I suspect more women would be happier if they felt that a man had had surgery/ hormone treatment, the gender recognition process was robust, it was very few men and the access to spaces was limited.
Yes. More would. But it still would not solve the problem that some women will still be excluded from the women's space to let men use it. Because some women are going to be excluded by any man, regardless of the cosmetic changes made to that man, and the first job of women's spaces and resources and services is to be inclusive to all women.
Leaving some women, in fact ANY women, without anything at all in order to grant men more choice is not a solution. It should not be acceptable at all, and the fact that to some this is ok just reflects the binary sexism underpinning all of this: the belief that women are made to serve and sacrifice and men are more valuable and should get more at women's expense. Go and look a little girl in the face and tell her her birthright. And that if she's unlucky enough to be one of the groups affected, that she needs to accept that she gets nothing so that special men can have all their best life happy choices.
It's abhorrent.
And this WAS the GRA. That's exactly the compromise that the GRA was. That it would be a tiny tiny number of men who were all fully transitioned, and that justified the impact on women (who weren't consulted.) As we've seen, that crack in the door has been exploited to the nth degree by men, who have demonstrated that there is no good will, no reciprocation, no capacity for this to ever work because men cannot behave in ways that would allow it to. See 'why we can't have nice things'.
No men. At all. Other facilities will have to be created for men who do not wish to use men's spaces, and I'm not remotely interested in how sad or angry those men are at not being allowed to use women and women's spaces to meet their needs. I'm interested in the sad and angry women affected by these men, and in their needs.
Also important to note in this: third spaces and caring equally about women is the answer that values everyone and wants answers that work for all. And this is regarded as the 'extremist' view. Not the view that just excludes and harms women and celebrates it.