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Irish Eurovision band sack team member for saying a male rapist is not a woman

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Xoxoxoxoxoxox · 26/04/2023 06:08

Ian Banham - the creative director for the Irish Eurovision Song has been sacked by the other band members because he wrote a tweet calling out the press for referring to a male rapist as a ‘she’.

The band have issued this statement:

Wild Youth is a band that stands for unity and kindness. Our song represents our beliefs as a band. We have cut all ties with lan Banham and will not have him on or near our team or Eurovison journey. We are so sorry for anyone offended by his comments.

They are in effect sacking their band mate and they defending a rapist’s right to be called she’ and they say they stand for ‘kindness’.
There is a backlash, I wonder how much support they will get for this.

https://twitter.com/bandwildyouth/status/1650833255266934784?s=46&t=KoykWa-IFitZMrteWP2pKA

Irish Eurovision band sack team member for saying a male rapist is not a woman
Irish Eurovision band sack team member for saying a male rapist is not a woman
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MidsomerMurmurs · 26/04/2023 13:18

ArabeIIaScott · 26/04/2023 11:36

Well, okay, but my point was largely that the singer can't sing and the dancer can't dance. The tune's shit and the costumes are awful.

Call me old fashioned.

Yeah but that’s just nitpicking, innit? #spinaltap

StopStartStop · 26/04/2023 13:20

Theunamedcat · 26/04/2023 06:51

Have they lost their fucking minds?

Seems like half the world have lost their fucking minds.

StephanieSuperpowers · 26/04/2023 16:17

I must say, that photo is excessively cool, youthful and modern. Even someone as old as me can see the contemporary vibe ooze out of it.

RedToothBrush · 26/04/2023 16:51

StephanieSuperpowers · 26/04/2023 16:17

I must say, that photo is excessively cool, youthful and modern. Even someone as old as me can see the contemporary vibe ooze out of it.

It just screams 'cock' to me. As in either 'look at my' or 'i am a'.

But a display of cock non the less.

Datun · 26/04/2023 16:59

I just see 'this is how I sit on the tube'.

ReadersD1gest · 26/04/2023 17:01

StephanieSuperpowers · 26/04/2023 12:58

I honestly think the only thing that will stop this scourge in the end is adults deciding not to give in to it any more. The amount of power that has been handed over to this cabal made up of the cynical, the stupid, the self obsessed and the personality disordered is just shocking.

Hear, hear.

ScrollingLeaves · 26/04/2023 17:06

MidsomerMurmurs · Today 07:01

Look at the way “our BBC” reports this:https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-65389105

“Screen grabs circulated on Twitter of Ian Banham's account referring to transgender women as men in posts.”

Oh how shocking and unkind! Wonder why “Daniel Rosney Eurovision reporter” didn’t feel the need to spell out that Banham referred to a male rapist as a man?

The BBC really has not mentioned that he was referring to a (male) rapist. That makes their report biased by omission.

Have you written to complain by any chance, Midsomer?

Wild Youth

Eurovision 2023: Ireland's Wild Youth cut ties with creative director after transgender posts

The Irish band Wild Youth say they stand for "unity and kindness" and will no longer work with Ian Banham.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-65389105

AutumnCrow · 26/04/2023 17:32

That youthfully wild lead singer reminds me of Father 'Damo' Damien. I bet he smokes cigarettes and everything.

IwantToRetire · 26/04/2023 18:17

On Wednesday, Rowling posted a defence of the creative director alongside the hashtag #IStandWithIanBanham.

She said: “The re-traumatisation of female rape survivors, including this man’s victims, on seeing him called a woman by the press counts for nothing, naturally.

“The so-called kindness and inclusivity of @bandwildyouth is preening, self-satisfied misogyny.

“For those confused as to why Ian Banham was fired and publicly lambasted by @bandwildyouth, here’s one of his ‘horrifying’ tweets.
“His crime is standing against the insanity of pretending knife-wielding rapists are women if they say they are.”

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/jk-rowling-accuses-irish-eurovision-125034299.html

JK Rowling accuses Irish Eurovision act of ‘misogyny’ amid transgender dispute

The band parted ways with its creative director ahead of the contest next month.

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/jk-rowling-accuses-irish-eurovision-125034299.html

MerlinsLostMarbles · 26/04/2023 20:02

Hi JK Rowling, I know you're reading this. It's where you get the material for your tweets.

MerlinsLostMarbles · 26/04/2023 20:03

And to reiterate, there is no evidence this is the specific tweet mentioned by OP that caused him to be fired. There were many tweets considered transphobic.

WickedSerious · 26/04/2023 20:10

MerlinsLostMarbles · 26/04/2023 20:03

And to reiterate, there is no evidence this is the specific tweet mentioned by OP that caused him to be fired. There were many tweets considered transphobic.

Has he been referring to other blokes as men?

RufustheSpecuIatingreindeer · 26/04/2023 20:10

MerlinsLostMarbles · 26/04/2023 20:02

Hi JK Rowling, I know you're reading this. It's where you get the material for your tweets.

I doubt she’s reading your posts chum…

ReadersD1gest · 26/04/2023 20:11

MerlinsLostMarbles · 26/04/2023 20:03

And to reiterate, there is no evidence this is the specific tweet mentioned by OP that caused him to be fired. There were many tweets considered transphobic.

By you, or by the rest of us? Slight difference, I think...

RufustheSpecuIatingreindeer · 26/04/2023 20:11

RufustheSpecuIatingreindeer · 26/04/2023 20:10

I doubt she’s reading your posts chum…

Or mine 😀😀😀

IcakethereforeIam · 26/04/2023 20:13

MerlinsLostMarbles · 26/04/2023 20:02

Hi JK Rowling, I know you're reading this. It's where you get the material for your tweets.

Oh you, flattererBlush

BCBird · 26/04/2023 20:14

The world is going mad.

Boiledbeetle · 26/04/2023 20:21
jk rowling GIF by Elite Daily

Now I'm not saying or implying or hinting in anyway that I may go by a different more familiar name out in the real world but any one of us could be JKR!

ArabeIIaScott · 26/04/2023 20:21

Oh, is Mumsnet like some kind of mad reverse Ouija Board where we can just yell our greetings into the void in the hope that some random famous person will stumble on them? Fantastic.

NICK CAVE I LOVE YOU

GailBlancheViola · 26/04/2023 20:23

MerlinsLostMarbles · 26/04/2023 20:02

Hi JK Rowling, I know you're reading this. It's where you get the material for your tweets.

Gosh, how long did it take you to some up with that devastating put down? I'm in awe of your supreme with and intellect.

NecessaryScene · 26/04/2023 20:23

NICK CAVE I LOVE YOU

Right back at you, darling.

ReadersD1gest · 26/04/2023 20:24

NecessaryScene · 26/04/2023 20:23

NICK CAVE I LOVE YOU

Right back at you, darling.

😂

ArabeIIaScott · 26/04/2023 20:28

NecessaryScene · 26/04/2023 20:23

NICK CAVE I LOVE YOU

Right back at you, darling.

😮😮😮OMG!!!!!!

WickedSerious · 26/04/2023 20:28

NecessaryScene · 26/04/2023 20:23

NICK CAVE I LOVE YOU

Right back at you, darling.

Spooky.

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