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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man

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DerekFaker · 14/05/2023 11:47

This is really shocking.

Thanks to bosky for compiling the tweets.

Relevant tweets to date (some include audio as well as images).

April 24
https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1650530543992225800

May 6 - 6.07pm (tweet in screenshot by DerekFaker)
https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1654895568387289095

May 6 - 9.01 pm (more info QTing above tweet)
https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1654939517667663874

May 8 - 3.25pm
https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1655579636900802568

May 8 - 12.19pm
https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1655532779088621570

May 9 - 3.22pm
https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1655941213693038594

May 9 - 3.39pm (link to Guardian article about a similar case?)
https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1655945645063282690

Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man
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DerekFaker · 14/05/2023 11:48

Can we pretty please try not to get into protracted, repetitive arguments with the poster that always pops up to defend the police?

Grey rock is your friend.

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DerekFaker · 14/05/2023 12:31

I am receiving threats of violence, threats of my door being broken down, sexual harassment, being told to kill myself

I have been told that if I speak about the harassment and abuse I have received by male members of the music community I will be arrested

I think for any woman this is terrifying, and I have reached the point of wanting to be public in this

I hope people share and state that they also see this stance of the @metpoliceuk as abhorrent, this is not an acceptable stance

https://twitter.com/SMojsiejenko/status/1650530543992225800?t=1YvNe03e0H1ykIk00LoKAw&s=19

Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man
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DerekFaker · 14/05/2023 12:35

Some screenshots for those who can't access twitter

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Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man
Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man
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DerekFaker · 14/05/2023 12:37

Another similar case.

"Thanks @GlamourMagUK for asking me to share my story. CW/ I describe the assault by tattooist Billy Hay, failures in the justice system which led me to being sued, sexual assault myths experienced, and the judge's very reassuring response to them:"

glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/nina-c… #MeToo

https://twitter.com/OhNinaC/status/1655957951415300096?t=NiBzxKgPu_G91lNX9-_pBA&s=19

https://twitter.com/OhNinaC/status/1655957951415300096?s=19&t=NiBzxKgPu_G91lNX9-_pBA

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DerekFaker · 14/05/2023 12:38

"Hay v Creswell [2023] EWHC 882 (KB), QB-2020-003856.
Nina Cresswell not only got an important judgement but showed that: the statements were on a matter of public interest, belief was reasonable. Judge Williams said: "the statutory defence of truth provided for is established."

https://twitter.com/damian17236445/status/1656003884396019716?t=pQSuxnfRmtsdxQ_Sjg_Gyg&s=19

Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man
Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man
Woman told not to post about her abuse and harrassment in case she upsets the man
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Forwarder · 14/05/2023 13:56

It's hard to make sense of the disconnected tweets. Please could someone help her write the story up

PatatiPatatras · 15/05/2023 05:36

From what I can gather:
A mother and her adult child have been victims of violence (possibly at the hands of different men over time - hard to decipher).

The violence suffered by the young adult woman is within a music community.

The met police have been alerted multiple times between 2019 and now- 2023, with their response being wholly inadequate and lately resulting in the met police harming even further the victim of the initial abuse.

The victim is now coming under pressure from the music community and supposedly the met to be quiet about her experiences. The perpetrator and/or online trolls are actively using the police as part of further abusive threats.

The victim goes on to cite two cases which give her hope that one day she will get justice and/ or recognition that what is being done to her is wrong.

And there seems to be someone who lurks on MN to cause trouble to get threads about this deleted.

That's what I understood anyway.

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