I live in Brighton (Hove actually). I went to dinner in my local pub tonight and had a lovely evening with friends. Towards the end of the evening, I went to the ladies. On opening the door, I was greeted by a startled young man declaring ‘I’m sorry. I’m not a pervert. The gents is blocked off’. This was indeed the case, but it was nice to hear a man confirming that it was unusual for a man to be in a women’s toilet and apologising for being there. Living proof that good men stay out so bad men stand out.