"it's concerning that I'm being deleted for saying it."
Yes, it is concerning. I wondered what you had said.
I also agree that "her failure to understand the points raised around safeguarding at the beginning is concerning".
It reminds me of her treatment of Jennifer, the transwidow. I wonder if SOM's behaviour is, at least partly, due to prioritising her friendships with men who she considers important over consideration for the feelings of a traumatised woman and her duty of care to children?
Maybe also the same reason she went out of her way to bare-faced lie about Hayton being "silenced" by GC women? For me, the motivation in that case is less significant than the fact that she is capable of such blatant dishonesty.
There seems to be a hard edge inside that fluffy, doe-eyed exterior. She is quite prepared to use it to go on the attack: against women and, in every case that I am aware of, in defence of men.
People with the best possible academic and vocational qualifications can still be rogues or fools. SOM's conduct that has led people to question her background and expertise. They might be exemplary, it is not clear. What is clear is that she cannot be trusted to respect boundaries, to prioritise safeguarding of women and children or to tell the truth.
She could be awarded a medal as Best Psychotherapist in Ireland but it would not change a thing.