Time and time again we see things framed in a way which only talks about the benefits to trans people. Women and girls remain invisible and there is a total lack of impact assessment.
This is why the very concept of centring women and girl first is so important. I genuinely don't think you can be gender critical if you fail to do this.
I'll say it again: which women are you willing to harm to be nice and respectful to trans people?
You can't say that this isn't an issue the second you look at any kind of impact assessment.
Take prisons. First of all the Scottish Government finally did an impact assessment. And mysteriously it's been buried with a refusal to make it public. Why?
Secondly there is this notion about how it's only a tiny number of trans people. (This is understandable debate with social trends tbh). What this fails to address is the impact a single transperson has on sex based groups and protections. One person can after hundreds of not thousands across their lifetime. And this is more pronounced in certain professional capacities.
Say we put the right to legally treat a trans woman with a GRC as female in all incidences. How does this work by putting the rights of a worker before the rights of a vulnerable patient who may suffer trauma. Keeping in mind offending patterns and a problems that have already arisen due to this. We need to address and resolve this head on rather than disciplinary other staff who raise legitimate safeguarding queries on behalf of their patients.
The list goes on.
Dennis Noel Kavanagh talked about the implications of the draft Conversion Therapy Bill if it went through unamended. He talked about healthcare workers and parents (amongst others) potentially finding themselves in a position of needing a reverse burden of proof:
Placing a requirement on a Defendant in a criminal matter is known as a “reverse burden of proof” (because the burden of proof ordinarily rests with the prosecution). Reverse burdens are generally considered undesirable as a matter of principle, though it is correct to say that despite this many offences do impose them. Reverse burdens in crime are discharged by a Defendant if they meet the civil, rather than criminal standard of proof, that is to say a Defendant would succeed in discharging this burden where they can prove that their case is more likely than not
This has significant ramifications - in order to defend yourself in this way you a) need good legal advice b) need big pockets to find it c) are able to cope with the stress of it. Reverse burden of proof is undesirable for a reason.
Yet we have this situation where, in practice, we have these all over the place already with women having to argue the case. It's always the women - not because they have privilege, these cases always demonstrate why they have LESS power than those they have to make a case against.
For example women have to argue why males in women's sport is problematic despite the purpose of women's sport and why it was set up in the first place, rather than the males having to provide proof why it's not a problem.
It's for women to argue why measuring the gender pay gap by sex rather than gender is a problem, despite it being well known that the main reason this happens is because women have to take time out of the workplace to have a baby and have greater caring responsibilities placed upon them as a consequence.
It's for those who are disabled to argue why bathroom stalls designed to ensure safety for medical issues are no longer needed and for women to demonstrate why mixed sex toilets and changing are problematic despite there being clearly evidence.
It's for gay and lesbians to prove why queering straight people harms them and is homophobic.
It's for whistleblowers to raise the alarm about transing away the gay, the rates of autism and histories of sexual abuse amongst children who identify as trans rather than institutions to carry out studies and do follow up longitudinal studies.
Every.single.time.
We see a reverse burden of proof which requires individuals or the public to establish an impact rather than systematic corporate and institutional impact assessments which take into account the actual consequences to other groups by centring trans people and THEN assess whether it is a good policy. And all of this is REGARDLESS of whether this approach is even compatible with the Equality Act.
We should as a matter of routine be doing impact assessments for all interest groups. The concept of being Gender Critical exists because of this failure to do so.
Saying you are a 'little bit in' and being 'polite' is AGAIN an act of failing to do this. Just in a different form.
What is required isn't being nice or being polite. It's being diligent and exploring the evidence and actual impact.
This is why I'm going to keep repeating the point, which
'women are you willing to sacrifice to being nice?
Without that proper assessment without the judgement label (which always carry the ideological bias with them) instead of actually looking at the problem from all angles properly and doing an on balance assessment about harms.
How many women are you willing to sacrifice?
In giving your consent, you still aren't seeking the consent of others and you also need to assess which women are in greatest need of the protections you are happy to give away freely. Every time the most vulnerable women aren't even consulted by the more privileged women who are happy with 'being nice'.
Why is it always for women to demonstrate and fight back against men? We know the answer to this, but it just gets treated as something which isn't real even though some of the most intelligent women saying, who understand and support feminism, are well aware of how society is made by men for men with women a rare afterthought. It's like they get so far with it and then get what want and give up because it doesn't affect them. It's the 'im alright jack's school of thought I'm afraid. Until it does affect them and they wonder why.
(As a side note, the conversion therapy bill was debated in parliament yesterday. It failed to progress due to a lack of support at this stage. Yet it's being framed on twitter as having been filibusted rather than running out of time and support because it was just so unfit for purpose. This is great news for the time being. There were a number of MPs who did stand up and raise a lot of the problems with it, but equally some others who liked to lecture on morality and what people should believe rather than understand the workings and practicality of law. I think this may be 'a dynamic').