Haven't RTFT so sorry if it's been said before although I think it bears repeating:
Children are not adults.
Safeguarding law trumps the equality act.
I.e. a child's right not to be discriminated against does not trump another child's / all the other children's right to safeguarding / safety.
Also, one child's right not to be discriminated against on one characteristic does not give the school free rein to discriminate on the grounds of sex or religion, which current social transition often does.
Social transition which forces compelled speech (pronouns) on other children or the forced imposition of mixed sex spaces is clearly a safeguarding red flag and often illegal. Compelled wrong sex pronouns could be argued to meet the definition of emotional abuse in KCSIE, the statutory safeguarding guidance for schools.
We know the rates of sexual assault are higher in mixed sex spaces, girls have been assaulted in mixed sex toilets in school, the majority of parents and students want schools to comply with the law and have single sex toilets. The law says schools should have single sex toilets.
I despair at how the debate is all around the law in only one tiny area (equalities) and not about safeguarding law which surely should be more important when we're talking about children? It's unacceptable.