For me I could see it coming like a steam train. It was just 'common sense' to me. I take it for granted tbh. I have to stop and think about why others don't do the same.
It didn't matter what I was being told in terms of messaging in the UK. It was plain as the nose on my face that theyd be an issue.
I was left more with the questions of:
How are we going to stop it?
What effective precautions could we have and are they being used?
What are we doing differently from the Chinese / Italians?
I generally have it in my head to think about the unsaid things or the gaps in thinking or just turning the question up the other way around rather than seeing it like other people by taking it at face value.
On MN generally, I've frequently looked at the dominant narrative and tried to reframe the narrative to see if it holds up, if you do. Theres been a few things where I really have felt this doesn't
The whole Bounty in materity wards, general lack of complaints within maternity being used as a justification and then examining whether women complain and why they don't, was a really enlightening thing for me. It was clear that the narrative centred on the commercial interests and was totally at odds with regulations on high pressure sales and was completely inappropriate in a ward setting. It wasn't in the best interests of women in a vulnerable state. Yet no one really asked the right questions until MN started to support women on here over it and a few of use looked at the contradictions in policy.
Then theres the whole CS v VB thing which has been so ideologically driven, but actually doesn't really stand up to scrutiny - it has to be case by case - and poor previous healthcare is a clear driver of women having completely rational fears - especially in hindsight of all the maternity scandals that have since come to light. Slightly older white middle class educated women have the best health outcomes in every single field and it was these women being vilified as 'too posh to push'. Why? It makes no sense. These women have the highest ability of any of childbearing age to understand individualised risk profiles, research papers and make informed decisions based on their circumstances. This has increasingly changed in the last ten years (and I caution against ELCS becoming the default in a sausage factory mentality like China, because this ISN'T the best option for all women either. Its the lowest cost option if done to the extremes of scale where there are next to no VBs as can be done within sociable hours and with fewer staff - in china a lack of hcps has lead to this being the default).
You have to ask the question about if women did feel able to make complaints and they were taken seriously whether so many of the maternity scandals would ever have happened. But inside hospitals were able to say legitimately there were no official complaints, so concerns were too easy to dismiss as just noise rather than anything of substance. Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence though as the rule goes.
DH and I saw the 2008 crash coming a fucking mile off and were advising friends not to take out a risky mortgage with Northern Rock in 2007. The risk profile was off the scale and we could see they couldn't afford it. Their response was 'if I couldn't afford it, I wouldn't be being offered it'. Facepalm. Its gross naivity. DH had a mate working in stock markets who was also saying similar. We bought in 2007 and did so with it in mind that there was likely to be a big crash and we'd end up in negative equity but we'd be in a good area, with a mortgage we could afford rather than taking on too much risk. We realised we'd have to rent and be stuck for years and wouldn't get approved for a mortgage for several years so it was still worth it. And then we had fucking politicians telling us that the 2008 crash couldn't have been foreseen! Like bollocks. How did we manage it, and how did many on the stock market see it? But not those who lead the country. That one always stung and I haven't forgotten. Why were they blind to what others saw as obvious? I was 30. I'd love to know the age that cynicism really starts to kick in...
The reason I've always done this questioning, is partly due to general knowledge but also because being bombed as a teen I feel my illusions and bubble of the world being a safe place was completely shattered. The things that just didn't happen to people like me, did happen to people like me. It made me look at who was 'right' and who was 'wrong' when it came to NI. The answer is neither. Theres plenty of utterly appalling handling and actions all round.
I think there are a lot of women on FWR who have had an experience where the world hasn't been perfect and they've had their 'innocence' shattered in some way.
Interestingly its young people who are buying MOST into the trans ideology. And I wonder if that comes from having come from such a sheltered life that they no long have the life experience - not just the education - that enables them to question.
Its a life skill. Does the narrative work? Does it feel off? Is there some bit of general knowledge you have that doesn't fit the narrative. Has the cynicism kicked in or do you still trust various institutions to always get it right? Understanding that you can get it wrong even with good intentions is a bitter life lesson to learn. Its the whole law of 'unintended consequences'.
On FWR we have a whole bunch of women who understand the principles of safeguarding. We have have educated women asking why this doesn't feel right to them. They understand stats. They understand research. They understand bias. They understand that gaps in evidence are vital to spot and question. They centre differ people to the dominant powers in our society and think about it from a different perspective. They ask different questions. Questions that are regarded as having value but suddenly disgarded when inconvenient. Who does this benefit? The women on FWR ask if there is consistency in ideology or just wilful glossing over when the questions get difficult.
Stuff like who are the oppressed and why don't they have a voice and why are they disadvantaged? All the rape and victim blaming stuff about lack of convictions and cases advanced by the CPS etc etc. And the over reaching point about Why Don't Women Complain? and stuck their necks out and challenge.
Women are socially conditioned to conformity and men are socially conditioned to be more independent and enterprising in their thought. Women are vilified when they don't conform and don't match ideals of feminism.
I am FAR from a conspiracy theorist or a right wing nut job. Its about what I value and have as a priority being different to the mainstream. Cos I'm awkward and difficult and dislike just fitting in because I just don't. I can't fake it. I don't value conformity. I think it is stifling and restrictive. And I think theres so many women on FWR particularly who don't conform. Its a feature - non-conformity is valued. I don't accept things at face value if its something I care about.
I am definitely not unique.
Ideologues HATE it though.