Seems that in the clamour to be the go-to on "GC" issues, two things have happened:
- We've started to talk ourselves into GI as a belief. It isn't. It's never been tested and the chances of it becoming legally protected are definitely questionable. This is becoming a regular feature in GC commentary and it needs to be challenged each time we see it.
- Safeguarding discussions have been made smaller, and swept aside. This board used to feature a lot on safeguarding and now it's much more GC-focused. We've been influenced by the loose group of feminists who collectively benefit from waving GC belief about in discussions.
The more we pin everything on GC belief, the further away from Sex we are both moved, and we move ourselves. The further away from Sex we are, the harder it is for safeguarding to be meaningful.
An example would be these awful "universal" toilets with floor to ceiling doors. We need toilets segregated by sex (born sex not bits of paper sex) for privacy and dignity.
We need gaps under the doors so people can see if anyone has collapsed inside.
We need to be able to deal with sanitary wrappings without men hearing us.
But pinning everything on GC beliefs pushes us further from arguing for our Sex. And in the case of transing minors, the further we are from this, the harder it is to maintain a focus on who should not be at the table.
To circle back to the most recent points made in this thread: men with fetishes SHOULD NOT BE AT THE TABLE. We don't need them, we don't want them, they bring us nothing. And their influence pushes children further away from being safeguarded. In fact to go even further back in this thread, it pushes vulnerable people towards men with fetishes.
Frankly I wonder not only how they afford it but what this next conference of Genspect's will be like. And whether some go-to GC people will wish they'd not focused so much on nebulous beliefs, but picked up more about safeguarding. We shall see.