Confused on the concept of non binary

[ireallycantthinkofaname]

Please be nice, i am not the sharpest knife in the box under normal circumstances and I'm running on about 6 hrs sleep over the past week at the minute.....

But something I've been trying and failing to understand re. the concept of 'non binary' in the 'gender movement' (or whatever it is/ought to be called) is that on the one hand, people who subscribe to that philosophy are saying they reject the traditional idea of explicit male/femaleness (because if "trans women are women" then they have swapped for instance). But then if you have 'non binary' individuals isn't that pretty much saying oh yes, actually there is a binary - and some people don't subscribe to it?

I do acknowledge sex =/= gender but not all NB people are intersex/have DSD

<<thoroughly discombobulated>>

Androgynous people didn't demand that laws were changed for them and insist people used different pronouns. It didn't impinge on others. It didn't give men a pass into women's spaces.

Non binary is utter nonsense. It's not conforming to all the gender stereotypes associated with your sex which makes most of the world 'non binary'.

Presumably the opposite of non binary is binary, which rather makes it a binary choice.