'Transsexual?" Surely she has been schooled on the correct language which rates that term as outdated.
The idea that women should not bother themselves about losing rights or about being viewed as a resource or an applauding audience for other groups (here trans women, mostly) is galling. It's the 'be kind' which is aimed at only one demographic group which just happens to be the group who is bearing all the costs of transgender demands.