If they were the judge who wrote that rule that women have to call a male abuser ‘she’ when the abuser is a transwoman, then I have lost respect for them.
It is not only abhorrently cruel, especially given the stress of court, it is ridiculous. The very women who would have had to call transwomen/male abusers ‘she’ would also have been made to swear to tell ‘the truth the whole truth etc’
That aside, I was feeling sympathetic until I read the judge’s plaintif ‘peeing’, argument, when I feel sure someone in their position, by and large, would not have had any real problems.