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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

A little victory for Ireland regarding pronouns after huge backlash

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Leopardprintonsie · 04/04/2023 22:12

https://gript.ie/garda-commissioner-withdraws-gender-pronoun-plan-after-backlash/

The Irish need to keep the pressure up. People power. The tide has turned. People are having no more of this nonsense.
Next step reverse the GRA.

Garda Commissioner withdraws gender pronoun plan after backlash - Gript

Branded “unfair” by officers.

https://gript.ie/garda-commissioner-withdraws-gender-pronoun-plan-after-backlash

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Leopardprintonsie · 05/04/2023 08:42

@VaddaABeetch these is absolute censorship in the Irish press & lovey, dovey trans propoganda.
Only one paper published our Trans poster boy Barbie & no media besides the Gript have published GAAs Giulia Genitals.

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EmotionalSupportHyena · 05/04/2023 08:51

Feemie · 04/04/2023 22:55

I would characterise it as some tiny, initial indications that some delusional beliefs shouldn’t negatively impact on women’s safety.

I’m not sure who you mean by ‘weird outdated conservative types’.

Anyone over the age of 24.

Anyone with normal coloured hair.

DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 05/04/2023 09:16

Every conversation I've had about Enoch Burke (and there have been quite a few over the last six months) has started with 'I don't agree with the way he's behaving with the courts and the school management, and the Burkes are a weird bunch BUT . . .'

and developed into deep misgivings about encouraging genderism, particularly among teenagers, often with illustrations of young people who went down the rabbit hole to their own detriment. Then it goes on to Barbie and football and changing rooms and loos, and then to comparisons between the genderists and the church power structures and George Gibney et al and how none of them have the interest of women or adolescents at heart, and then the Kerry CAMH scandal in the HSE (not about gender but utterly about inappropriately drugging children with mental health issues).

Enoch has accidentally done women a favour by providing a wedge to start the debate.

Admittedly I'm old, and the youngest person I've discussed this with was in their late 20s and most much older, but NO-ONE has been pro-genderism.

Bláthannabuí · 05/04/2023 13:09

This wasn't reported on RTÉ at all. It's a shame they feel they cannot inform the general public on this. It's very relevant to the current mood in the country especially after the Burke case.
Surely this raises the clear argument that if public sector workers such as the Gardaí (who also need to work with minors) do not have to use pronouns neither should teachers.
Would love to know the Burke's opinion.

DublinFemale · 05/04/2023 14:31

I wonder how many TWAW would feel like a woman if they were locked in M&B homes and ML for the crime of being female.

Bláthannabuí · 05/04/2023 14:33

https://gript.ie/kerry-school-backs-off-on-three-floors-of-gender-neutral-toilets-after-backlash-from-parents/

Another little victory here regarding the gender neutral toilets in Co Kerry. Between this & the Gardaí not using prounons it seems like the pushback is gaining momentum very quickly. And getting desired results.

Kerry School backs off on three floors of gender neutral toilets after backlash from parents  - Gript

'Safety risks'

https://gript.ie/kerry-school-backs-off-on-three-floors-of-gender-neutral-toilets-after-backlash-from-parents

StephanieSuperpowers · 05/04/2023 14:41

Wonderingiforifnot · 04/04/2023 22:51

There's been a bit of a backlash against trans rights over here but on the whole most people don't agree with anti -trans activists. There's a lot of healthy scorn for all these weird outdated conservative types and fingers crossed the support for all rights will continue.

Personally I think this is why there's a backlash. There is only so far you can push by silencing dissent and telling people they're like, totally uncool and probably would have locked women up in Magdalen laundries or left women to die for want of an abortion. Most people will stop when you start telling them that. But when you come for their kids, you can call them all the names under the sun if you haven't actually thought about what you're asking people to permit and persuaded them that it's a good idea for well thought out reasons.

No debate got us this far but it has left the TRAs stranded and unable to formulate any proper argument now that everyone wants to know why, exactly, you want to teach primary school children that they can be born in the wrong body (without giving a second of consideration to what this may mean for disabled children in the classroom), that children can change sex and that there can't be single sex toilets.

Bláthannabuí · 05/04/2023 14:47

@StephanieSuperpowers I think many are cottoning on that allowing men into women's spaces is not progressive. It is anti progressive. It is giving men free reign in our spaces. I'm watching the UK very closely & it looks like change is going to happen. Our government need to heed what is happening accross the water as many oppressed Irish women are hoping for similar here & that's not up for debate.

Feemie · 05/04/2023 15:15

StephanieSuperpowers · 05/04/2023 14:41

Personally I think this is why there's a backlash. There is only so far you can push by silencing dissent and telling people they're like, totally uncool and probably would have locked women up in Magdalen laundries or left women to die for want of an abortion. Most people will stop when you start telling them that. But when you come for their kids, you can call them all the names under the sun if you haven't actually thought about what you're asking people to permit and persuaded them that it's a good idea for well thought out reasons.

No debate got us this far but it has left the TRAs stranded and unable to formulate any proper argument now that everyone wants to know why, exactly, you want to teach primary school children that they can be born in the wrong body (without giving a second of consideration to what this may mean for disabled children in the classroom), that children can change sex and that there can't be single sex toilets.

I will point out that I spent my teens unable to access legal contraception or abortion, stickering public toilets with the abortion information helpline and I travelled to England with two friends who had to borrow and lie to get over on the ferry, and bleed secretly in a cheap BnB and on the boat home because of Ireland’s legislative position on women’s bodies. I know exactly what it’s like to be a woman, and I worked to make Ireland a safer place for us to be. The fact that I see women’s safety as more important than autogynophilia or delusion, does not make me Enoch Burke.

StephanieSuperpowers · 05/04/2023 15:17

I think you may have taken the complete opposite of my point, @Feemie .

Feemie · 05/04/2023 15:18

StephanieSuperpowers · 05/04/2023 15:17

I think you may have taken the complete opposite of my point, @Feemie .

No, not intended for you, @StephanieSuperpowers — just a general refutation of the idea that the ‘backlash’ consists of the old-fashioned and reactionary.

NotHavingIt · 05/04/2023 15:20

It is interesting to consider why the push back in the U.k has been far more pronounced and advanced than elsewhere?

And thankfully, it got going before Self Id was introduced in the way it was in some other countries - without public awareness or debate.

Bláthannabuí · 05/04/2023 15:30

@NotHavingIt they were lucky to be able to observe what happened in Scotland & what's happening here.

EmotionalSupportHyena · 05/04/2023 15:47

Country size too - if you look at the list of self ID countries the majority of European ones (and NZ) are around the 5 million population or less. Much easier for a small number of activists to sneak it through in a small country.

IIRC the Malta law change was really driven by a single person?

Canada is a big country land wise but population size is less than the UK and it’s very spread out and has two languages - presume as with Aus once broken down into states/regions it becomes manageable sized chunks for under the radar activists to influence?

A lot of the bigger countries seem to have a lot of Catholic cultural influence…

A little victory for Ireland regarding pronouns after huge backlash
Wonderingiforifnot · 05/04/2023 16:47

I think people who post on this forum about teams rights have made their minds up and are desperate for any hint that there is a backlash. But I know lots of people who know, are friends with, or are just respectful of trans people. They know Barbie Kardashian is not typical.
Most people are focused on the very real problems affecting Ireland and aren't being distracted by these attempts to focus on scapegoats like trans people, refugees etc. So I'll just leave this here, most people on this thread will have a different opinion but if someone's scrolling through - in my experience there's still strong support for trans rights. And people aren't being scornful, or going on about 'Pissy' like children!

ItsFunToBeAVampire · 05/04/2023 17:08

Wonderingiforifnot · 05/04/2023 16:47

I think people who post on this forum about teams rights have made their minds up and are desperate for any hint that there is a backlash. But I know lots of people who know, are friends with, or are just respectful of trans people. They know Barbie Kardashian is not typical.
Most people are focused on the very real problems affecting Ireland and aren't being distracted by these attempts to focus on scapegoats like trans people, refugees etc. So I'll just leave this here, most people on this thread will have a different opinion but if someone's scrolling through - in my experience there's still strong support for trans rights. And people aren't being scornful, or going on about 'Pissy' like children!

Have you ever thought that people don't discuss it with you because of what the fallout could be?
If someone you knew said transwomen are not women, would you still be friends, or would you cut them out?
Silence on an issue doesn't mean agreement as a lot of people are now finding out.

Feemie · 05/04/2023 17:10

Wonderingiforifnot · 05/04/2023 16:47

I think people who post on this forum about teams rights have made their minds up and are desperate for any hint that there is a backlash. But I know lots of people who know, are friends with, or are just respectful of trans people. They know Barbie Kardashian is not typical.
Most people are focused on the very real problems affecting Ireland and aren't being distracted by these attempts to focus on scapegoats like trans people, refugees etc. So I'll just leave this here, most people on this thread will have a different opinion but if someone's scrolling through - in my experience there's still strong support for trans rights. And people aren't being scornful, or going on about 'Pissy' like children!

You seem confused. Why is it you think that those of us who know trans people might be less concerned about the erosion of women’s sex-based rights and protections?

DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 05/04/2023 17:12

scapegoats like trans people, refugees etc

Nothing has been said here about refugees except profound sympathy for any refugee woman who could end up in a hostel with a transwoman,

As for the 'etc' if even you don't know who they are, don't drag them into the discussion.

DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 05/04/2023 17:15

Some of us have looked at what genderism has done to female friends and family members who have gone down trans route and are now suffering appalling medical consequences. It is a cruel ideology and people who get convinced by it that they should be trans are its principal victims.

Bláthannabuí · 05/04/2023 17:24

@Wonderingiforifnot my needs are very simple, I want single sex areas for me, my 80 year old mother, my daughters & nieces. There is no grey area here. I would really like TW to get proper rights for themselves & their own proper spaces. Women's rights just don't cover their needs because they are not women. Also our spaces are safe spaces for vulnerable childen, teenage girls, women & elderly women. They need to revert back to this & I will happily support TW getting their spaces. We can all live together happily this way. It's the only solution without compromising women's human rights any further.

Abhannmor · 05/04/2023 17:26

Wonderingiforifnot · 05/04/2023 16:47

I think people who post on this forum about teams rights have made their minds up and are desperate for any hint that there is a backlash. But I know lots of people who know, are friends with, or are just respectful of trans people. They know Barbie Kardashian is not typical.
Most people are focused on the very real problems affecting Ireland and aren't being distracted by these attempts to focus on scapegoats like trans people, refugees etc. So I'll just leave this here, most people on this thread will have a different opinion but if someone's scrolling through - in my experience there's still strong support for trans rights. And people aren't being scornful, or going on about 'Pissy' like children!

I'm afraid you are clutching at straws if you think GC ppl are all right wing . Or Christian. Or West Brits.
Most of the people I know supported Repeal and Equal Marriage and get on fine with refugees.

Personally I've always voted Left. People Before Profit , Labour , Soc Dem etc. Every vote counts under PR and a lot of people will be quizzing candidates about this dangerous unscientific ideology.

Bláthannabuí · 05/04/2023 17:45

@Abhannmor exactly I did the same as they improved women's rights for the better. Hoever the GRA has reversed all the hard work Ireland has done to improve women's lives. The GRA is anti progressive as it is allowing men into our private spaces, on our sports teams & in our prisons.

DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 05/04/2023 17:46

I also have always voted left, but have watched the way women fared in the Labour party over several decades with misgivings particularly after the merger with Democratic Left. I have no idea how I'll vote next time - but we have an as-yet formless referendum to get through first.

I suspect they'll just ask us to give up our right to a life in the home (and hence our right to a home) and leave it at that, with no reference to women, sex or gender.

1Week · 05/04/2023 20:10

Wonderingiforifnot · 05/04/2023 16:47

I think people who post on this forum about teams rights have made their minds up and are desperate for any hint that there is a backlash. But I know lots of people who know, are friends with, or are just respectful of trans people. They know Barbie Kardashian is not typical.
Most people are focused on the very real problems affecting Ireland and aren't being distracted by these attempts to focus on scapegoats like trans people, refugees etc. So I'll just leave this here, most people on this thread will have a different opinion but if someone's scrolling through - in my experience there's still strong support for trans rights. And people aren't being scornful, or going on about 'Pissy' like children!

Pretty much everyone supported trans rights at one point. The right thing to do. Accommodations of course can, and should, be made.

But when trans rights activists turned this into a zero sum game, people woke up. No, if you're taking my rights away, I won't support that. The point of policy and law is to go someway to thwarting the edge cases. If the laws change to empower edge cases, we're going to object.

The more people know, the more people turn away from the extreme demands, a likely reaction which was and is noted by many strategic trans activists.
It didn't have to be this way. The fact that it is, is purely the trans activists fault.

I dont know where we go from here, but then, Im just one mother in an unglamorous town in a middle of the road sort of job.

Perhaps some of the many publically funded Trans organisations should come up with a different plan to help trans people. Because their original plan- just appropriate women's rights - doesn't work for us.

StephanieSuperpowers · 05/04/2023 20:13

I think it's amazing that all the tra posters flounce from every thread once they're asked any question. It's a very notable pattern.

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