-pools-film-young-women-undressing/

https://archive.ph/Uhvex

It's actually bad enough but it could have been worse. The victims were stalked on SM but they weren't contacted, they weren't blackmailed. I'm not sure if the pictures were uploaded anywhere.

These fucking 'changing villages' have been around for decades. Thirty-ish years ago my LA built a new recreation centre with one. Every cubicle had peep holes bored in them. The management did nothing about that. Also men could stand on the benches and look into adjacent cubicles. At least when I went it was before there were mobile phone cameras.

I've not been back there in decades. I hope they've changed them.

This is why we need women only spaces.

Gang hid in pool changing rooms to film 5,000 young women undressing

Adam Dennis and Robert Morgan “hunted” for teenage girls and shared pictures online

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/04/25/gang-hid-changing-rooms-pools-film-young-women-undressing

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RufustheFactualReindeer · 25/04/2024 18:22

My friend had someone put his head under the cubicle wall and take pictures of her when she was changing

it was quite a while ago now but i doubt anything has changed

Ellerby83 · 25/04/2024 18:39

One of them only got a suspended sentence

heathspeedwell · 25/04/2024 18:53

Another person here who has had a man put his head under the gap in changing cubicles. This was at a swimming pool. My friend and I were chatting to each other as we got changed and we suddenly noticed him because he made happy noises, so he was obviously masturbating while watching us take our costumes off and out our clothes on. We were so shocked we didn't say anything at reception. We never went swimming there again. but before that we went every week.

heathspeedwell · 25/04/2024 18:54

I wonder how many thousands of incidents there are like this, but because women are too shocked to say anything they go completely unrecorded.

peanutbuttertoasty · 25/04/2024 19:00

heathspeedwell · 25/04/2024 18:53

Another person here who has had a man put his head under the gap in changing cubicles. This was at a swimming pool. My friend and I were chatting to each other as we got changed and we suddenly noticed him because he made happy noises, so he was obviously masturbating while watching us take our costumes off and out our clothes on. We were so shocked we didn't say anything at reception. We never went swimming there again. but before that we went every week.

Omg you should have stamped on his face!

WarriorNonVerbalHateCrime · 25/04/2024 19:01

Yep happened at a local Pool with this set up.

We took the children for their school swimming lessons and men would time their swim at the same time.

Not many girls in the school so they had to change in the cubicles as the boys took up all the school change spaces. School staff had to stand guard - often dripping wet too as had been in pool. Pool staff were also well aware and would position themselves at key places .

A colleague who went for a swim after work was subjected to voyerism under the cubicle. It went to court but suspended sentence.

It's what they move on to next that is also concerning.

WarriorNonVerbalHateCrime · 25/04/2024 19:02

I think the pool has now closed to the public when schools are in.

heathspeedwell · 25/04/2024 19:05

peanutbuttertoasty · 25/04/2024 19:00

Omg you should have stamped on his face!

You're absolutely right, but in the moment, even though there were two of us, we were actually really scared. Being naked makes you feel much more vulnerable.

WeaselCheeks · 25/04/2024 19:08

My husband hates changing villages because he's very tall, and is dangerously close to being able to see over the tops of cubicles with no effort (seriously - if he stood on his tip toes he'd be able to see over the top).

If they're going to insist on shared changing villages, they really need to make sure that the cubicles are fully concealed with no gaps - and checked regularly for cameras.

Our local pool's changing village is horrible, because the ceiling has huge gaps with no tiles, and you can see all the pipes, etc. It's been like this since opening - I don't know if it's a stylistic choice or practical one, but it always leaves me feeling uneasy because of how easy it'd be to hide a camera.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 25/04/2024 19:11

WarriorNonVerbalHateCrime · 25/04/2024 19:02

I think the pool has now closed to the public when schools are in.

Which is the logical conclusion when the safeguarding of children is compromised by adults.

IcakethereforeIam · 25/04/2024 19:16

Just reread the article. The pictures were shared online. Can't (actually I can) believe a suspended sentence. 😡

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heathspeedwell · 25/04/2024 19:23

This could literally happen to any of us or our daughters at any time.

I will never forget that a 14 year old girl was gang raped in the US and her ordeal was shared on Pornhub.

Maybe someone else here will have been smart enough to have saved the exact figures but iirc one on five men in the US chose to watch the gang rape of a child.

Boiledbeetle · 25/04/2024 19:25

Grim! Bloody grim! Those sentences! What the fuck!!!!!

AmandaHoldensLips · 25/04/2024 19:27

You mean UNISEX changing rooms.

No such thing as "gender neutral".

Boils my tea.

IcakethereforeIam · 25/04/2024 23:07

I was trying to copy the language used in the article but I misremembered. It was 'mixed gender', although 'playtime for perverts' seems more apt.

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StealthSpinach · 26/04/2024 01:06

Unisex = one sex.

“Mixed Sex” is better terminology (in my opinion) as it really blatantly shows that male and female are mixed in together.

miri1985 · 26/04/2024 03:05

How does this not rise to the level of child pornography? The article says that they filmed under 18's. Theres no mention in the article of either of them being put on the sex offenders register.

Also how did it take from their arrest in Nov 2017 until now to be sentenced thats 6.5 years, its more than 7 years since they raided and found the images. I know covid etc but even accounting for that, its a shocking amount of delays and 2 of the gang have just vanished

WarriorNonVerbalHateCrime · 26/04/2024 08:06

Fucking hell Angry

ScrapeMyArse · 26/04/2024 10:41

WarriorNonVerbalHateCrime · 25/04/2024 19:01

Yep happened at a local Pool with this set up.

We took the children for their school swimming lessons and men would time their swim at the same time.

Not many girls in the school so they had to change in the cubicles as the boys took up all the school change spaces. School staff had to stand guard - often dripping wet too as had been in pool. Pool staff were also well aware and would position themselves at key places .

A colleague who went for a swim after work was subjected to voyerism under the cubicle. It went to court but suspended sentence.

It's what they move on to next that is also concerning.

God similar happened in one of my local pools with a changing village. A man was caught sliding his phone under a cubicle to film teenage girls. Transpired he ran a soft play and had hidden cameras to film women and children in the toilets. Also transpired that it had long been noticed that the man timed his swims with schools and always happend to be in the communal shower at the same time as the children. But presumably nobody felt empowered to do anything!!

I mean what the actual fuck!!!

And who the fuck decided communal mixed sex showers were appropriate?

Isn't it interesting that so many men feel compelled to do these things despite the easy availability of porn?

But obviously it's verboten to think that half the thrill for some men is the boundary violation itself.

MarieDeGournay · 26/04/2024 10:55

Wasn't there a thread called something like 'the thing they said would never happen just happened'? This needs to be added.

SidewaysOtter · 26/04/2024 11:08

I was just coming on MN to post about this. Still, at least when people blether on about how they don't see it's a problem, we can point them to this.

timetorefresh · 26/04/2024 11:23

The defence was the one of them went to boarding school? FFS I'm guessing they didn't want to damage his prospects too much

Hagbard · 26/04/2024 11:51

The 21 today balloon irks, he was mid 30s when he committed the crime

WhatAMessWales · 26/04/2024 11:53

Notice the 'gender neutral' language in the coverage too. 'Voyeurs' filming 'teenagers'.

What do the voyeurs have in common? And which teenagers did they target?