‘Dilation day two ….

[RudsyFarmer]

……. let's play. Where in an airport can I locate a clean, dry, private place I can lie down, take my knickers off and spread my legs?'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12535827/Transgender-ex-Labour-MSP-Heather-Herbert-disabled-toilet-Gatwick-Airport.html

They are no words are there?

I hope it's not crapped all over your paintwork.

Although I hope the teddy bears weren’t too traumatised.

I see a man lying on a toilet floor 😒
I hope there were no disabled people waiting to use it. ( speaking as a disabled woman)

I see (in that pic above) nothing more than a bloke with long hair and giant man hands.

Cock or no cock, still a MAN.

and male pattern baldness.

I have an inkling of what he was trying to do. I think he was trying to make it look like a viral awareness post - look at what I, the poor trans person post op has to go through. I remember reading a story by a woman who posted pics of her equipment needed to change her stoma bag, to highlight how bad the public toilets were. That was done to raise awareness of a very real issue. However the big difference is she didn’t actually go ahead and post a picture of herself changing her stoma bag!

what’s creepy about the picture is that you know what he’s doing without actually seeing it. It’s like that Andy Warhol video the blowjob which just focuses on a close up of the actors face. It makes you feel like a voyeur.

Anyone else see that pic of Herbert on the disabled toilet floor and think of Roy in The IT Crowd?

”I’m fanny disabled…”

Yeah, but, how urgent was it that a manky loo floor was an acceptable place for post op care? An hour in a taxi to LGW, hang around for an an hour or two, a 90 minute flight to ABZ and then a short taxi ride home.

It’s hardly trekking across the outback.

I suppose it's like when you're a kid and you get a new toy and you can't wait to get home before you start playing with it 😬

Where are all the Mumsnet gender-defenders tonight?

<drums fingers>

Although to be fair to Heather, when I gave patients post-operative advice, I never thought to say “Oh, by the way, when dressing your surgical wound don’t do it on the floor of a public toilet”, which I now realise was very remiss of me. There’ll be a whole-scale redrafting of patient information leaflets across the NHS after this.

That bit of bog-roll on the floor near Heather’s head 🤢

Of course no woman has to lie on the floor and 'spread' anything to do anything at all in a loo!!!

He's absolutely porn addled.

Good grief, if we all had to do that, all the live long fucking day, doesn't he think we'd have some slightly more hygienic facility???

Plus, what is that piece of toilet paper on the floor, next to the san bin, that's in the first photograph, but unaccountably deleted from the second? And is that a tampon on it?

Did his careful porny curating of the photo give him away, so he had to delete it?

Jesus, these creeps. It's fucking disturbing that there are sooo many of them.

such a weird fucking sexualised way to describe it. It's so insulting, as if taking your knickers off and spreadying your legs maketh a woman. It blows my mind that such obvious negative appropriation is acceptable...

the nearest analogy I can think of would be a white person appropriating being black.

So the white person declares they are black, declares any black person who denies this statement as having a '-phobia'. Declares black people are a subset of their own race. Immitates black people by donning stereotypical clothing, and if this mad-house insult wasn't quite enough, they loudly present a stupid stereotypical example of something considered 'black', without realising how derogatory it is... - 'HEY YA'LL GETTING MY HAIR DID''. Meanwhile black people watch on, mouths agog, while they are celebrated as being brave.

Oh yes and not to mention all the aggressive white men (IN HOODS AND MASKS!) who will attack and threaten anyone black who does not shut the fuck up and accept this.
JESUS FUCKING CHRIST. WHEN WILL IT END.

the TRAs are like a KKK rehash. Imagine how vuolent they would actuallly be, unrestrained.

I saw this earlier and my first thought was revulsion. No woman would like down on the floor of a public toilet I mean that in itself is repulsive. And even if he had to do it why put it on twitter? BOAK. Just begging for an infection THE DAY AFTER invasive surgery. What a gross, gross man. And if nothing else, what an unflattering angle of his giant hooter. What is wrong with these people?!

It was apparently on the 6th day after surgery.

”Discharge day” 🤢

Absolutely horrifying when you consider the amount of foot fetishists out there!

Reminds me of a time at the seafront with mates and this older man kept staring at our feet and moving closer (we were in sandles/flip flops because of the heat) - We left very swiftly.
Can't imagine being in a contained environment like that with no escape!! x-x

Taking space from a disabled person who may need to use this facillity for many reasons, sometimes urgently. Can you imagine if a female political candidate posted a photo of herself lying on the floor of the disabled toilet putting her mooncup in ? Naw cos we don't do that.

Wow. Is it me or would that conversation not have been allowed to happen a year ago?

The female presenter in the pink top is talking a lot of sense.

Surely HH isn't really bringing a post-operative wound into contact with a toilet floor? Surely? Because that would be absolute insanity.

HH has got to have remained fully dressed out of shot.

If he's got one hand on his chest and the other dilating, how the fuck did he take the photo?

We just want to pee 🤢🤮

Attention seeking prick.

The angle looks wrong for a selfie, actually. I suppose it could be a case of a long selfie-stick, but realistically, I think a friend escorting HH back home after surgery took this.

Unless HH also brought along a tripod to stand the phone on?