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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Remember Petra Wenham? The first transwoman to be on the WI mag cover?

120 replies

Clymene · 05/06/2023 05:50

Wenham transitioned at 68 and promptly joined the WI where they were terribly welcoming. The magazine cover features Wenham coyly peeping from behind a tree and gushing about the sisterhood in the press coverage

https://www.eadt.co.uk/news/21276923.suffolk-retiree-becomes-first-trans-woman-appear-cover-wi-magazine/

Well, you'll never guess what's happened now? Wenham has now been appointed to the National Federation of Women's institutes membership committee.

https://twitter.com/womensins_dec/status/1664887571820806146?s=61&t=gd6tu0Iz6JpyKXGLWMLGjg

I'm sure you'll all join me in being shocked. AngryAngryAngry

We can have nothing for ourselves

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MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 06/09/2023 14:27

This is so very wrong .

RealityFan · 06/09/2023 14:28

Hey, that's why you're so poor at all this. These lovely creatures have endured a world of hurt for many years, have been practicing in front of their full length dress mirror and make-up table, even venturing into enemy territory in toilets and changing rooms, and are ready now to be welcoming and helpful to you, to help you become a better woman.

I mean, don't you want to learn from the best?

RealityFan · 06/09/2023 14:35

I always remember the publicity photo of him, a tabletop of period products, and a mum and daughter being schooled by him.

The gormless mother had a brain dead smile on her face, but the teenage daughter's face was a picture, equal part rabbit caught in headlights, teen diffidence, and "get me the fuck out of here" risk alert adrenaline rushing.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 06/09/2023 14:39

CherryogDog · 05/06/2023 09:48

I've emailed a complaint to head office.
I'm certainly up for a Terf group.

I want to do the same but don't know how to phrase it without frothing and telling them to fuck off with all this bollocks, any pointers ?

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 06/09/2023 15:02

Urgh, my WI mag normally goes in the bin without ever getting out of it’s paper wrapper

it’s sitting on the kitchen table. Do I want to open it?

TheHappyCarrot · 06/09/2023 15:15

Form a breakaway group, the RWI, the Real Women's Institute.

WomensInstituteDeclaration · 06/09/2023 20:01

Yes, check out our website!
I need to update it to include what members have written and dismissive responses.

Women's Institute Declaration

https://wdwi.co.uk/

pickledandpuzzled · 06/09/2023 21:27

Actually, the thread title had me expecting something else! There are worse things that never happen in the media.

Tralalalalee · 06/09/2023 22:28

This sort of rubbish makes me incandescent with rage. So this person transitioned five minutes ago and is not only teaching the WI leadership team all about how to be a woman (because how could they possibly know without a TW’s guidance) they have also been appointed into a senior role - presumably over the heads of women who have actually been WI members (and women) for much longer. (See also Dylan Mulvaney and invitations to the White House, sponsorship deals etc.)

If the WI wishes to be more visibly inclusive they should be championing disabled women, black, Asian and Jewish women, lesbians and bisexual women, young and old women, those of different faiths and none. Not this utter nonsense.

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 06/09/2023 23:20

If the WI wishes to be more visibly inclusive they should be championing disabled women, black, Asian and Jewish women, lesbians and bisexual women, young and old women, those of different faiths and none. Not this utter nonsense

This ^ 100%

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 06/09/2023 23:21

If the WI wishes to be more visibly inclusive they should be championing disabled women, black, Asian and Jewish women, lesbians and bisexual women, young and old women, those of different faiths and none. Not this utter nonsense

This sums up how I feel perfectly, I might pinch this and put it in my email of complaint of you don't mind?

Tralalalalee · 06/09/2023 23:44

Don’t mind at all - happy to help.

TheUsualChaos · 06/09/2023 23:55

I honestly don't understand what's going on. The WI, Girl Guiding... from what I can gather the vast, VAST majority of women are not ok with males joining these groups for all sorts of valid and justified reasons. Yet it's happening. Why??

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 06/09/2023 23:56

Thank you 😊

highame · 07/09/2023 07:32

No Longer the WI, now
Trans
Women's
Institute and
National
Society
Enabling
Transition

or TWINSET which is probably what Petra is going to teach us about 😁

Clymene · 07/09/2023 08:09

TheUsualChaos · 06/09/2023 23:55

I honestly don't understand what's going on. The WI, Girl Guiding... from what I can gather the vast, VAST majority of women are not ok with males joining these groups for all sorts of valid and justified reasons. Yet it's happening. Why??

Men. That's what happening. Men want something, they take it. And women have been groomed all our lives to pander to what men want.

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Froodwithatowel · 07/09/2023 08:39

And the best woman for the job is obviously a male one.

And it's worth excluding vulnerable women from a women's resource in order to pander naicely to a man.

Just fuck everything at the moment. There is not one women's institution or group or resource (except the one JKR personally funded, and is defending) left to women. Largely because a lot of very stupid women love to handmaiden.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 07/09/2023 09:55

I suspect a lot of women at senior level in these organisations have trans tweens which is why they are so gung ho. I’ll be amazed if this isn’t the case for women on WI trustee board or SMT

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 07/09/2023 09:56

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HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 07/09/2023 09:58

highame · 07/09/2023 07:32

No Longer the WI, now
Trans
Women's
Institute and
National
Society
Enabling
Transition

or TWINSET which is probably what Petra is going to teach us about 😁

You are not far off , he holds regular zoom coffee morning , no doubt to evangelise.

HowdidImanagetohavetwoaccountaandthenloseboth · 07/09/2023 10:10

Fuck my post was deleted very quickly, It seems that I am not allowed to write things even though Ithe facts I wrote about I read in an interview in WI Life! And from what I read , it reads classic AGP .

So I will repost again about the equality policy .

if you look at it there are several pages on gender and trans but not so much on race , religion, age , lesbian and bisexual women. Less on disability than there is on gender. Mermaids and Gendered Intelligence are cited as organisations to go to seek help . Mermaids is in the news of course , Gendered intelligence promote trans in young people and sell chest binders on their website.

DadJoke · 07/09/2023 10:17

The policy to allow trans women to join has been in place since the 70s. There are 180,000 members, and Wenham was democratically elected by those members. 700 members signed a petition to ban trans women - this is a tiny handful, and to call the Women's Institute "handmaidens" is patronising and laughably tone-deaf.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 07/09/2023 10:23

im sure you can evidence that claim that it’s been in place since the 70s