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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Kathleen Stock was on Good Morning Britain This Morning

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dunBle · 29/05/2023 07:34

although she got talked over by Ed Balls quite a lot. It'll be on ITV1+1 at about 7:40 I think until just before 8am.

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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 29/05/2023 18:30

That was a man desperately trying not to look too hard at his beliefs wasn’t it?

’but my relationship with my son depends on me pretending that I believe some men are women. Please stop making so much sense Kathleen!’

BellaAmorosa · 29/05/2023 18:32

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 29/05/2023 13:13

During the interview, Kathleen made it clear she supports transgender people being protected by law and has no ambition to argue against the Equality or Gender Recognition Act.

However, she explained to hosts Ed and Charlotte Hawkins: “I think we need words to describe the differences between males and females because they matter socially across all sorts of domains.”

and this is the person Stephen Whittle et al think is too extreme to be featured on a channel 4 documentary. Loons

as for Balls, when what you believe is unmitigated bobbins you can’t listen to what other people think can you? That way lies disaster

The TRA have alienated and attacked their strongest allies among GC women - Prof Stock, JKR...just more proof of how nuts and destructive the whole movement is.

WallaceinAnderland · 29/05/2023 18:42

BewaretheIckabog · 29/05/2023 18:15

Did EB really tell KS it’s complicated and she’s trying to oversimplify it?

He looked an idiot but then said women can’t have a penis. He clearly knows nothing about the subject.

Well quite.

"I'm telling you it's complicated"

To a woman who has literally written a book on the subject and was hounded out of her job and continues to face criticism for speaking truths on the subject.

So arrogant and patronising. Yet another man telling a woman what a woman is.

I love Kathleen's expressions in response to his statements 😂

At least he's on record stating that women don't have a penis so there's the upside.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/05/2023 18:42

EB - Someone who has transitioned and wants to be a woman, I think it's fine to call them a woman. I don't know why you don't want to allow them to make that choice

I realise there's no point in answering EB on this thread, but as this line typifies one of the bad faith arguments that gets flung arount by TRAs a lot I think it's worth providing the counter anyway.

No, Ed. It's not that I don't want to allow "them" to make that choice.

It's that the choice they want to make for themselves forces a new definition of womanhood onto all women whether we want it for ourselves or not.

Because the only way to believe that male people can be called women is if one believes that a woman, which I also am, is a woman not because of her body, with all that entails socially and physically, but because of something in her mind.

And if society belives that, it believes that woman's rights and protections, and indeed women's experiences, needs and political voice, are not shaped by the needs and challenges of the female-bodied half of humanity but by those who feel they have a female mind.

As a female-bodied person, I look at the history of my sex's fight to escape from the legal, social, intellectual, political and cultural margins where male people kept us, and to be recognised as complete, equal and worthwhile humans in our own right. To understand and define ourselves rather than accept the definitions men placed upon us based on what they observed and assumed. To tell our own stories in our own voices, not simply be the characters in narratives written from the outside by men. And I am not prepared to go back to Womanhood being something men decide for us.

So it's not that I don't want to allow them to make a choice for themselves, it's that the choice they want to make for themselves is also a choice they are also making for me, and it is that which I cannot accept.

MimiGC · 29/05/2023 18:48

Balls was arrogant, patronising and a terrible host, who kept talking over the guest who had given up her time to appear on his show. Kathleen has the patience of a saint and I don't know how she keeps her cool when she's constantly interrupted and often misrepresented. Looking forward to the C4 programme tomorrow.

RavingStone · 29/05/2023 18:48

*flirtswithrhinos"

Brilliant post

dapsnotplimsolls · 29/05/2023 18:57

I don't think Ed Jr will be happy about the penis comment ...

maltravers · 29/05/2023 18:57

She’s good isn’t she, smart and unflappable. I think many started off agreeing to treat TW as women like Ed wants (the local TW on my street didn’t pass, but she wasn’t interfering with my life - live and let live). But that wasn’t enough and the TRAs can’t help pushing for more - access to women’s spaces/sports, no women’s spaces where TW not included, TW on women’s wards, women to be referred to as “bodies with vaginas”, children to be given hormones etc. etc. now is IS interfering in my life. Now we have to draw a line in the sand and say No.

zibzibara · 29/05/2023 19:18

KS - it depends how you phrase the question. If you ask can a woman have a penis, most people say no.

EB - Yeah but I agree with that.

Did he mean that he agrees that women can have a penis, or that women can't have a penis? This part was unclear to me.

Forwarder · 29/05/2023 19:21

The Guardian has misquoted her about children. She said something about Irreversible changes to children's bodies causes upset, upset to their parents. Note the comma.

The Guardian are truly scum promoting this stuff.

KS is so cool though isn't she? After all she's been through, still able to laugh at pompous mansplaining prats.

Forwarder · 29/05/2023 19:22

@zibzibara Ed is looking for a middle ground. Maybe half a penis? Or only half of women have a penis?

RoyalCorgi · 29/05/2023 19:25

If you interrogate Balls's position you can see the idiocy of it. He's saying that Stock's position - insisting that humans can't change sex - is extreme.

A moderate position, in his view, is knowing that humans can't change sex, but pretending that they can.

How can requiring people to tell lies be a moderate position?

KalimbaMoon · 29/05/2023 19:27

Wonder why Ed kept talking over Kathleen? Was he frightened that her sensible, reasonable point of view makes just a little bit too much sense? Quick, talk over her before she peaks the audience! Or was he fearing a backlash from his nearest and dearest? I can’t believe he tried to paint her as being on the “extreme” side. It felt like she was being given a ticking off for being a naughty gender-critical woman hurting people’s feelings. How mean of her to not let people be women if they want to be women. Listen up, Ed - it’s not Kathleen stopping men from becoming women. It’s that terfy old bigot known as Mother Nature. Reality matters in life and in law. Nothing is stopping people from presenting however they please. They just can’t change sex.

RelaxingClassics · 29/05/2023 19:31

Anyone who starts their sentence with " I am telling you.." sounds like a fucking knob. "Oh ok then wise one".

PurpleBugz · 29/05/2023 19:52

RavingStone · 29/05/2023 18:48

*flirtswithrhinos"

Brilliant post

Agreed. So hard to put that point into words for others and this does so perfectly.

@FlirtsWithRhinos can I steal your wording for a sort of leaflet I'm putting together for myself/friends/family to explain GC position?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/05/2023 19:58

PurpleBugz · 29/05/2023 19:52

Agreed. So hard to put that point into words for others and this does so perfectly.

@FlirtsWithRhinos can I steal your wording for a sort of leaflet I'm putting together for myself/friends/family to explain GC position?

Yes of course, please do take anything you find useful from my posts. I see FWR as a resource we build between us.

BigShoutyRaven · 29/05/2023 20:02

RelaxingClassics · 29/05/2023 19:31

Anyone who starts their sentence with " I am telling you.." sounds like a fucking knob. "Oh ok then wise one".

It's also totally shit as an interviewer. What decent interviewer gets someone on to talk and starts with "I'm telling you..."

PurpleBugz · 29/05/2023 20:02

@FlirtsWithRhinos
Thanks!
You are right such an amazing resource.

BluebellBlueballs · 29/05/2023 20:05

WallaceinAnderland · 29/05/2023 18:42

Well quite.

"I'm telling you it's complicated"

To a woman who has literally written a book on the subject and was hounded out of her job and continues to face criticism for speaking truths on the subject.

So arrogant and patronising. Yet another man telling a woman what a woman is.

I love Kathleen's expressions in response to his statements 😂

At least he's on record stating that women don't have a penis so there's the upside.

He's got a vested interest in it being complicated because if it's simple and he's been wrong all this time, well....then he's simple is the implication.

TheBiologyStupid · 29/05/2023 20:09

WallaceinAnderland · 29/05/2023 17:21

Here's a rough, amateur transcript of the Ed Balls bit:

EB - But to just ask you a kind of particular question then because, you know, clearly we were reporting that the um, in sport now um, it's been decided that women who aren't sexually a woman shouldn't be able to (unitelligible), exactly, that slightly, um, provoked my question, er, so, er, um those women, um, those, um, people will not be able to compete in a swimming race if they are trans um have transitioned and clearly it's important to have protections around, er, safe spaces and you referred to that earlier but, is it not possible in your view for somebody who was a man to become, as they would describe it, a woman?

KS - No, you can't change sex, it's not biologically possible

EB - Yeah but I didn't ask you about sex, I asked you about if they could become a woman

KS - Well that's a... Womanhood, I would say is entirely, predicated on sex, there's no other good way of doing...

EB - Lots of people would say that's an extreme view

KS - If you'll let me explain...

EB - But a lot of people would say that's an extreme view

KS - Well of course they do but if you will let me explain my reasoning, biology is the thing that affects our body's performance in sport, that affects our chances of being sexually assaulted, that affects...

EB - I can see all that, I can see all that

KS - Well then, so what's the word for that adult human female? Woman, I'm afraid.

EB - So if a transperson transitions and legally becomes a woman. Wants to be described as a woman

KS - I'll describe him as a woman for certain limited

EB - But you see

KS - purposes but there's got to be limits because

EB - You see

KS - obviously broader debate that we just talked about matters.

EB - Yeah, I understand about that. I understand. The, the thing I feel is that there's two extremes having this big fight. And actually most people in the centre ground think well of course that person's not sexually a woman but actually they can become legally a woman and they are a woman.

KS - They can...

EB - And why do you want to tell a vulnerable, young 21 year old that they can't be a woman because you have decided they are not allowed to be one.

KS - Well I didn't decide it. I mean the human, we're animals, we're based in nature. The world decided it. Evolution decided it. I mean, it's crazy to think that just because I make some category distinctions that have been around for centuries and in every natural language, that I'm deciding who gets to be a woman. I'm not, I'm describing the world I see and we have evolved to make differentiations between males and females in the human species and they are very useful distinctions, the whole future of reproduction depends on recognising males and fe...

EB - So you're saying to someone who transitions, they are not a woman.

KS - I don't go up to them and say that...

EB - but you are saying it

KS - I'm happy to, yes, if in general I am because...

EB - Do you understand though

KS - it matters

EB - that is the thing that makes people feel as though they (indistinguishable)

KS - Yes I understand that but

EB - Some people say

KS - I also understand

EB - any body can be a woman and other people say they can't be a woman. And actually most people in the middle think, well actually...

KS - Well how do you know what most people in the middle think Ed? Have you polled them?

EB - Well, I mean, um, I think that, um, I do know what most people think.

KS - Oh yeah, I can see that <chuckles>

EB - And you think I'm wrong?

KS - Well, I think if you look at the polling on this...

EB - <groans>

KS - it depends how you phrase the question. If you ask can a woman have a penis, most people say no.

EB - Yeah but I agree with that.

KS- Oh ok. Hmm <chuckles> Right. So obviously you are more extreme than many

EB - I'm telling you. Yeah but I'm telling you it's complicated. That in your attempt to symphathise you end up extremely polarised

KS - I know that you think it's complicated. I wrote a whole book about it, to go through every single argument and I assure you that I'm also prepared to go along with preferred pronouns, I'm prepared to immerse myself in the fiction that someone has changed sex but I don't think they actually have and I think we need words to describe the differences between males and females because they matter socially...

EB - Someone who has transitioned and wants to be a woman, I think it's fine to call them a woman. I don't know why you don't want to allow them to make that choice

KS - I know, well that's why we're arguing about it. It's a difference of opinions.

Car crash interview. He didn't want to hear anything about it and made sure the viewers couldn't either.

All I have to say is - are YOU 'sexually' a woman?

😂

Thanks for that. Balls is such an idiot.

Heliotroper · 29/05/2023 20:19

His pathetic attempt to be 'the reasonable man' is absolutely nauseating

TheBiologyStupid · 29/05/2023 20:27

RoyalCorgi · 29/05/2023 17:29

Thanks very much for the transcript, Wallace. I know you have deliberately only included the Ed Balls bit, but the bit at the end where Kathleen was able to speak freely was magnificent.

Yes, clear and calm and moderate as always. TRAs trying to paint someone like KS as a hateful bigot just exposes the paucity of their arguments.

PriOn1 · 29/05/2023 20:55

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 29/05/2023 13:13

During the interview, Kathleen made it clear she supports transgender people being protected by law and has no ambition to argue against the Equality or Gender Recognition Act.

However, she explained to hosts Ed and Charlotte Hawkins: “I think we need words to describe the differences between males and females because they matter socially across all sorts of domains.”

and this is the person Stephen Whittle et al think is too extreme to be featured on a channel 4 documentary. Loons

as for Balls, when what you believe is unmitigated bobbins you can’t listen to what other people think can you? That way lies disaster

Whittle is smarter than that.

It’s likely the real reason is that nobody who takes the time to listen to her could fail to see how reasonable and considered her views are.

Any claim that her views are extreme is a desperate attempt to silence her because they can’t afford for anyone to hear what she has to say.

Heliotroper · 29/05/2023 21:06

"Lots of people would say that's an extreme view"

'Lots of people say' is really cowardly way to conduct an argument

If you believe it Ed then say so

He knows its nonsense which is why he hides behind it