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KJK’s insane rant

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Dontblameitonsunshine · 26/03/2024 09:38

Kjk’s decision to attack everyone who is not her lapdog is increasingly destructive. It looks like Can-sg put on a great conference. Those doctors who have spoken up have risked their careers. Kjk has become famous and has started a business from LWS. She has benefited way more than any of these doctors.

Her work could be powerful if she just stopped attacking everyone else. But these days she is a demagogue and causes more harm than good by capitalising on vulnerable and timid women and telling them that they need her to speak for them.

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UtopiaPlanitia · 26/03/2024 17:06

Dr Az Hakeem, late of the Tavistock and now in private practice, attended the CAN-SG conference and he states, based on his extensive clinical experience, that Gender Dysphoria doesn’t exist. In fact, in his book Detrans he states:

'Today the abbreviated term ‘trans’ is actually an umbrella term encompassing the more specific, but less used, very different and distinct categories of transsexualism, transvestism, fetishistic transvestism, autogynaephilia and in children ROGD (Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria). Later in the book, I will explain why I think ROGD is actually a form of youth subculture. I described each of these categories in greater detail in my first book TRANS: Exploring Gender Identity and Gender Dysphoria…'

He goes into greater detail on each of the elements described above in the book. So KJK is not insanely ranting, she’s agreeing with experienced practitioners like Dr Hakeem.

IwantToRetire · 26/03/2024 17:13

Dontblameitonsunshine · 26/03/2024 09:38

Kjk’s decision to attack everyone who is not her lapdog is increasingly destructive. It looks like Can-sg put on a great conference. Those doctors who have spoken up have risked their careers. Kjk has become famous and has started a business from LWS. She has benefited way more than any of these doctors.

Her work could be powerful if she just stopped attacking everyone else. But these days she is a demagogue and causes more harm than good by capitalising on vulnerable and timid women and telling them that they need her to speak for them.

Whatever possesed you to label a woman insane on a very public and monitored forum because she has a different view point to you?

That has the echoes of centuries of the patriarchy trying to sideline women who dont conform.

She has valid points.

You dont agree with her.

Surely you could have thought of a title that asked why KJK was questioning the conference (assuming you weren't aware of her previously statement opinions re treatment of children)

Or if you did know her opinion, why slur her and not just ask does it help to question the views of the conference?

Using the title that will get picked up by all the usual suspects to add to their stockpile of anti KJK quoteable quotes is baffling.

Why are you so upset?

Do you think women cant question professionals?

Are you worried you are going to be "tarnished" by being thought to be like her?

FWR isn't a tabloid that needs to create shrieking headlines to attrack readers.

Its fine that you disagree with her, but wouldn't it be a bit more ethical rather than having your badmouthing captured in a FWR title, ask MNHQ to change it to something more rational. The recently changed the title of another thread to make it more accurate.

Calling women insane is just part of the history of misogyny.

heathspeedwell · 26/03/2024 17:15

OP thanks for this thread. you have reminded me to sign up for the Party of Women, which I've been meaning to do for a while.

ArabellaScott · 26/03/2024 17:18

Who you trying to get crazy with, ése?

Don't you know I'm loco?

heathspeedwell · 26/03/2024 17:18

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IwantToRetire · 26/03/2024 17:33

Thelnebriati · 26/03/2024 13:59

Personally, I think its bad form to discuss someone at this length and with this depth of character assassination behind their back and on a forum where they don't participate.

Go and say it to her face if you are so convinced its the truth.

Exactly

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 26/03/2024 17:56

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 26/03/2024 17:00

Where did they flounce?
The OP didn't say they were off

Oh, it sounded like a grand flounce - perhaps I'm wrong and OP will be back for more....

JoodyBlue · 26/03/2024 17:58

Dontblameitonsunshine · 26/03/2024 11:06

My point was that I think it was a terrible video, motivated by jealousy, she breeds disunity and she is increasingly destructive just when we’re getting places.
And we got places because of many people’s efforts. Where would we be without Keira bell? Where would we be without Ritchie ? (Ritchie was at the conference not at LWS). Where would we be without Dave Bell? Kjk is one of many

I haven't read the full thread yet (time issue). But I did want to make the point, if it hasn't been made, that it was KJK's "Woman Adult Human Female" posters and discussion that Keira Bell cited as making her reconsider transition. She has been around a long time. She has refused to give ground for a long time. And in that time has supported many many people. Further, she has held the olive branch out many times too to other campaigners (I'm thinking Julie Bindel in particular) and been rebuffed. She doesn't often show her distress, but occasionally it comes through. It does in this video. So many of us have so much to thank her for.

LoobiJee · 26/03/2024 18:03

Beefcurtains79 · 26/03/2024 09:43

Yawn.

I’ve now caught up with all ten pages, and in my considered opinion, the very first response at 09.43 nailed it.

Winnading · 26/03/2024 18:10

Dontblameitonsunshine · 26/03/2024 13:56

11k views is dreadful for a channel with 110k subscribers @Helleofabore . If you compare like with like - look at other channels that have equivalent numbers of subscribers and you’ll see her views are terrible. That’s not me attacking kjk, I’m merely pointing out an easily verifiable fact.

i don’t “truly hate her” @Datun that sort of language is embarrassing for us all. I think she is destructive and strategically stupid

11k views of the OP link?

Cos its 6.9k views now?

Means YouTube are fucking around with the numbers?

I don't know, I'm speculating.

NoNever · 26/03/2024 18:13

Insane. Rant. Jealous. Well, she’s just not nice enough and isn’t doing what she’s told by the people who really matter, blah blah blah.

Where have we heard that misogynistic claptrap before? Surprised “hysterical” wasn’t used.

Queenmaker · 26/03/2024 18:14

The wit and humour of women who congregate here, is a big part of the gel that keeps so many women fighting and is great for morale.

The fact that you miss or misunderstand the humour and think you can come here to attempt a character assassination of KJK reveals a lot about you @Dontblameitonsunshine

DerekFaker · 26/03/2024 18:17

Dontblameitonsunshine · 26/03/2024 11:02

How many were there @Signalbox ? I just saw a video of a woman (not kjk) rambling on and on and didn’t think much of it. Kjk is a brilliant speaker but her events are awful imo . They’ve had their day. I think this is LWS last weekend and this is why I think kjk was jealous of can-sg https://www.youtube.com/live/FLq5TkUEMYE?si=WxfXahEjNYTa96MC

Oh, grow up. 'Jealous' 😂

Helleofabore · 26/03/2024 18:18

Winnading · 26/03/2024 18:10

11k views of the OP link?

Cos its 6.9k views now?

Means YouTube are fucking around with the numbers?

I don't know, I'm speculating.

Sorry Winnading. I was referring to Sunday's Hyde Park rally.

However, there are clips of it all over twitter all showing thousands of views each.

I think that the OP's claim that they are no longer attended and that they are no longer relevant can be deemed as evidence free and driven by whatever motivated them to post this thread. Which was not good faith.

Helleofabore · 26/03/2024 18:20

"I just saw a video of a woman (not kjk) rambling on and on and didn’t think much of it."

Every time I see this quote of OP's, I am floored by the contemptuousness in it.

What drives someone to make this remark of women who face such adversity to have their voices heard?

Fuck it is grim.

KellieJaysLapdog · 26/03/2024 18:21

Helleofabore · 26/03/2024 18:20

"I just saw a video of a woman (not kjk) rambling on and on and didn’t think much of it."

Every time I see this quote of OP's, I am floored by the contemptuousness in it.

What drives someone to make this remark of women who face such adversity to have their voices heard?

Fuck it is grim.

It’s the same ‘ol ‘sit down proles’ shit over and over again.

Helleofabore · 26/03/2024 18:22

JoodyBlue · 26/03/2024 17:58

I haven't read the full thread yet (time issue). But I did want to make the point, if it hasn't been made, that it was KJK's "Woman Adult Human Female" posters and discussion that Keira Bell cited as making her reconsider transition. She has been around a long time. She has refused to give ground for a long time. And in that time has supported many many people. Further, she has held the olive branch out many times too to other campaigners (I'm thinking Julie Bindel in particular) and been rebuffed. She doesn't often show her distress, but occasionally it comes through. It does in this video. So many of us have so much to thank her for.

Edited

Well put Joody. Although, I think I have seen Julie Bindel refrain from vilifying Kellie Jay in recent attempts... am I remembering correctly or am I misremembering?

heathspeedwell · 26/03/2024 18:29

Helleofabore · 26/03/2024 18:20

"I just saw a video of a woman (not kjk) rambling on and on and didn’t think much of it."

Every time I see this quote of OP's, I am floored by the contemptuousness in it.

What drives someone to make this remark of women who face such adversity to have their voices heard?

Fuck it is grim.

This is such a good point Helle. And yet it's the OP who is claiming that KJK isn't giving women a chance to speak.

Murica · 26/03/2024 18:34

Helleofabore · 26/03/2024 18:20

"I just saw a video of a woman (not kjk) rambling on and on and didn’t think much of it."

Every time I see this quote of OP's, I am floored by the contemptuousness in it.

What drives someone to make this remark of women who face such adversity to have their voices heard?

Fuck it is grim.

A lack of wit, imagination and empathy.

broccolienthusiast · 26/03/2024 18:36

sorry this is a bit off-topic, but can anyone tell me why KJK is banned from MN? Most women here seem to be sharing most if not all of her views

MalagaNights · 26/03/2024 18:40

I bloody love kjk.

But I agree with you OP this anger is misdirected.

The people at that conference were the whistleblowers from the Tavi Anna Hutchinson, Sonia Appleby.
Women who have put their profession and livelihood on the line.

Kjk is in a position where she doesn't have to negotiate organisational change from within, the rooms you have to get into, years of being professionally sidelined, trying to get the attention of people who will take you seriously and stand with you.
It's been a war of attrition for the mental health professionals fighting from within the system. They're making progress, they've achieved some good things, but they have to maintain professional credibility to keep going. They have to be more measured and cautious than kjk needs to be.

They can't make YouTube videos and get a following and stay within the professional discourse.
They are trying to walk the line of professionals not activists.

Kjk should give them some slack.
She's playing a different role.
A no compromise activist role which keeps that pressure on those inside the creaking institution trying to force the change.

She should hold the line. Criticise the positions taken to keep the pressure, but give the people who have been professionally putting themselves on the line for years some slack.
They're doing something she doesn't have to do.
And vice versa.

Queenmaker · 26/03/2024 18:43

broccolienthusiast · 26/03/2024 18:36

sorry this is a bit off-topic, but can anyone tell me why KJK is banned from MN? Most women here seem to be sharing most if not all of her views

I don't know but my guess is she wasn't willing to compromise the language that she used, which there is still policing of on MN. It's not true Free Speech here unfortunately.

KellieJaysLapdog · 26/03/2024 18:49

broccolienthusiast · 26/03/2024 18:36

sorry this is a bit off-topic, but can anyone tell me why KJK is banned from MN? Most women here seem to be sharing most if not all of her views

She was banned in the before times - language is still fairly tightly moderated here but before the Forstater case it was worse.

KJK isn’t known for picking her words in deference to transactivists, so you can imagine how being a Mumsnetter worked out for her!

Tbf, some of the nicest, kindest posters also got booted (eg LangCleg) just for being persistent at pointing out the way coercive control operates and how safeguarding must always be rigorous/have no sacred castes (eg doctors).

But yes, the vast majority of us agree that males do not belong in female spaces, sports or services (not even the pretty ones) and that child transition = vegan cats.

Speaking of which, has anyone seen EndlessTea? She seems to be unregistered - last I saw her she was looking into the historical paedo stuff in Scotland…

ArabellaScott · 26/03/2024 18:50

But it's the pelvic thrust

Windymoore · 26/03/2024 18:53

NoNever · 26/03/2024 18:13

Insane. Rant. Jealous. Well, she’s just not nice enough and isn’t doing what she’s told by the people who really matter, blah blah blah.

Where have we heard that misogynistic claptrap before? Surprised “hysterical” wasn’t used.

Throw in "shrill" for the full house 👍👍

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