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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Woman's hour 2nd April 2024 JKR's 'hate' thread

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WarriorN · 02/04/2024 10:08

First item is the Hate bill and JK's tweets - they did invite her on but haven't heard back yet

For women Scotland will be on too.

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VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/04/2024 01:52

Waitwhat23 · 03/04/2024 22:59

Naebody gies a shite
Aboot yon space atween them.
Adjective my airse.

I think you should title that "Transwoman / trans woman" and submit it to Magi Gibson's Unbridled vol two.

Hurrydash · 04/04/2024 02:35

Excellent new law in Scotland has facilitated JKR confirming the obvious scientific truth that so called 'trans women' are men.

So SIR Keir Starmer please show us an example of the 1 in 1000 women who has a p (don't like using the word).

If you can't - and actually his could you? - then please admit you got it just so so wrong.

Or do you not have the integrity to do so?

Hurrydash · 04/04/2024 02:42

OMG I misused a pronoun - his - when I meant how.

Could be in all sorts of trouble.

Waitwhat23 · 04/04/2024 08:10

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/04/2024 01:52

I think you should title that "Transwoman / trans woman" and submit it to Magi Gibson's Unbridled vol two.

It doesn't quite work written down - when spoken in Scots, 'naebody' would be said as two syllables (naebdy - I actually struggled how to spell it!) but written down it's 3.

BezMills · 04/04/2024 08:23

Waitwhat23 · 04/04/2024 08:10

It doesn't quite work written down - when spoken in Scots, 'naebody' would be said as two syllables (naebdy - I actually struggled how to spell it!) but written down it's 3.

I had to say it out loud to check, but you're quite right, of course. I've lived in England for almost 20 years and we're raising a wee English girl. I'm more used to Scots having more syllables such as gurrul vs goel (girl). They're teaching oor wean that 'ir' is a digraph but in Scotland it's just a vowel and a consonant.
They've flattened all the vowels and thrown the R away, as so prophetically said by The Proclaimers all those years ago.

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 08:58

Boiledbeetle · 03/04/2024 21:18

Hasn't on, aren't toilets porcelain based?

😂

NecessaryScene · 04/04/2024 09:11

If it doesn't mean that, "trans" is not functioning as an adjective in any sentence containing the words "trans women".

I beg to differ, but it's an adjective akin to "fake", "imitation", "mock", "false".

(Reminded of Lewis Carroll again - the "Mock Turtle" )

A fake Rolex is not a type of Rolex, mock turtle soup doesn't actually contain turtles, false God is not a god, etc.

So it's perfectly possible to have an adjective attached to a noun such that the object described by the adjective+noun is not a subset of the noun, but something else.

(And Lewis Carroll was playing in that area by leaving it unspecified whether the notional Mock Turtle was actually a turtle...)

Mock Turtle - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mock_Turtle

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 09:11

For the benefit of all - "trans" is, and always was, a preposition. The TRAs themselves told us so.

It's yer actual Latin. We were told to "educate ourselves" about. It was in Latin texts (TRAs used "transalpine" and "cisalpine" Gaul as their examples and raison d'être for using the term and originally called themselves "transwomen"). It's also in science and us bigots should "look it up".

A prefix is added to a word, and it most often makes it clear that is has changed the word to its opposite meaning; so "happy" + "un" = "unhappy" ie "not happy". "Trans" + "woman" = transwoman ie "not a woman"

The attempted shift to an adjective is comparatively recent, and is just as forced as pronouns. It can't possibly be an adjective, in the way that "tall' and "blonde" and "black" and "young" are adjectives, because that implies that "transwomen" are actually women, and "trans" is being used to describe these "women", while we ALL know that the one thing that a transwoman has to be, in order to be trans, is a man.

Don't let them shift our language for their own purposes.

Language does change and evolve - we all know that, but this is not a natural evolution (which takes place gently in use over a long period of time, and by population consensus) this is a compelled and coerced bullying of the way words are employed.

Let them get their own words to describe themselves.

As KJK has said. The word "woman" is taken.

Edit for autocarrot

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 09:15

Waitwhat23 · 03/04/2024 22:59

Naebody gies a shite
Aboot yon space atween them.
Adjective my airse.

Nice!

borntobequiet · 04/04/2024 09:16

It’s trans woman - trans is an adjective.

If nothing else, genderism has improved many people’s understanding of the English language, what with pronouns and all.

For anyone unfamiliar with the insistence of using “trans” as an adjective, it’s a sleight of language implying an equivalence between “trans” women, black women, old women, professional women, any sort of women - in other words to lead people into a perception of transwomen as women, and not what they are, which is men.

Like many strategies of this movement, it’s insidious and effective, which is why it should be resisted.

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 09:18

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/04/2024 23:35

Which online Latin course are you doing, @AutumnCrow? I’m doing Duolingo but am wondering if I should do something different.

Edited

I find Duolingo a bit tedious - but it has the advantage of being free.

borntobequiet · 04/04/2024 09:19

Oops, I see I’m on the tail end of many similar explanations.

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 09:21

Waitwhat23 · 04/04/2024 08:10

It doesn't quite work written down - when spoken in Scots, 'naebody' would be said as two syllables (naebdy - I actually struggled how to spell it!) but written down it's 3.

You could use "nae one". that saves you that vital syllable.

Waitwhat23 · 04/04/2024 09:26

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 09:21

You could use "nae one". that saves you that vital syllable.

Ooh, that does work. Thanks!

borntobequiet · 04/04/2024 09:28

My Latin teacher at school (1960s, convent) was named Alma. She was permanently cross, but that’s probably because she was trying to teach Latin to children who mostly hated it.

BackToLurk · 04/04/2024 09:29

borntobequiet · 04/04/2024 09:28

My Latin teacher at school (1960s, convent) was named Alma. She was permanently cross, but that’s probably because she was trying to teach Latin to children who mostly hated it.

My English teacher at school was called Alma. She told us all that it was very unambitious to aim for women to be equal to men, as women are clearly superior.

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 09:30

Waitwhat23 · 04/04/2024 09:26

Ooh, that does work. Thanks!

Nae bother!

Actually, you might want to use "nae wan" - just came to me there. (I'm a natural critic, I think - can't do stuff myself but can pick holes in other people's. 😁)

AutumnCrow · 04/04/2024 09:42

Emotionalsupportviper · 04/04/2024 09:18

I find Duolingo a bit tedious - but it has the advantage of being free.

I started with Helen Forte's minimuslatin.co.uk and went down the rabbit hole from there.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/04/2024 09:47

borntobequiet · 04/04/2024 09:16

It’s trans woman - trans is an adjective.

If nothing else, genderism has improved many people’s understanding of the English language, what with pronouns and all.

For anyone unfamiliar with the insistence of using “trans” as an adjective, it’s a sleight of language implying an equivalence between “trans” women, black women, old women, professional women, any sort of women - in other words to lead people into a perception of transwomen as women, and not what they are, which is men.

Like many strategies of this movement, it’s insidious and effective, which is why it should be resisted.

I think the linking of the phrases "trans women" and "black women" is particularly relevant here.

There are any number of adjectives we could use to describe the noun "women", but you would generally only refer to several different ones together when you are describing characteristics which have some relevance to each other.

So, for example, you would be unlikely to use a sentence which contains both the phrase "short women" and "Australian women", because there is no obvious link between the adjectives "short" and "Australian". But you might use a sentence containing both the phrase "tall women" and "short women", if you are saying "tall women find it easier to reach high shelves than short women" or "short women find it easier to buy well-fitting jeans than tall women" or "tall women find that most makes of car are comfortable for them to drive, whereas short women could benefit more from driving Japanese cars because they are particularly well suited for smaller people".

So when would we use both "black women" and "trans women" in the same sentence?

My guess is that it is almost always going to be when talking about discrimination.

It would be absolutely relevant and appropriate to talk about "black people" and "trans people" in the same sentence when talking about discrimination, saying that both groups are known to be at higher risk of this treatment.

When you talk about black women, as opposed to black people, you are probably referring to the fact that this group is at risk of discrimination for two reasons: being black, and being female.

If you compare "black women" and "disabled women", you are referring to two groups, both female, both at risk of discrimination for being female, which provides a sensible starting point for discussion about the extent to which being, respectively, "black" or "disabled" increases that risk of discrimination still further. This is essentially the primary concern of intersectional feminism.

But by comparing "black women" and "trans women", you are completely muddying the waters because you are comparing a group of people who are at risk of discrimination for being female and for being black, and another group of people who are not female but are separately at risk of discrimination for being trans. You are comparing apples with oranges, and unlikely to gain much useful insight. You are also most likely going to end up excluding "trans men" from your analysis because of the word "men", when "trans men" are actually a much more relevant comparator to "black women" or "disabled women" because they are at risk of discrimination for being female, and also at risk of discrimination for an additional reason, in their case, being trans.

The whole thing is just spectacularly unhelpful, to all kinds of groups.

BreatheAndFocus · 04/04/2024 10:04

Thank you, Dadjoke. I’ve just shown this thread to a friend who was hovering between common sense and ‘be kind’ and just couldn’t bring herself to agree with JKR - but now she does 😁 The clincher was your mansplaining and your refusal to respond to points. We had an interesting discussion about why that might be and why you kept repeating the same untruths - and she’s here! 😁 Here on the side of women’s rights and sanity.

DJ, people like you don’t realise you do our work for us 😂

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/04/2024 10:11

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/04/2024 01:12

I've been mistaken for a man on numerous occasions, including one memorable occasion when a man assaulted "the gothic freak" (me) in the street. All I have to do is speak for the other person to realise their mistake because my voice is female.

"That's a bird, you pillock" said his mate and he let go of my lapels. I never wore that leather trench coat again.

When facing me, it's always men who mistake for another man. Women have only ever made that mistake from behind. It's almost like women's safety depends on judging sex accurately far more than men's does and natural selection has ensured that women can do this reliably.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 04/04/2024 10:15

Waitwhat23 · 04/04/2024 08:10

It doesn't quite work written down - when spoken in Scots, 'naebody' would be said as two syllables (naebdy - I actually struggled how to spell it!) but written down it's 3.

"Naeb'dy" and you're done.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/04/2024 10:18

BreatheAndFocus · 04/04/2024 10:04

Thank you, Dadjoke. I’ve just shown this thread to a friend who was hovering between common sense and ‘be kind’ and just couldn’t bring herself to agree with JKR - but now she does 😁 The clincher was your mansplaining and your refusal to respond to points. We had an interesting discussion about why that might be and why you kept repeating the same untruths - and she’s here! 😁 Here on the side of women’s rights and sanity.

DJ, people like you don’t realise you do our work for us 😂

Hurrah! Welcome to team common sense, BreatheAndFocus's friend!

You can be a gender critical feminist and still be kind. But you do have to think critically about what is actually kind and what is not.

RebelliousCow · 04/04/2024 10:49

DadJoke · 03/04/2024 22:47

It’s trans woman - trans is an adjective. Outside of gender critical circles “woman” suffices.

Transwoman equates witn Transgender - which is also one word. TW are men who 'identify as' women. They are not a sub set of women. In fact one is either a woman or not. There are no sub-sets. The appropriation of the language around race has been one of the means to co-opt the realities of other groups into the transgender project.

Nobody really believes that TW are women, you do know that. It is a performance piece that has its roots in post modernistic theory and in a social media culture in which manufactured identities, personas and avatars are the thing.

RedToothBrush · 04/04/2024 11:05

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/04/2024 10:18

Hurrah! Welcome to team common sense, BreatheAndFocus's friend!

You can be a gender critical feminist and still be kind. But you do have to think critically about what is actually kind and what is not.

This.

Women are not here to be shat on. They deserve kindness.

It is not kind or respectful to compel women to endure injustice and a lack of privacy and dignity through coercive behaviour.

Women are socialised to put others first and don't understand it's ok to consider their own rights and needs too. And feel it is not selfish to do this.