One of the many paradoxes of being trans, Wallace.
"It's not a medical condition, but we demand access to medical treatment for it"
"It's got nothing to do with our bodies, it's our souls/ feelings/ inner identity*, but our bodies can't share spaces with people with similar bodies. It has to be with people with different bodies"
"Yes - we are on average considerably bigger, faster and stronger, but that doesn't give us any physical advantages in sport"
"We can keep our penises because they are lady penises, but we can't be expected to have sex with another transwoman with a penis because seeing one is triggering. We need lesbians to have sex with because that's what we are. And they should like our penises because they are lady penises".
You doubtless get the drift.
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