Pretty much everyone supported trans rights at one point. The right thing to do. Accommodations of course can, and should, be made.
But when trans rights activists turned this into a zero sum game, people woke up. No, if you're taking my rights away, I won't support that. The point of policy and law is to go someway to thwarting the edge cases. If the laws change to empower edge cases, we're going to object.
The more people know, the more people turn away from the extreme demands, a likely reaction which was and is noted by many strategic trans activists.
It didn't have to be this way. The fact that it is, is purely the trans activists fault.
I dont know where we go from here, but then, Im just one mother in an unglamorous town in a middle of the road sort of job.
Perhaps some of the many publically funded Trans organisations should come up with a different plan to help trans people. Because their original plan- just appropriate women's rights - doesn't work for us.