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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Suella Braverman is wrong to tell the police to describe transgender rapists as men.

223 replies

theilltemperedclavecinist · 02/11/2023 15:38

First, calling a trans woman a man is misgendering, which is transphobic even if unintentionally.

Secondly, it is not accurate and precise enough. A trans woman is not a man, but she is not just any woman, either. Accuracy and precision are important for good record keeping, for research purposes, and for correctly informing the public.

Thus, a transgender rapist should be recorded as such in police and cps records, and should be referred to in press releases as per Stonewall guidelines (transgender woman, then trans woman for subsequent mentions).

If there is any doubt, I suggest a default of assuming a suspect is trans, to avoid giving offence. Stonewall guidelines make it clear that trans is an umbrella covering many things, including men who only very occasionally cross-dress, for whatever purpose.

It would help if all press releases included an explainer box about what a trans woman is, given the surprising number of people who don't seem to know.

This approach may make the use of 'cisgender' (eg for other suspects) unavoidable, which I know some will dislike. But avoiding ambiguity about what is really happening seems more of a priority at the moment.

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Catiette · 03/11/2023 17:23

😂 Lots of correcting & self-correcting of language going on here. Slippery thing, innit? I guess that‘s Braverman‘s point.

Catiette · 03/11/2023 17:26

Nope, Catiette‘s free of Clavecin, bar a faint phonetic echo. Different posters. Good to hear, @EarthSight. 😊

StarlightLime · 03/11/2023 17:27

If there is any doubt, I suggest a default of assuming a suspect is trans, to avoid giving offence
Yeah, we should all bend ourselves out of shape to avoid offending a male rapist.

Catiette · 03/11/2023 17:28

Oh, & yeah re: the concern about giving offence. A victim of rape experiences the attacker as male, yet there seems to be not the slightest consideration of protecting her from „offence“, let alone mitigating her distress & trauma, & validating her lived experience or safeguarding her - potentially catastrophically damaged - sense of self. Whatever your thoughts, the absence of debate re: pronoun use at least is telling.

EarthSight · 03/11/2023 17:30

My last post was deleted, so I will repeat hoping this time it won't be.

Stonewall has no authority here. We don't adhere or believe in their quasi-religious, cult-like misogynistic gospel and language rules or 'guidelines'.

pieceofpasta · 03/11/2023 17:42

Desecratedcoconut · 02/11/2023 16:56

Can a woman become a trans woman?

Very good point!

Catiette · 03/11/2023 17:44

More pithy…

Trolls get more from posters getting visibly riled; lurkers get less.

Zero sum game?

theilltemperedclavecinist · 03/11/2023 17:48

StarlightLime · 03/11/2023 17:27

If there is any doubt, I suggest a default of assuming a suspect is trans, to avoid giving offence
Yeah, we should all bend ourselves out of shape to avoid offending a male rapist.

We recently had a case of a man who disguised himself as a woman to commit rapes. Stonewall's definition includes any man who sometimes dresses as a woman. So, man-in-disguise becomes indistinguishable from a person with statutory protections and (if their lobbying succeeds) entitlements. This is so crazy we should maybe lean into it to emphasise that.

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PaperWalkAndTalk · 03/11/2023 19:01

pieceofpasta · 03/11/2023 17:42

Very good point!

There is now a thing called "circumgender" where a natal female feels that she should've been born male and then had a sex change to become a woman.

A new nonsense gender, but unfortunately a thing that I've heard spoken on local government councils.

StarlightLime · 03/11/2023 19:02

PaperWalkAndTalk · 03/11/2023 19:01

There is now a thing called "circumgender" where a natal female feels that she should've been born male and then had a sex change to become a woman.

A new nonsense gender, but unfortunately a thing that I've heard spoken on local government councils.

What the fuck? 🤯

PTSDBarbiegirl · 03/11/2023 19:25

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 03/11/2023 10:25

You are correct, in part. A transwoman is not a man but is a male.

Attempts like this to redefine "man" won't wash with me any more. I've read too much trans propaganda to be in any doubt about the deliberate attempts to bamboozle us all with pseudoscience and the blurring of language. A transwoman absolutely is a man, and a man is a male (adult) human. Even most transwomen know that they are men, even if they try to deny it to themselves and the rest of us.

Correct except I used male because it is a biological not social descriptor.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/11/2023 19:28

Correct except I used male because it is a biological not social descriptor.

'Man' has also always been a biological descriptor - specifying species as well as sex (adult human male). If you want a social descriptor then the word is 'masculine'.

Signalbox · 03/11/2023 20:28

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Datun · 04/11/2023 00:52

PTSDBarbiegirl · 03/11/2023 19:25

Correct except I used male because it is a biological not social descriptor.

Man and males are both biological descriptions. A man is an adult human male. A boy is a juvenile human male.

if you think man has become a social description, what word would you use for an adult human male?

Copperoliverbear · 04/11/2023 01:19

Until you have a sex change you are what you were born as.
I'd like to identify as a millionaire but sadly I'm not one.

Agrona · 04/11/2023 03:27

Some men "identify" (whatever that means) as women but do nothing else (except possibly demand special pronouns). No hormones, no dresses.

Also, there are cases of men who have removed their male genetalia and are still extremely violent criminals. These men should never be housed with women.

Dillane · 04/11/2023 03:33

JellySaurus · 02/11/2023 16:38

Though I do agree with you on this:

But avoiding ambiguity about what is really happening seems more of a priority at the moment.

For the avoidance of ambiguity: people who shove their penises they are not wanted are rapists.

For the avoidance of ambiguity: people who shove their penises they are not wanted are men.

For the avoidance of ambiguity: people who have or once had penises are men.

This

On repeat 👏👏👏👏

Chersfrozenface · 04/11/2023 03:51

Copperoliverbear · 04/11/2023 01:19

Until you have a sex change you are what you were born as.
I'd like to identify as a millionaire but sadly I'm not one.

"Until you have a sex change..."

Which is never, since humans can't change sex, any more than any other mammal can.

They can make changes to their appearance through surgery and pharmaceuticals, but they remain forever the sex they were at conception.

EtiennePalmiere · 04/11/2023 04:41

PaperWalkAndTalk · 03/11/2023 19:01

There is now a thing called "circumgender" where a natal female feels that she should've been born male and then had a sex change to become a woman.

A new nonsense gender, but unfortunately a thing that I've heard spoken on local government councils.

When will it end ??

SinnerBoy · 04/11/2023 05:12

I think that the suggestion of a number of posters, to record the crime as male, (as it is) with a marker to say that he "identifies" as a woman. That way, the gentle, harmless transw myth can eventually be put to bed.

As for not "misgendering" rapists, to avoid offending them... well, rape is many orders of magnitude more offensive than not pandering to a rapist's fantasy, isn't it?

Copperoliverbear · 04/11/2023 07:42

@Chersfrozenface
I was trying to be polite

floranginajelly · 04/11/2023 07:43

All men are men
Even the ones who call themselves women

TodayInahurry · 04/11/2023 07:49

No one should list to a word the evil Stonewall says about anything, it should be shut down.

Helleofabore · 04/11/2023 07:51

Copperoliverbear · 04/11/2023 01:19

Until you have a sex change you are what you were born as.
I'd like to identify as a millionaire but sadly I'm not one.

And even after the euphemistically described ‘sex change’ you remain the sex you were born.

when all the hormone suppression is stopped, if the organs are still present in the body and undamaged, the genetic coding in cells will keep doing their roles. As they were programmed to do since those genes developed.

The sex you were as an embryo will be the sex you are until there are no more of your cells remaining on earth.

Helleofabore · 04/11/2023 07:56

Copperoliverbear · 04/11/2023 07:42

@Chersfrozenface
I was trying to be polite

Unfortunately, being polite leads to ambiguity and allows falsehoods to be spread. Which in turn leads to misinformation which is harmful.