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National Trust AGM

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PRAMtran · 04/09/2023 13:59

I’ve received an email from the National Trust inviting me and all other members to vote in their AGM. Does anyone know if there are any things a woman’s rights advocate should vote for or against. Eg TWAW by stealth.

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PencilsInSpace · 10/09/2023 00:51

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 00:00

Pencils

You haven’t engaged in rationale debate at all on this thread.

’twatty’ was hardly in response to a rational argument. It was 100% deserved, levelled at something you had written, rather than a personal insult (which you have made).

I also find it interesting that you are suggesting that ‘dissenting views’ are those which cannot rationally be argued. Which, 6 posts ago, @Ereshkigalangcleg admitted was something which multiple
posters were doing in this thread and which you yourself have defended.

So, so many contradictions and so much hypocrisy.

You haven’t engaged in rationale debate at all on this thread.

Have I not?

Did I not ask GoT to justify her enthusiastic endorsement of queer theory in schools and did I not explain why I believe it's dangerous? Did I get a response? Do you think my explanation was irrational? If so, can you explain why?

Did I not rationally explain why nobody here is particularly bothered about a Tufton Street address? Did I get a response? Do you think my explanation was irrational? If so, can you explain why?

The most rational approach to this thread would have been to bring posters' attention back again and again to why the OP started it. She wanted advice, as a NT member, to help her avoid electing the TRA. I am not a NT member and I have no voting rights. Nevertheless I have pointed out the original purpose of this thread for at least the third time now. What is irrational about that?

’twatty’ was hardly in response to a rational argument. It was 100% deserved, levelled at something you had written, rather than a personal insult (which you have made).

You said Your rather twatty gotcha at 22.04 didn’t work.

My apparent 'gotcha' was Sorry, I didn't realise you identified as a patronising scold in response to you asserting I was tone policing ... who exactly?

I am still in the dark as to why you are caping for patronising scolds among certain sections of society. No rational explanation has been provided.

Please show where I have personally insulted anyone.

I also find it interesting that you are suggesting that ‘dissenting views’ are those which cannot rationally be argued. Which, 6 posts ago, @Ereshkigalangcleg admitted was something which multiple
posters were doing in this thread and which you yourself have defended.

I am very clearly not suggesting that dissenting views are those which cannot rationally be argued. As I said, and as everyone can read in my posts above:

All sorts of people turn up here with all sorts of dissenting views. 'GC' is a huge, uncomfortable political umbrella. Dissent is normal.

When I say 'these' dissenting views I refer specifically to those which cannot be rationally argued and so quickly descend to insults such as 'twattish'.

I am not the same person as @Ereshkigalangcleg , none of us are responsible for each others posts. Nevertheless, scrolling up, I see that the only thing she has 'admitted' is that critical thinking and rational debate are good things that have happened a lot on these boards and I wholeheartedly agree.

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 00:52

Well I am then entitled to think you are being dishonest in claiming you have more but are just choosing not to engage in the discussion. I think you are lying just as I think @pencils was enormously backtracking with all the dissenting views crap that was posted.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 00:53

The most rational approach to this thread would have been to bring posters' attention back again and again to why the OP started it. She wanted advice, as a NT member, to help her avoid electing the TRA. I am not a NT member and I have no voting rights. Nevertheless I have pointed out the original purpose of this thread for at least the third time now. What is irrational about that?

This. The thread was derailed.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 00:54

Think what you like, lovey, no one here is accountable to you for how they post.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 00:56

But I will always point out when people lie about something I have said, or not said.

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 00:56

‘lovey’.
taking the moral high ground didnt last for long.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 00:57

I don't recall taking any moral high ground? More putting words in people's mouths. I couldn't begin to compete with your righteousness.

PencilsInSpace · 10/09/2023 01:03

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 00:52

Well I am then entitled to think you are being dishonest in claiming you have more but are just choosing not to engage in the discussion. I think you are lying just as I think @pencils was enormously backtracking with all the dissenting views crap that was posted.

Edited

No backtracking. I reposted verbatim the relevant parts of my previous post. I stand by every word I have written on this thread.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 01:04

I think it was pretty to me that the mention of humour was meant to be in general, rather than some kind of specific slavery-based humour. But I think for many intersectionalists, if certain topics are even mentioned, it then has to be a completely serious conversation.

Yes.

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 01:05

@pencils give over. It’s pretty clear what you actually meant by ‘dissenting views’

PencilsInSpace · 10/09/2023 01:06

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 00:56

‘lovey’.
taking the moral high ground didnt last for long.

Come on now, you just called me 'twattish'. You cannot claim any moral high ground.

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 01:06

i wasn’t claiming the moral
high ground. @Ereshkigalangcleg was until the ‘lovey’ bit

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 01:08

@pencils are you still unclear of the difference between a noun and an adjective?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 01:08

No, I wasn't. I was saying I don't like being lied about. Which you keep doing.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 01:09

Come on now, you just called me 'twattish'.

Exactly. We're all good.

PencilsInSpace · 10/09/2023 01:09

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 01:05

@pencils give over. It’s pretty clear what you actually meant by ‘dissenting views’

Yes it is very clear what I meant. Everyone can read my post.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 01:13

Why are you trying to read your own odd subtexts into what people say @TheHoover ? Just assume that people mean what they say, they don't actually think something different, so aren't "backtracking". You'll get on better in debates if you approach them in a spirit of mutual good faith. Just some friendly advice.

TheHoover · 10/09/2023 01:22

Yes @Ereshkigalangcleg this is definitely friendly advice. And I definitely shouldn’t ever read any difference into what people say and what they mean.

i mean @pencils really genuinely had absolutely zero jot of inference towards posters on this thread when she posted that scolding, patronising humour free mental health slur.

And then failing to claim that that I was adopting that mantle was just a pleasant enquiry.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 01:26

It is friendly advice 🤷‍♀️ take it or leave it. If you want to read between the lines because you think you've spotted a heinous inconsistency in someone's throwaway posts on a feminist talkboard, that's up to you. But it will probably make you look rather silly quite a lot of the time, as well as not being in the spirit of a good faith conversation. Anyway, nighty night.

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 05:53

NeighbourhoodWatchPotholeDivision · 09/09/2023 21:32

Is it unusual for National Trust visitors to have "small c conservative attitudes"?

i haven’t seen any data on this - have you?

But whether their members are more likely to hold these attitudes, or not, vs the overall population, it makes no difference though to the matter in hand regarding slavery connections As I’ve mentioned several times, Including this in information is a matter of accuracy.

Small c conservative attitudes might make make some feel uncomfortable with this, but the NT exists to “look after history” not to pretend events didn’t happen, censure them for delicate sensibilities, or ignore the latest biographical research into how it’s properties came to be built.

You’re a feminist, right? It wasn’t so long ago women’s history was belittled, erased, sidelined and omitted. What is your motivation for wanting to erase Black history?

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 06:05

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/09/2023 01:04

I think it was pretty to me that the mention of humour was meant to be in general, rather than some kind of specific slavery-based humour. But I think for many intersectionalists, if certain topics are even mentioned, it then has to be a completely serious conversation.

Yes.

So, in the middle of a discussion about the how the history of the brutal enslavement of 3.1 million people, the deaths of 400,000 on slave ships , mass rape and so on, is represented, you think it’s absolutely fine to launch in with absurdist “funny” quips and a call for more “humour” in life.

I find that callous and peculiar. Would you accept the same in a discussion of the Holocaust?

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 06:49

EdithStourton · 09/09/2023 21:52

You know, I thought I would have spotted someone asking for more 'humour' in discussions of slavery, because I would have found it pretty distasteful. And I hadn't noticed.

So (research skills, innit?) I went back through the whole thread searching for 'humour'. And the post I think GOT means is on p.19 and it says, 'Another thing that I find sad is the complete absence of humour in certain sections of society. Scolding and patronising others seems to be their main (only?) form of social interaction. Do these types ever crack a smile?'

Not quite the same thing as asking for 'more "humour" when we discussing a topic involving mass rape and deaths of hundreds of thousands of people', is it?

Rather, it was an observation that some people ('certain sections of society' - which I took to mean, certain posters) seem to be extremely joyless. Slavery is very serious topic, but there were various off-shoot discussions on the thread where humour would be entirely appropriate.

I hope your rather disingenuous attitude is not a fair guide to how you would usually handle your source material. Because if it is, that is rather concerning.

Your research was incomplete.

If you had gone back a little further you would have seen the same poster making a rather pathetic attempt to use absurdist humour to suggest that highlighting a former NT owner’s connections to slavery was somehow irrelevant or not required.

To quote them:

I’m about to visit my local CarpetRight on a nearby industrial estate. As far as I can tell the building is primarily concrete and pressed steel. Any ideas where I can seek out the provenance of the building materials, otherwise I won’t be able to choose a carpet. It’s such a problem these days …

Personally I think making jokes about how the history of slavery is represented and in the middle of a discussion about it, call for more humour (in the topic or life) to be highly distasteful.

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 07:04

Rudderneck · 09/09/2023 20:28

This is typical of where this type of thinking goes. Along with comments suggesting posters are somehow "against narratives about slavery."

I always wonder whether people who take this approach really believe there is only one way to think about how to do history, and all the white people (or at least the bad ones) are against it, while all the black and other non-white people, along with the good whites, are in agreement with that approach.

Which is clearly counter-factual, you will find people of all races that agree with the identarian approach, and people of all races who oppose it and prefer another approach to historical study (literature, politics, and so on.)

So these individuals either are actually naive enough to believe that all black people think alike, (and lacking the self-reflection to see how reductive that is of black people;) or they do know that they don't all hold the same view, but somehow are of the view that the wrong thinking ones don't count (if you don't vote for me, you ain't really black.)

I'm sure some of it comes down to the bad habit among many progressives of always trying to paint people who disagree about anything remotely political as being bigots of some stripe, but there is something really distasteful to me about this tendency to box in views with race like this. Maybe because it results in public figures like KB or many others we could think of being called some pretty nasty names if they don't toe the approved lines. But it's really no better to accuse white people of bigotry because they don't accept queer theory and American identarianism, in its own way its just as cruel. It's all clearly intended to shut people up.

National Trust properties have always displayed information on the occupation and sources of wealth of the families that built the properties. If new research establishes activities related to slavery and colonialism were part of this why wouldn’t you include them?

TheirEminence · 10/09/2023 07:08

I think this thread is fast reaching its natural end but I will respond to this from GoT:

*As I’ve mentioned several times, Including this in information is a matter of accuracy.

Small c conservative attitudes might make make some feel uncomfortable with this, but the NT exists to “look after history” not to pretend events didn’t happen, censure them for delicate sensibilities, or ignore the latest biographical research into how it’s properties came to be built.*

Two things:
If history were only about ‘accuracy’, then there would be very few history books. In any narrative about the past, something will always be left out as it is simply not possible to reproduce everything in one story. All history is partial, and there is no neutral position of total accuracy that can be used as a yardstick. To assume this is historically naive.

Having read the thread, I am confident that the vast majority of posters (I would say all but I’m being careful) support including information on links to slavery in NT materials where they apply to a specific property, and that is probably because in our current historical moment, in which Britain is reckoning with its role in the world and a rapidly diversifying society (including many more British people who are mixed-race/ethnicity) this is regarded as very important.

What some posters seem to disagree with - returning to the starting point of the thread - is a) the NT’s alleged attempt to enforce a very narrow point of view, to the exclusion of other relevant narratives, b) the misrepresentation of history (example: cotton tapestries) and c) a contemptuous attitude towards NT members and audiences who are assumed to be ignorant and resistant to new interpretations, even though sometimes they might actually accurately point out misinterpretations or missing context (again, the tapestry example is brilliant as it pointed to the technological origins of the cotton boom, leading to a better understanding of slavery as an institution).

Finally, even though I support encouraging historical awareness, the way to do this is to appeal to the imagination, encourage audiences to ask questions, meet them were they are, not present history as a morality tale. And it seems from the support RT are getting that the NT risks alienating some of its audience - a dangerous place for a national institution, there for everybody.

Some time ago, I visited the historic house of a famous white male and the one exhibit I remember best is that relating to his wife and the many children she bore over more than two decades. This was the reality for many women in the past and caused huge physical strain, added to by the emotional strain of not many children surviving. Not my experience but I could relate to it. Am I a bad person now for remembering this and not something else?

Sorry for long post.

GodessOfThunder · 10/09/2023 07:38

TheirEminence · 10/09/2023 07:08

I think this thread is fast reaching its natural end but I will respond to this from GoT:

*As I’ve mentioned several times, Including this in information is a matter of accuracy.

Small c conservative attitudes might make make some feel uncomfortable with this, but the NT exists to “look after history” not to pretend events didn’t happen, censure them for delicate sensibilities, or ignore the latest biographical research into how it’s properties came to be built.*

Two things:
If history were only about ‘accuracy’, then there would be very few history books. In any narrative about the past, something will always be left out as it is simply not possible to reproduce everything in one story. All history is partial, and there is no neutral position of total accuracy that can be used as a yardstick. To assume this is historically naive.

Having read the thread, I am confident that the vast majority of posters (I would say all but I’m being careful) support including information on links to slavery in NT materials where they apply to a specific property, and that is probably because in our current historical moment, in which Britain is reckoning with its role in the world and a rapidly diversifying society (including many more British people who are mixed-race/ethnicity) this is regarded as very important.

What some posters seem to disagree with - returning to the starting point of the thread - is a) the NT’s alleged attempt to enforce a very narrow point of view, to the exclusion of other relevant narratives, b) the misrepresentation of history (example: cotton tapestries) and c) a contemptuous attitude towards NT members and audiences who are assumed to be ignorant and resistant to new interpretations, even though sometimes they might actually accurately point out misinterpretations or missing context (again, the tapestry example is brilliant as it pointed to the technological origins of the cotton boom, leading to a better understanding of slavery as an institution).

Finally, even though I support encouraging historical awareness, the way to do this is to appeal to the imagination, encourage audiences to ask questions, meet them were they are, not present history as a morality tale. And it seems from the support RT are getting that the NT risks alienating some of its audience - a dangerous place for a national institution, there for everybody.

Some time ago, I visited the historic house of a famous white male and the one exhibit I remember best is that relating to his wife and the many children she bore over more than two decades. This was the reality for many women in the past and caused huge physical strain, added to by the emotional strain of not many children surviving. Not my experience but I could relate to it. Am I a bad person now for remembering this and not something else?

Sorry for long post.

I made a not dissimilar point about 15 pages ago on the nature of history. No one has suggested history is only about accuracy.

However, in the case of owner biography, this is already an established category of analysis for creating some of the info displayed at NT properties, and so updating in the light of new research is more a straightforward matter of “accuracy”. If Lord X’s economic activities are currently said to include investing in local mining and land holdings, and it later transpires he also derived significant wealth from owning several Caribbean plantations, this can be added to the list.

No one - least of all me - has suggested history should be presented as a “morality tale”. In fact, “judging” the past or presenting “lessons” from it isn’t part of academic historical practice. That’s more a job for philosophers.

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