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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
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WarriorN · 09/01/2024 09:20

IcakethereforeIam · 06/01/2024 21:39

Missed this, bloody hell.

This charity recruits and presumably TRAINS school governors.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 09/01/2024 09:31

I can’t see - which charity is this?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/01/2024 09:35

It's called "Governors For Schools"

MsGoodenough · 12/01/2024 20:54

I've just hear that all school Governors in my area are going to get training from the Metro charity. Who are totally steeped in Stonewall and Mermaids. It's like the new guidance just doesn't exist....

WarriorN · 12/01/2024 21:03

it's so depressing isn't it.

I feel like schools have no option but to have influence from outside providers. My own school's safeguarding training recently switch from LA to a private company. If this guidance goes through, it will only be the tip of the iceberg

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/01/2024 21:10

It is depressing. While our backs are turned (often for understandable reasons) those pushing this ideology get an even tighter grip on children persuading more and more of them that their bodies are flawed but "we can fix it for you"

MsGoodenough · 13/01/2024 09:54

My Head has also told me that they won't be implementing any of the new guidance at this stage as it is out for consultation. They have also urged all staff to respond to the consultation. They are clearly hoping it will be quashed.

MsGoodenough · 13/01/2024 09:55

Sorry forgot to add: this is why we all need to respond to the consultation, and also make clear our views to our children's schools.

StrongerThanYouTh1nk · 13/01/2024 20:45

IcakethereforeIam · 06/01/2024 21:39

I think 'Governors for Schools' have amended their wording and all this stuff that was previously contradicting government guidance, is no longer there. I can't find it on their website anymore. They should also remove their references to 'trans' students and replace it with 'gender questioning' to align with the guidance, but I think it's reasonable to expect this to happen going forward, rather than the website content to be corrected retrospectively.

IcakethereforeIam · 13/01/2024 21:33

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CriticalCondition · 14/01/2024 00:18

At first glance I wondered if this person was wearing some kind of clerical collar. As someone in the comments has helpfully pointed out, the Telegraph appears to be using a cropped photo. The full version appears on this person's official civil service profile page.
https://www.civilservice.lgbt/team/saorsa-amatheia-tweedale/

School Guidance out Tomorrow
IcakethereforeIam · 14/01/2024 18:25

I wonder how many women in the Civil Service have themselves in a strapless frock in their profile picture?

Binglebong · 14/01/2024 20:15

That looks like a steampunk outfit. It will depend how much they are encouraged to do casual pictures or professional ones.

Froodwithatowel · 15/01/2024 08:57

Possibly 'professionality' has become a bourgeois thing. Like 'ethics'.

Binglebong · 16/01/2024 01:08

I know, we have to let everyone express their personality at all times. "Bring your whole self to work". No. Please don't.

I say this as a steampunker who wears similar outfits. But not at work! Compartmentalising is important.

Edited for typo.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 16/01/2024 08:58

I’m happy to bring myself to work to speak out against this! HR know my thoughts (and agree). I’m too old and knackered to play.

Froodwithatowel · 16/01/2024 09:26

Binglebong · 16/01/2024 01:08

I know, we have to let everyone express their personality at all times. "Bring your whole self to work". No. Please don't.

I say this as a steampunker who wears similar outfits. But not at work! Compartmentalising is important.

Edited for typo.

Edited

But they're lying, aren't they?

You try bringing your homosexual female self to work and explaining that you do not do men regardless of how the man explains he feels internally at the time, because you see homosexual as meaning same sex attracted with sex being fixed from birth.

Or turning up to work in an adult human female t shirt.

Only some people get to let it all hang out and express their little selves. It's like only some people get to choose their language and coercively label others. And only some people get to be allowed a sincere inner belief about themselves. And only some people have to be tiptoed around while others have to 'reframe their trauma'.

These are not values equally applied to all, this is just wall to wall bullshit to do with enabling coercive control and escaping boundaries on appropriate behaviour. So much of this is to do with a desire to break other people's boundaries.

IcakethereforeIam · 16/01/2024 09:33

Can you imagine if someone said the gender critical equivalent of half the stuff he's reported as saying and advocating for? Their feet wouldn't touch, they'd be out the door so fast. Presumably, leaving a wake of dying tp (those unfortunate enough to have been within earshot 😔).

pronounsbundlebundle · 16/01/2024 09:54

Froodwithatowel · 16/01/2024 09:26

But they're lying, aren't they?

You try bringing your homosexual female self to work and explaining that you do not do men regardless of how the man explains he feels internally at the time, because you see homosexual as meaning same sex attracted with sex being fixed from birth.

Or turning up to work in an adult human female t shirt.

Only some people get to let it all hang out and express their little selves. It's like only some people get to choose their language and coercively label others. And only some people get to be allowed a sincere inner belief about themselves. And only some people have to be tiptoed around while others have to 'reframe their trauma'.

These are not values equally applied to all, this is just wall to wall bullshit to do with enabling coercive control and escaping boundaries on appropriate behaviour. So much of this is to do with a desire to break other people's boundaries.

Edited

Well said and those 'some' people have one thing in common - they're almost exclusively male.

A few women and children are allowed into the club to try and pretend it's not all about a certain aspect of toxic male personalities. But we all know, everyone knows. If the people pushing this logic defying & dangerous ideology weren't male they wouldn't be pandered to.

I'm so pleased to see Helen Joyce finally catching up with what we've known on here for so long - gender ideology inherently denies and discards the rights of others. At the most basic, fundamental level. The rights of women and children predominantly.

I can't stop thinking about whether Amy/Andrew Miller's victim had been told repeatedly at school that to clock a transwoman as male would mean she was 'bigoted' - we know this is being taught in schools, particularly Scottish ones. I wonder to what extent that overrode any evolutionarily hard wired red flags that jumped up when she got into that car that maybe getting into an enclosed space with an adult male wasn't a good idea.

Of course we're not allowed to care about safeguarding and ask these questions under this ideology.

Froodwithatowel · 16/01/2024 09:57

gender ideology inherently denies and discards the rights of others.

That needs to be on t shirts and billboards.

Fukuraptor · 16/01/2024 11:22

We're supposed to believe on one hand that kids with trans identities are uniquely vulnerable to mental health crisis and bullying

And that they are mentally robust enough to handle the psychological pressure of keeping a massive secret about who they are, that hundreds of people in their school know and could reveal at any time even by accident, from their parents who they live with and switch between the two identities daily, perhaps multiple times. With the threat that their parents will reject them and perhaps harm them if they knew that they didn't conform to gender stereotypes.

They can't have it both ways.

How socially isolated those children must be. How much training and support are given to full adults who live double lives as part of their jobs (undercover detectives, spies etc)?

Basic safeguarding and psychological safety.

HoneyButterPopcorn · 16/01/2024 13:00

Kids are being sold lies. No wonder so many seen desperately unhappy.

Binglebong · 16/01/2024 14:33

Froodwithatowel · 16/01/2024 09:26

But they're lying, aren't they?

You try bringing your homosexual female self to work and explaining that you do not do men regardless of how the man explains he feels internally at the time, because you see homosexual as meaning same sex attracted with sex being fixed from birth.

Or turning up to work in an adult human female t shirt.

Only some people get to let it all hang out and express their little selves. It's like only some people get to choose their language and coercively label others. And only some people get to be allowed a sincere inner belief about themselves. And only some people have to be tiptoed around while others have to 'reframe their trauma'.

These are not values equally applied to all, this is just wall to wall bullshit to do with enabling coercive control and escaping boundaries on appropriate behaviour. So much of this is to do with a desire to break other people's boundaries.

Edited

Oh i agree, it's a load of bollocks.

pronounsbundlebundle · 16/01/2024 14:51

Fukuraptor · 16/01/2024 11:22

We're supposed to believe on one hand that kids with trans identities are uniquely vulnerable to mental health crisis and bullying

And that they are mentally robust enough to handle the psychological pressure of keeping a massive secret about who they are, that hundreds of people in their school know and could reveal at any time even by accident, from their parents who they live with and switch between the two identities daily, perhaps multiple times. With the threat that their parents will reject them and perhaps harm them if they knew that they didn't conform to gender stereotypes.

They can't have it both ways.

How socially isolated those children must be. How much training and support are given to full adults who live double lives as part of their jobs (undercover detectives, spies etc)?

Basic safeguarding and psychological safety.

This a million times. I've tried to point this out before. If they're really concerned the parents will harm the child if they find out (which they will if the whole bloody school knows and there is forced compliance with wrong sex pronouns which other children may really be very unhappy about, and tell their parents ) then that should be dealt with in the normal way via social services and the police i.e. they should remove the children if there's an imminent threat.

The problem they have with this is it's all bullshit. Most of these parents only have their children's best interests and wellbeing at heart, certainly much more so than those willing to sacrifice their mental wellbeing for an ideology.

I love the point about spies. Yes, living a double life is very difficult, even for a highly trained adults - teachers imposing this upon children are emotionally abusing those children. It's clear as day and those going along with it are enabling abuse.