If "politics is personal" just imagine if this was on the Relationships Board.
"Him and his mates used to beat us all up regular if we said anything out of turn. But he said he's noticed lots of women around here flinch when anyone speaks to them and they seem afraid to say anything, they just go into corners whispering to each other. I do still love him and I think he's changed.
Most of his mates are still beating up women though. Some of the women are taking them to court to try to make them stop. I've given them all the money I can afford to help them out. Some of them won and got damages to help them move on, so that's good.
He hasn't apologised yet but I think he has noticed that women don't like it when he beats them up.
Anyway, he's asked me to let him come back. Not sure how the kids will feel about it. Some of the mates he still hangs around with are a bit creepy and keep talking about how little kids should be able to have sex with whoever they want.
I'm not sure. Should I give him another chance?"