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Poor Things (film)

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TinselAngel · 14/01/2024 17:50

Has anybody here seem Poor Things yet?

I went to see it this afternoon and sat slightly horrified in a cinema full of chortling people, about Emma Stone's character being relentlessly exploited by men but this being portrayed as not being altogether a bad thing.

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TooMinty · 15/01/2024 14:37

I don't think Alasdair Gray would have claimed to be the world's leading feminist but I think at least he was aware of misogyny and double standards. A History Maker is an interesting book too, set in a matriarchal society. It's worth knowing that he was a bit of a contrarian and might have been writing in a modernist, anti-realist style to draw attention to societal norms and their flaws.

Here ends my lecture 😂 - sorry!

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2024 15:36

I might be interested in reading the book. It sounds like it has more layers to it.

OMirrorBall · 15/01/2024 16:01

I've also worked with children and young adults with neurological injury, and that's what the trailers made me think of immediately. Given that women and children with disability are often sexually abused, I definitely have no desire to watch a film based on an erotic and 'clever' presentation of that abuse as if it's not something happening all around us every day. Don't feel any need to watch the film first before deciding that the premise is repulsive.

Duckswaddle · 15/01/2024 16:06

I really enjoyed it. I felt like it was laughing at men really - they’re all pathetic, vile, needy creatures which Bella exposes with her frank voice.

Men’s weaknesses are put on display constantly - they only want Bella for one thing, even “nice” Max who proclaims he loves her when he can’t even have a proper conversation with her - and taking control of her own situation as her intellect expands and uses men as they use her; e.g. Wedderburn warns her not to fall in love with him and has a reputation as a user etc. but he makes himself crazy when she doesnt fall in love with him and is only using him “for now. For fun”. All of them know her brain has been replaced with that of a child but they don’t care. She has a desirable female body, who cares about her mind. That’s what I took from it.

All of the control and imprisonment and expectation that women’s bodies aren’t their own…I thought it was great.

Cancelledcurio · 15/01/2024 16:25

@Babla would that be as empowering as "sex work" (not work at all, in fact cash for rape) or porn . If it's like the book, it sounds rank and Gray spent half his life pissed as a fart up the West End of Glasgow just like most of his adoring devotees. ( I fully expect this to be removed, but needs to be said ).

Ropeonasoap · 15/01/2024 23:07

HorribleNecktie · 15/01/2024 07:47

Me and my husband saw it on Saturday and hated it. I didn’t really know anything about the film beyond a very sanitised trailer and lots of noise about how great it was, so didn’t know much about it before we watched it. Loads of spoilers ahead.

  1. The central premise is absolutely disgusting. So much that we reflected about what was more repulsive in terms of fictional medical experiments- what happened to Bella in Poor Things or the people in Human Centipede. But this is played for laughs and without really any negative consequences.

  2. Bella has a baby’s brain in a grown woman’s body. But because she has an adult body it’s okay for her to be repeatedly sexually exploited. It’s that horrible ‘born sexy yesterday’ trope.

  3. Very male gaze, porny sex scenes. Again, featuring a woman who has the brain of a baby.

  4. Bella is routinely referred to as intriguing, charming and enchanting, despite her antisocial behaviour (because she has the brain of a baby and doesn’t understand things like not spitting out your food if you don’t like it. Or masturbating at the dinner table). If Bella was an obese and ugly woman she would not be referred to like this- instead her behaviour would be seen as disgusting and distressing.

  5. Once again, it’s a film where women’s liberation and enlightenment is found at the end of multiple dicks.

  6. The film has one joke, which is that Bella always says what she thinks and usually that’s about sex.

  7. it’s another film where you can’t have a female friendship without it becoming a lesbian relationship. Once again, very male gaze.

  8. Prostitution is portrayed as somewhat of a chore but an ultimately rewarding experience. Bella likes sex and needs money so it’s great.

  9. There are no negative consequences to Bella’s promiscuity to a ludicrous degree. She doesn’t become pregnant, get an STI, isn’t raped or physically assaulted by any of her Johns or jealous lovers. Which are all very real risks to women, but this is not explored at all.

  10. Very pretentious, smug and shallow. It is nicely shot and produced but when you strip that away it’s just a wank fantasy played for laughs.

What also bothered me is the trailer for Poor Things was shown before a screening of The Boy & The Heron which we went to with our kids. I thought trailers were supposed to be appropriate for the audience so it seems weird to show it before a Studio Ghibli animation. The trailer made the film look like a whimsical fantasy adventure of a neurodivergent girl rather than a sexually explicit art film.

I’ve seen some hack reviewers referring to this as a feminist take on the Frankenstein myth- which really grinds my gears when you consider who the fuck wrote Frankenstein, and who her mother was.

If you want to watch a whimsical fantasy film about the female experience, just watch Barbie.

This is a good post and I agree with much of it. I didn't hate it though... I thought it illustrated all of your points fairly well, therefore a good film. Sure, lots of people will watch and laugh and say 'ooo pretty' but lots of us haven't - it's provided lots of food for thought. I'd be really interested in a q&a with the director who I'm sure will have considered all this and more.

Babla · 16/01/2024 01:25

. If it's like the book, it sounds rank and Gray spent half his life pissed as a fart up the West End of Glasgow just like most of his adoring devotees. ( I fully expect this to be removed, but needs to be said ).

But it's not the book it's the film, I haven't read the book I've seen the film. As for it needs to be said.. why? Why is the author's life in any way relevant

Babla · 16/01/2024 01:26

I really enjoyed it. I felt like it was laughing at men really - they’re all pathetic, vile, needy creatures which Bella exposes with her frank voice.

Agree with this.. uplifting and empowering

IcakethereforeIam · 16/01/2024 10:27

The Times Critic was expecting to enjoy it but didn't. Her husband loved it it

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/poor-things-and-the-trouble-with-too-much-sex-2dcgdctzm

https://archive.ph/V8NKx

At least the review says where they got the baby's brain from (i had been wondering).

I haven't seen it and I don't fancy it. I'm not much of a one for subtext. Is it really that different from the book (not that I've read that either)?

Poor Things and the trouble with too much sex

I knew I was going to love Poor Things. It would be my film of the year. It had all my favourite ingredients: Emma Stone; a clever feminist spin on a gothic classic, in this case Mary Shelley’s

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/poor-things-and-the-trouble-with-too-much-sex-2dcgdctzm

SomeCatFromJapan · 16/01/2024 10:37

@Cancelledcurio can confirm.

TinselAngel · 16/01/2024 10:40

IcakethereforeIam · 16/01/2024 10:27

The Times Critic was expecting to enjoy it but didn't. Her husband loved it it

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/poor-things-and-the-trouble-with-too-much-sex-2dcgdctzm

https://archive.ph/V8NKx

At least the review says where they got the baby's brain from (i had been wondering).

I haven't seen it and I don't fancy it. I'm not much of a one for subtext. Is it really that different from the book (not that I've read that either)?

I'm glad I started this thread. I'm pleased it's not just me.

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Imnotadentist · 16/01/2024 11:01

I was planning on going to see this later in the week based on the trailer, which looks fun and arty, and because I enjoyed the director’s previous films. I’d seen no hint of how the plot develops and I have no interest whatsoever in prolonged sex scenes between older uglier men and compliant younger women. It’s hardly original is it?
Thanks for the excellent review @HorribleNecktie

Cancelledcurio · 16/01/2024 11:28

@Babla because the film is based on the book and is very much reflective of the misogynist rantings of a pissed up luvvie which was seen by many as great literature when it was published. Clue : is this what we should expect as an example of great art? If so, maybe we should raise our standards a bit more?

Cancelledcurio · 16/01/2024 11:30

Sorry click too soon. Let's just be honest then and say what it is , a horrible wee sexual fantasy film for overgrown arts student ladz.

Ropeonasoap · 16/01/2024 16:10

Cancelledcurio · 16/01/2024 11:30

Sorry click too soon. Let's just be honest then and say what it is , a horrible wee sexual fantasy film for overgrown arts student ladz.

But you haven't seen it?

TooMinty · 16/01/2024 16:56

Duckswaddle · 15/01/2024 16:06

I really enjoyed it. I felt like it was laughing at men really - they’re all pathetic, vile, needy creatures which Bella exposes with her frank voice.

Men’s weaknesses are put on display constantly - they only want Bella for one thing, even “nice” Max who proclaims he loves her when he can’t even have a proper conversation with her - and taking control of her own situation as her intellect expands and uses men as they use her; e.g. Wedderburn warns her not to fall in love with him and has a reputation as a user etc. but he makes himself crazy when she doesnt fall in love with him and is only using him “for now. For fun”. All of them know her brain has been replaced with that of a child but they don’t care. She has a desirable female body, who cares about her mind. That’s what I took from it.

All of the control and imprisonment and expectation that women’s bodies aren’t their own…I thought it was great.

This is closest to how I felt about it. And the man sitting nearby me in the audience was laughing at the same things I laughed at, ie pathetic behaviour from men and how Bella cut them down or ignored them. It's meant to make you uncomfortable and think about how infantilised the "ideal" woman is and consider how men behave and how women are expected to behave. It's science fiction, to cast a thought provoking mirror back on society - not a description of what reality should look like?

napody · 16/01/2024 18:00

IcakethereforeIam · 16/01/2024 10:27

The Times Critic was expecting to enjoy it but didn't. Her husband loved it it

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/poor-things-and-the-trouble-with-too-much-sex-2dcgdctzm

https://archive.ph/V8NKx

At least the review says where they got the baby's brain from (i had been wondering).

I haven't seen it and I don't fancy it. I'm not much of a one for subtext. Is it really that different from the book (not that I've read that either)?

Ah that's the source of the 'feminist take on frankenstein' quote! As a pp said, bit misjudged considering!

Edited: doh, read to the end and the reviewer doesn't see it as feminist! Good review, and thanks for the share 😀

RainWithSunnySpells · 16/01/2024 19:36

This Tom Shone review says
'Poor Things is meant as a feminist remix of Frankenstein — complete with in-the-know winks to the lives of Mary Shelley and her mother, Mary Wollstonecraft — but it also does double duty as Stone’s surreal, peeled-eyeball account of what it feels like to be repackaged into a Hollywood girl-next-door poppet. For the twist is that every male Svengali figure in Bella’s life, even the ones who want to liberate her sexually, turn out to want to control her.'

It may have been meant that way, but it doesn't sound like it managed it.

https://archive.ph/FlR8J

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/the-best-films-of-2024-so-far-the-critics-verdict-g0xq83lct

The best films of 2024 so far — the critic’s verdict

Emma Stone is going for Oscar glory as a sex-crazed feminist Frankenstein in the beautifully odd Poor Things. Plus our pick of the best movies of the year

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/the-best-films-of-2024-so-far-the-critics-verdict-g0xq83lct

Usernamen · 16/01/2024 20:46

I disagree that the sex scenes were ‘male gaze’, whatever that means. They show a woman with a boy-like figure, pubic hair, a bit dishevelled/scruffy looking, getting satisfied in bed and the man not able to match her sexual appetite (there’s a joke where she asks to ‘go again’ while the male lead is all sexed out).

It was hardly Margot Robbie in Wolf of Wall Street, was it.

pronounsbundlebundle · 16/01/2024 22:23

I hate the idea that it's a baby's brain. Unless that brain has been in her body for 16 years before she has sex it's paedophilia and rape.

The whole 'the brain matures in some ways faster than others' sounds like a really really tenuous argument for justifying the idea that children's brains can in some situations consent to sex. Is there any evidence this is what would happen? I doubt it a LOT.

Really dodgy MAP-like stuff. The brain develops as a whole and this is an extremely unappetising thought experiment by people who clearly like the idea of having sex with someone with a baby's brain and are dressing this up as art.

Quite a lot of red flags, no matter how nicely it's produced.

pronounsbundlebundle · 16/01/2024 22:33

TinselAngel · 15/01/2024 11:20

The other thing I objected to was the idea that a woman's desire to see the world and experience life is purely motivated by sex. I'm sure men would like to think this, and maybe it's true of men, I've no idea, but it's not true of women.

Yes, I don't know a single woman whose life choices are purely motivated by sex.

I don't understand why, if just lack of knowledge around social norms is what they were going for, they could not have had it be an adult brain that had somehow been 'wiped' in certain ways but was at least mature.

Why did it have to be a baby?

I really despair of society at times.

Did it have her learning to talk, and the journey from incontinence
to continence etc as well? Because a lot of that is social norms we're taught - not to just shit ourselves when we feel like it e.g. at the table at breakfast time. Or was it just the sex?

Babla · 17/01/2024 01:25

Cancelledcurio · 16/01/2024 11:30

Sorry click too soon. Let's just be honest then and say what it is , a horrible wee sexual fantasy film for overgrown arts student ladz.

So this is your view of the film but you haven't actually seen it? I disagree completely and still don't see why you think we should judge the film in light of the book and the author

BestwisheswarmestregardstoJesusMaryJoseph · 17/01/2024 06:58

The baby’s brain was used because it was her baby that she was pregnant with at the time of her death - all explained in the film.

Yes she had to learn everything from continence to eating to reading to speaking etc. - all explained in the film.

I feel I need to say this one last time for those that are repeatedly talking about pedophiliia in a film that they have not seen. She was given the brain transplant at the start and this brain matured, she learned and matured. she did not constantly have the brain or mind of a baby. There was no pedophilia, there were predatory men though.

I thought this thread was going to be a good discussion but the amount of knee jerk reactions from people who haven’t seen the film is what I’d expect from Daily Mail readers.

TinselAngel · 17/01/2024 09:23

What stage of the film would you say she began to really have the capacity to consent?

I don't think she had anything approaching an adult brain until the very end.

I thought this thread was going to be a good discussion but the amount of knee jerk reactions from people who haven’t seen the film is what I’d expect from Daily Mail readers.

I don't think insults like that really sting on FWR any more.

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ArabellaScott · 17/01/2024 09:25

Aw noes, have we been clocked reading the wrong paper again?! What a bunch of daft wee wummin, eh? With our tedious focus on consent.