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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Starmer rowing back on self ID - what do we think?

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JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 23/03/2023 13:18

The Times is reporting in its live politics feed that KS has explicitly said Labour will not push for self ID without public backing. I know not everyone can access their content so here is a copied n pasted version: what do you think?

Sir Keir Starmer has shifted Labour’s position on transgender rights as he said the bitter rows over Scotland’s Gender Recognition Bill showed the party must consider public opinion on the issue.The leader of the Labour Party has previously insisted it was committed to updating the Gender Recognition Act to introduce self-identification for transgender people.However, in a significant shift in Labour’s policy, he said the backlash over the SNP’s gender reform bill had made him think again. The SNP passed legislation this year that would make it significantly easier for people to acquire a gender recognition certificate and reduced the minimum age for doing so to 16. The bill was blocked by the UK government.Starmer said: “I think that if we reflect on what’s happened in Scotland, the lesson I take from that is that if you’re going to make reforms, you have to carry the public with you.

“And I think that’s a very important message and I think that’s why it’s clear that in Scotland, there should be a reset of the situation.”

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privateeyeeye · 23/03/2023 20:33

reesewithoutaspoon · 23/03/2023 18:03

The reason why this is a single issue for me has gone beyond self-id now.
Labour by their behaviour of ejecting GC women, refusing to listen to women's concerns, prioritising men's wants over women's, not supporting Rosie Duffield, etc., have shown how deeply misogynistic they are to the core. As a woman, that's unforgivable to me.
The speed at which they were willing to change laws for a small group of men who demanded it when women have been shouting for years about VAWG, and other issues that affect women and getting nowhere tells me everything I need to know about Labour and how they view the rights of women and girls.

Exactly this - this is it. The repulsive Lloyd Russelly Mole bullying women in HP and being allowed to get away with it.

shows what Labour think of women: Nothing, second class citizens

plus op’ Jess whatsits adding the poor trans girl to the list of murdered women before the trial. PUKE

Beelezebub · 23/03/2023 20:36

I trust him even less than before after reading that

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 23/03/2023 20:46

Yeah I was heartened by what I saw this morning.... but now I have seen Ellie Reeves. No thanks

I suspect like many GC women I am trying hard to look for slivers of sanity from Labour.

But you know what, that's not my fucking job. It is THEIR job to present a platform I can vote for.

I have never voted Tory but I am now contrasting Ellie Reeves with Sunak who says a woman is an adult human female and Raab who says his first priority is safety so he doesn't want people with male genitalia in women's prisons.

And for the first time in 25y of voting I am genuinely thinking about going blue.

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EpicChaos · 23/03/2023 20:51

" @Toseland " Tell you what Starmer, i'm not voting Labour until 'Repeal the GRA' is in your manifesto. "

Manifesto's are not legally binding. He could promise everyone a £million£ each but he wouldn't be obliged to actually give them it,, ergo, any manifesto promise, isn't worth the back of the fag packet that it's written on. Sorry!

@pieceofpasta Toseland · Today 13:29

Tell you what Starmer, i'm not voting Labour until 'Repeal the GRA' is in your manifesto.

Yes I was going to say the same. The other thing is Starmer might not be the leader for ever. Someone like Nandy could take over.

And???
a) Again, manifesto's are not legally binding.
b) nandy, or whoever. wouldn't be bound to carry forward, any of starmers policies. She or whoever, would be in charge of calling their own shots.

@fdgdfgdfgdfg " Surely "doing it for votes" is what we want though. "
Well no, because that would just mean he'd taken our votes under false pretences. It would be no guarantee whatsoever, that he wouldn't revive any pro trans policies once his feet were under a desk in No' 10.

" If we want our politicians to listen to us, we've got to give them credit when they do listen to us and realise they've gotten something wrong "

But he didn't listen to us! He just saw what happened to sturgeon and gave the idea a bit of a body swerve, for now.
He hasn't listened to us ( women in general ), he hasn't listened to Rosie, in fact, he has stood by and allowed any number of attacks on her from within the party and has refused to stand up and support her.
He's fully aware, or if he isn't, why? of how LRM behaved re: Miriam Cates. That he, LRM, still has the party whip after how he behaved with miriam cates, there should be serious questions asked about starmers leadership over that alone!
His shadow cabinet have all been twaw in public, any terves amongst them have an exceptional amount of moral cowardice about them, as has he, imo.
And the womanz are still not allowed a stall at conference!
But yeah, he listened to us... :-/

@sashagabadon " He speaks from both sides of his mouth. "

On all 40 faces, simultaneously!

@Thedarkestblue " You are right. This is hopeful. I’m going to go away and think about joining the Labour Party to campaign from the inside. "

looooolzz! Good luck with that!

@Himalayanclouds65 " It's far from ideal but its time for pragmatism imho. Supporting feminism is also about women having decent childcare provision, decent pay, a functioning NHS, in particular good quality pre- and post- natal care, safe policing, a functioning transport system, as well as the all important safe spaces just for women. "

You can ask for all of that you like but unless people like starmer and other politicians have a firm grasp of reality and admit what a woman is and what a woman is not ( a male! ) then it's meaningless.

nilsmousehammer · 23/03/2023 21:12

I suspect like many GC women I am trying hard to look for slivers of sanity from Labour.

But you know what, that's not my fucking job. It is THEIR job to present a platform I can vote for.

In a nutshell.

And to actually represent the needs and issues of the electorate, not to see power as forcing the plebs to do what their betters think is good for them.

Proudofitbabe · 23/03/2023 21:18

He’s cautious. That’s normal for a lawyer. He knows this issue is very polarising and and yes he is deliberately trying to tip toe through the debate. Maybe it is yellow bellied of him. Maybe it’s pragmatic. Once he has five years in power stretching ahead of him, he can then engage more fully. Atm, he is trying to be all things to all people to get in to power

I'd understand that stance, if only it WERE a genuinely polarizing issue. Relatively very, very few people are trans, and the average voter doesn't want to see men in women's spaces. Hardly anyone believes that anyone besides women have cervixes.

It's actually a really simple one which would blow over, if only people like him had been prepared to say what most think. By being so "cautious" he's breathed oxygen into what should be a non-debate, and massively alienated much of his voter base. It's staggering really, and at this point there is no explanation that would satisfy me.

Himalayanclouds65 · 23/03/2023 21:34

Proudofitbabe · 23/03/2023 21:18

He’s cautious. That’s normal for a lawyer. He knows this issue is very polarising and and yes he is deliberately trying to tip toe through the debate. Maybe it is yellow bellied of him. Maybe it’s pragmatic. Once he has five years in power stretching ahead of him, he can then engage more fully. Atm, he is trying to be all things to all people to get in to power

I'd understand that stance, if only it WERE a genuinely polarizing issue. Relatively very, very few people are trans, and the average voter doesn't want to see men in women's spaces. Hardly anyone believes that anyone besides women have cervixes.

It's actually a really simple one which would blow over, if only people like him had been prepared to say what most think. By being so "cautious" he's breathed oxygen into what should be a non-debate, and massively alienated much of his voter base. It's staggering really, and at this point there is no explanation that would satisfy me.

I do see that Proudofitbabe and I am sympathetic to a lot of your post but he does have to appeal to young voters who are more susceptible to GRA arguments.

Ourladycheesusedatum · 23/03/2023 21:34

hamstersarse · 23/03/2023 14:15

This is what happens when you don't have any independent thought and just go with the crowd

You can't trust people who ignore their own actual thoughts and just go with the crowd. Kier Starmer always knew that you cannot make a man a woman, he was just too cowardly and opportunistic (for the virtue) to say so

Yet this is the leader of the party?
Someone spineless and stupid and yet the labour party want him to run the country. Seems like they all think with the one braincell but not all at the same time.

Why would I want such a person to run the country, how could I trust them to run the country. Even taking out womens rights (let's be honest no party cares about such petty things) he still is stupid and cowardly, as proved by his own self, time after time.
He has/the party has no answers to the other big issues of today. No coherent plan, how can I trust that man or that party to do what's best (least worst) for the country.
I've met him by the way, he isnt a stupid man, but he just never thinks about women, we are the service class to him.

Ishouldbeoutside · 23/03/2023 21:39

DrMarciaFieldstone · 23/03/2023 13:40

It’s the number one voting issue for me.

Absolutely agree. It’s top of my agenda.

LindorDoubleChoc · 23/03/2023 21:42

Is he only just beginning to get a sense of why huge swathes of women won't be voting Labour this time and for the foreseeable. Tut tut Keir, I would have expected someone with your education and career to have, yiu know, actually thought it through.

It makes him look pathetic actually. "Oh dear, Nicola Sturgeon made herself very unpopular over this, I'd better release some meaningless soundbite so people don't hate me".

DrMarciaFieldstone · 23/03/2023 21:48

Clymene · 23/03/2023 20:10

Atm, he is trying to be all things to all people to get in to power.
Anyone who doesn't have the courage of their convictions doesn't deserve to be in power.

Watching Reeves on JHB today made me feel sick. Anyone who calls a double rapist she shouldn't be anywhere near power.

She couldn’t even back up her position, that’s the worst thing; they don’t actually have any thoughts or process behind it, they’ve just sold women up the river to be liberal and trendy and appeal to what they think matters the most, and brainwashed themselves in the process.

Proudofitbabe · 23/03/2023 21:48

he does have to appeal to young voters who are more susceptible to GRA arguments

I've get that, but to me it falls into the "unacceptable" rationale category, for 2 reasons:

  1. He doesn't believe it, but is prepared to say it to woo 'the kids'
  1. He'd rather woo the kids than uphold the rights of women

I would also have thought that the youth would be less influenced by TRAs if the Left had upheld even a vaguely feminist stance on the issue.

I also think young people who do NOT subscribe to gender ideology (there will be plenty of them) will be least able to speak up, because nobody else does.

AnybodyAnywhere · 23/03/2023 22:01

Don’t trust them as far as I could throw them - some dreadful misogynists in their ranks, both within parliament and without.

They’ll tone it all down until they get in and then they’ll be kicking women straight under the bus.

Not a hope in hell of winning my vote back while they allow the the likes of Lloyd Russell Misogyny to spout his bile in their name.

Labour. 1/10. Must try harder.

Himalayanclouds65 · 23/03/2023 22:01

Epicchaos

You can ask for all of that you like but unless people like starmer and other politicians have a firm grasp of reality and admit what a woman is and what a woman is not ( a male! ) then it's meaningless

Again that’s a very good point, one I agree with, but equally doesn’t life itself become pretty intolerable and meaningless if women can’t heat their homes or pay for food for their dc or get a gp appointment or call an ambulance? I mean people are being denied basic human dignity in many of the most deprived areas of the uk, not to mention in the corridors of our A & E departments. To my mind, when I have a ballot in my hand, I have to address those issues first and GRA rights second. It’s not a good choice to have to make.

Himalayanclouds65 · 23/03/2023 22:02

ballot paper

Himalayanclouds65 · 23/03/2023 22:07

Proudofitbabe · 23/03/2023 21:48

he does have to appeal to young voters who are more susceptible to GRA arguments

I've get that, but to me it falls into the "unacceptable" rationale category, for 2 reasons:

  1. He doesn't believe it, but is prepared to say it to woo 'the kids'
  1. He'd rather woo the kids than uphold the rights of women

I would also have thought that the youth would be less influenced by TRAs if the Left had upheld even a vaguely feminist stance on the issue.

I also think young people who do NOT subscribe to gender ideology (there will be plenty of them) will be least able to speak up, because nobody else does.

I look at it that he would rather woo the kids than not get in to power, then he can address the rights of women.

And it’s depressing, but I have young adult dds at university and I don’t know any of their circle who don’t support trans rights. It’s a source of huge conflict in our home.

BreadInCaptivity · 23/03/2023 22:14

I do see that Proudofitbabe and I am sympathetic to a lot of your post but he does have to appeal to young voters who are more susceptible to GRA arguments.

This however is the big miscalculation any of the parties dabbling in self id have made (including the Tories under May).

They've assumed this policy is an overall net vote winner. It's not.

If the LP dropped self id, the younger left wing voters are not going to start voting blue.

You may lose a few votes to the Lib Dem's, but so what? In the grand scheme of being in govt that's irrelevant.

By supporting self id on the other hand you will lose swathes of support, especially from women but also from people who just think the whole thing is nuts and are not going to vote for a party whose representatives look increasingly bonkers and out of touch when interviewed by referring to a male rapist as "she".

I still think what happened in Scotland has not really fully sunk in.

The SNP and NS had levels of support the LP can only dream of from a quite diverse political base that united around the issue of independence.

The fact that gender reform was a significant issue in her downfall speaks volumes about the toxicity of this as a policy for most voters.

KS's problem in renouncing self id isn't because it's the right thing to do to or to win more votes, it's that he's dealing with a party of MP's, grassroots membership and trade unions who are all captured by this ideology and he can't afford to piss them off or he might not be leader for much longer.

That's why I can't trust the LP. Whatever KS says, he's just one person and behind him are legions of people putting pressure on him to implement self id because as a party it's consumed by an arrogance that it's their job to educate the electorate rather than represent them.

By contrast the Tory membership cares about one thing. Winning. So a u-turn on self id was a no brainer when they finally cottoned on they'd lose more votes than they would gain over this issue.

The LP need to realise that if they want to be in power they need to stop dictating/educating the electorate and start from a position of listening to them.

DrMarciaFieldstone · 23/03/2023 22:14

I look at it that he would rather woo the kids than not get in to power, then he can address the rights of women

This is absolutely NOT his intention. He’s got no interest in addressing the rights of women. As PP said, the shadow minister for domestic violence read out a man’s name in the list of women killed by men in the last 12 months. Lisa Nandy is worse. The issue is bigger than him and it’s not going anywhere.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 23/03/2023 22:14

Himalayanclouds65 · 23/03/2023 22:01

Epicchaos

You can ask for all of that you like but unless people like starmer and other politicians have a firm grasp of reality and admit what a woman is and what a woman is not ( a male! ) then it's meaningless

Again that’s a very good point, one I agree with, but equally doesn’t life itself become pretty intolerable and meaningless if women can’t heat their homes or pay for food for their dc or get a gp appointment or call an ambulance? I mean people are being denied basic human dignity in many of the most deprived areas of the uk, not to mention in the corridors of our A & E departments. To my mind, when I have a ballot in my hand, I have to address those issues first and GRA rights second. It’s not a good choice to have to make.

What would Labour do to fix any of that? Their economic focus, as repeatedly stated by Rachel Reeves, is on slashing welfare and minimum wage rise projections would be slower than under the Tories. The Labour many people seem to believe in is just a fairy tale. Saying that, I wouldn't vote Tory either.

DrMarciaFieldstone · 23/03/2023 22:15

BreadInCaptivity · 23/03/2023 22:14

I do see that Proudofitbabe and I am sympathetic to a lot of your post but he does have to appeal to young voters who are more susceptible to GRA arguments.

This however is the big miscalculation any of the parties dabbling in self id have made (including the Tories under May).

They've assumed this policy is an overall net vote winner. It's not.

If the LP dropped self id, the younger left wing voters are not going to start voting blue.

You may lose a few votes to the Lib Dem's, but so what? In the grand scheme of being in govt that's irrelevant.

By supporting self id on the other hand you will lose swathes of support, especially from women but also from people who just think the whole thing is nuts and are not going to vote for a party whose representatives look increasingly bonkers and out of touch when interviewed by referring to a male rapist as "she".

I still think what happened in Scotland has not really fully sunk in.

The SNP and NS had levels of support the LP can only dream of from a quite diverse political base that united around the issue of independence.

The fact that gender reform was a significant issue in her downfall speaks volumes about the toxicity of this as a policy for most voters.

KS's problem in renouncing self id isn't because it's the right thing to do to or to win more votes, it's that he's dealing with a party of MP's, grassroots membership and trade unions who are all captured by this ideology and he can't afford to piss them off or he might not be leader for much longer.

That's why I can't trust the LP. Whatever KS says, he's just one person and behind him are legions of people putting pressure on him to implement self id because as a party it's consumed by an arrogance that it's their job to educate the electorate rather than represent them.

By contrast the Tory membership cares about one thing. Winning. So a u-turn on self id was a no brainer when they finally cottoned on they'd lose more votes than they would gain over this issue.

The LP need to realise that if they want to be in power they need to stop dictating/educating the electorate and start from a position of listening to them.

Cross post, absolutely agree

Proudofitbabe · 23/03/2023 22:19

Himalayanclouds and yet ironically this issue is going to be the one thing that keeps him out of power. Because to my original point - most don't actually agree with it.

I do agree the youth are more likely to sympathize with GRA stuff - but as is often the case in politics I'd also bet there are plenty of students out there, nodding and smiling in Halls and classrooms purely for appearance's sake, but taking a totally different stance in the privacy of the voting stall. Hope so anyway!

DrMarciaFieldstone · 23/03/2023 22:23

@Proudofitbabe absolutely. This is also the demographic that Corbyn was sure he’d captured… then there was a landslide in the opposite direction

FOJN · 23/03/2023 22:28

I've just checked Keir Starmers twitter, the Labour Party twitter account and there is no mention of this anywhere. Ellie Reeves has also not posted her disastrous interview with JHB despite her posting all her other media appearances.

I think he's lying.

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/03/2023 22:34

Good stuff. Hopefully the Tory policy of Self ID will die with the party at the next GE.

BreadInCaptivity · 23/03/2023 22:43

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/03/2023 22:34

Good stuff. Hopefully the Tory policy of Self ID will die with the party at the next GE.

It's not a Tory policy though.

It was a Tory policy under May and has been utterly squashed under Sunak.

As stands today, the Tories are the only mainstream party who are committed to upholding the EA and not introducing self id and have said so unequivocally.

Stating that it's a Tory policy is just another "look squirrel" post.

I've spent the last 5 years ruining my ballot because I will not vote Labour but struggle to vote Tory.

This time....well I'm done. If it looks like a tight race in my constituency I'll tick the blue box for the first time in my life and I'll lose no sleep about that at all.