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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women’s rights have gone ‘too far’, say majority of Gen Z and millennials, study shows

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taxpayer1 · 09/03/2023 10:19

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/03/09/womens-rights-have-gone-far-say-majority-gen-z-millennials-study/

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justasking111 · 09/03/2023 15:02

DysonSpheres · 09/03/2023 14:49

I have a dream.

What do I want from feminism? I want a female parallel economy that honors and respects my biology.

I do not have a male body and I do not want to work like a man. Men don't have periods like I do, or suffer cramps like I do, or have to wear two pairs of knickers over night time pads and have to take frequent toilet breaks like I do, or suffer anaemia like I do, suffer peri-menopausal symptoms like I do, have the exhaustion of early pregnancy like I do. I therefore don't want to feel I have to reach their targets to fulfill some notion of equality based on what they can do.

I do not want to work the same as a man does in order to 'earn' my equality. I am still equal even if I decide that I want to stay at home all day with my baby and never return to work, or that I just prefer the domestic sphere.

I want an entirely separate healthcare system based on my unique female biology, administered predominantly by women, based on research actually conducted on women's bodies, working within ranges based on women's bodies, not mens. I want birthing experiences to be better and the maternity system overhauled. I want women only spaces in hospitals and men to be the exception in fields like gynaecology.

I want a separate woman based education system with courses tailored for women and girls in every stage of their lives. Courses extended so women don't feel they have to compromise so much of their domestic life in order to reach or further their career goals. I want lectures where women can bring their babies in. Or dial or zoom in. Or females lecturers can zoom in. I want all university libraries open 24/7 for women to study at night if they need with rooms for mothers with children and not just quiet spaces. I want streets around designated areas just for women.

I want children to be seen more. So women don't feel they are somehow less professional for bringing them with them. I want acceptance and acknowledgement that women bloody have children.

I want a welfare system that doesn't discriminate against mothers and punish their children. I want acknowledgement that women have more hygiene and personal care needs and need more money. I want benefits to be more generous for women with children, and acknowledgment of the key role women play in their children's lives as an extension of the bond that formed in the womb and an end to women being forced into work when children hit some magical number that represents independence like 3. I want society to be respectful and appreciative of how having children contributes to the future economy and society and the role women play in that. I want tax credits to women taking career breaks to be far more generous in acknowledgement of this, and careers centered around child raising to be far more accessible down the chain of class.

I want bank accounts for young women that factor in future child care expenses, I want women to have easier access to loans to start businesses. Health insurance for women that caters for the ill health often emerges after menopause.

None of these things are ever going to happen, because feminism in it's current incarnation has marked equality as outcome and keeps focusing on this definition of parity and success. Rather ironically imo, It has ignored what a woman is in favour of how a woman can do what a man does.

It has encouraged women into a pre-existing patriarchal capitalist economic system, that is literally structured for men, and how men work -literally structured for men's bodies - ( which aren't prone to wide hormonal fluctuations in the way womens are, and absorb stress better due to greater levels of testosterone whereas excessive stress can cause pituitary adrenal axis dysfunction in women) and told them to keep up with them and called that equality. Obvious disparities are 'remedied' with a few tweaks. Maternity leave etc, while the system inevitable continues to do what it does unabated. It can't do anything else as it is goal driven.

Keeping pace with men means when women demand things that suit their biology like wanting time off for periods, or earlier retirement for menopause, other women come out against them because, well then, we won't be employable! and we will prove that we're somehow not as good or as capable as men!. No we're just as good, but we're different. With different needs and wants. And maybe, maybe different emphasis on what is important.

Let's cater for that.

Well I personally didn't need time off for periods or menopause nor early retirement. What I needed was a shorter working week when the children were young. Your dream sounds like we are somehow disabled by our wombs and hormones which I wasn't. But if some are then that should be recognised perhaps

creekingmillenial · 09/03/2023 15:03

DysonSpheres · 09/03/2023 14:49

I have a dream.

What do I want from feminism? I want a female parallel economy that honors and respects my biology.

I do not have a male body and I do not want to work like a man. Men don't have periods like I do, or suffer cramps like I do, or have to wear two pairs of knickers over night time pads and have to take frequent toilet breaks like I do, or suffer anaemia like I do, suffer peri-menopausal symptoms like I do, have the exhaustion of early pregnancy like I do. I therefore don't want to feel I have to reach their targets to fulfill some notion of equality based on what they can do.

I do not want to work the same as a man does in order to 'earn' my equality. I am still equal even if I decide that I want to stay at home all day with my baby and never return to work, or that I just prefer the domestic sphere.

I want an entirely separate healthcare system based on my unique female biology, administered predominantly by women, based on research actually conducted on women's bodies, working within ranges based on women's bodies, not mens. I want birthing experiences to be better and the maternity system overhauled. I want women only spaces in hospitals and men to be the exception in fields like gynaecology.

I want a separate woman based education system with courses tailored for women and girls in every stage of their lives. Courses extended so women don't feel they have to compromise so much of their domestic life in order to reach or further their career goals. I want lectures where women can bring their babies in. Or dial or zoom in. Or females lecturers can zoom in. I want all university libraries open 24/7 for women to study at night if they need with rooms for mothers with children and not just quiet spaces. I want streets around designated areas just for women.

I want children to be seen more. So women don't feel they are somehow less professional for bringing them with them. I want acceptance and acknowledgement that women bloody have children.

I want a welfare system that doesn't discriminate against mothers and punish their children. I want acknowledgement that women have more hygiene and personal care needs and need more money. I want benefits to be more generous for women with children, and acknowledgment of the key role women play in their children's lives as an extension of the bond that formed in the womb and an end to women being forced into work when children hit some magical number that represents independence like 3. I want society to be respectful and appreciative of how having children contributes to the future economy and society and the role women play in that. I want tax credits to women taking career breaks to be far more generous in acknowledgement of this, and careers centered around child raising to be far more accessible down the chain of class.

I want bank accounts for young women that factor in future child care expenses, I want women to have easier access to loans to start businesses. Health insurance for women that caters for the ill health often emerges after menopause.

None of these things are ever going to happen, because feminism in it's current incarnation has marked equality as outcome and keeps focusing on this definition of parity and success. Rather ironically imo, It has ignored what a woman is in favour of how a woman can do what a man does.

It has encouraged women into a pre-existing patriarchal capitalist economic system, that is literally structured for men, and how men work -literally structured for men's bodies - ( which aren't prone to wide hormonal fluctuations in the way womens are, and absorb stress better due to greater levels of testosterone whereas excessive stress can cause pituitary adrenal axis dysfunction in women) and told them to keep up with them and called that equality. Obvious disparities are 'remedied' with a few tweaks. Maternity leave etc, while the system inevitable continues to do what it does unabated. It can't do anything else as it is goal driven.

Keeping pace with men means when women demand things that suit their biology like wanting time off for periods, or earlier retirement for menopause, other women come out against them because, well then, we won't be employable! and we will prove that we're somehow not as good or as capable as men!. No we're just as good, but we're different. With different needs and wants. And maybe, maybe different emphasis on what is important.

Let's cater for that.

Wow. Yes please.

Grammarnut · 09/03/2023 15:05

I have just bought a book, 'Brilliant Women' (present to myself for IWD), published by the National Gallery about 10 years ago (it's out of print, surprise, surprise). It's about how intellectual women in the eighteenth century got a good press - and then details how much this was disliked and trampled on later. The fight is always there because if women think they have arrived at equality SOME men will work very hard to end it and destroy it - TRAs spring immediately to mind - and others will not realise that this matters. We can never stop fighting for women's equality because immediately we do, the forces against us re-arm. Besides, what equality do they mean? Have these Millenials and Gen Z's seen the plight of the child brides of Afghanistan, the Yazidi sex slaves, the raped debt slaves in India and the rape culture of India, the fact of sex imbalance in e.g. China because of the One Child Policy that led to child femicide and sex-selective abortion and now leads to bride-napping? If not, what do they think they are talking about when they say women's equality has gone too far? Or are they only concerned with Western women?

Grammarnut · 09/03/2023 15:11

creekingmillenial · 09/03/2023 15:03

Wow. Yes please.

This. Exactly.

WhereYouLeftIt · 09/03/2023 15:27

I was particularly struck by this from the Telegraph article:

"The survey conducted for International Women’s Day also found that people in Britain are increasingly afraid of promoting women’s rights for fear of reprisals.

The share of the British public who say they are scared to speak out and advocate for the equal rights of women has doubled since 2017, rising from 14 per cent to 29 per cent. The majority (71 per cent), however, continue to say this does not apply to them.

Younger generations tend to be be most fearful, with Gen Z (38 per cent) around twice as likely as baby boomers (19 per cent) to feel this way."

"Fear of reprisals". "Scared to speak out". "Fearful". Scared and fearful to advocate for women's rights. In an environment where a supposed majority feel that women's rights have 'gone too far'. These two things together, the fear and the gone-too-far, suggests a bullying environment where those who bray about it all having gone too far are putting the fear of reprisal into those who would speak out to say no it hasn't.

Not a good picture of Britain, is it?

OriGanOver · 09/03/2023 16:15

I find it ironic that men now have it all but women think they're equal and men tend to think it's a womans world.

When the reality is we have been WFT, doing the majority of the housework and the mental load for a husband and children.

Women still lose years of their life when married compared to men who gain extra time.

It's easier to be a single working mother than have a husband imo.

I'm late millennial (35) and the men in my generation (and women) are quick to want 50/50 on all financials but not mental load or housework or child rearing. Even sick days still usually fall to women. So many 'pick me women' and lib fems that start talking about the poor menz.

Oh and I have a son that I absolutely adore. I don't hate individual men. Men as a sex class, have definitely got it better than us!

nepeta · 09/03/2023 16:38

You can see the whole study at the Ipsos site. All the summary results are averages over a large number of countries, including several where women's rights are poor.

So we should be careful about interpreting the global averages as applying to Britain or to US etc.

To give one example, the fourth assertion which states that "When it comes to women's rights, things have gone far enough in my country" has people agreeing to this assertion ranging from 80% in Indonesia and 79% in China (both countries where women are certainly nowhere near equality) to 17% in Portugal and 21% in Japan. The UK percentage here is 38% and the US percentage 37%.

Likewise the sixth assertion "We have gone so far in promoting women's equality that we are discriminating against men" has agreement ranging from high of 78% in Thailand and 74% in India to low of 28% in Hungary and 24% in Portugal. The UK figure of 43% (and the US figure of 40%) are in the lower half of the country range. Interestingly enough, a country where equality of the sexes is pretty high, Sweden, has 36% agreement on this question.

So the opinions should NOT be interpreted as referring to actual facts on the ground, because if we do that, when we would assume that Thailand is a matriarchy already etc. They also reflect underlying biases about what rights are deemed proper for women.

RoseFl0wers · 09/03/2023 17:11

Quveas · 09/03/2023 14:43

The report is based on 22,500 interviews across the world over 32 countries. That's an average of just over 700 people per country. Hardly rigorous research there, even if it is Ipsos doing it. What gives it away is when you scroll down to the responses from individual countries. "Equality between men and women will be achieved in my lifetime" for example - the top two countries saying they believe that will happen are the United Arab Emirates and Saudi Arabia. Yeah, right. That's going to happen. Both those countries have a way to go before they get to human rights, never mind women's rights. Take a look at the countries where people think things have gone far enough - Indonesia, China, Thailand, Saudi Arabia, UAE, India, Spain, and Columbia, for example. That is a list of countries where almost nothing has happened!

It's clickbait headlines are very misleading, it is a poor piece of research, and I am more interested in what agenda is behind such blatent rubbish.

It’s ridiculous that the Telegraph published this article when it’s not just British respondents. Other cultures have different views on gender roles etc.

DemiColon · 09/03/2023 17:41

"Too far" can mean a lot of things. In my experience people can read almost anything into it. I find that when someone says somthing has gone too far what they really mean is that some part of it is being done in the wrong way, or is not being understood correctly.

So, you could look specifically at something like making misogyny a hate crime. Sometimes people will say something like that is "too far" but what they mean is that it interferes with other rights, that it will be counterproductive, or they don't think it will be effective.

Women's issues can be promoted in much the same way as other identity issues, and when that happens, I'm not really surprised people are not buying into those formulations. Hierarchy of oppression arguments, for example, or equality of outcome arguments. A lot of young people are quietly getting quite turned off that kind of thinking, and it may come as a surprise to some when that begins to manifest politically.

DemiColon · 09/03/2023 17:54

WhereYouLeftIt · 09/03/2023 15:27

I was particularly struck by this from the Telegraph article:

"The survey conducted for International Women’s Day also found that people in Britain are increasingly afraid of promoting women’s rights for fear of reprisals.

The share of the British public who say they are scared to speak out and advocate for the equal rights of women has doubled since 2017, rising from 14 per cent to 29 per cent. The majority (71 per cent), however, continue to say this does not apply to them.

Younger generations tend to be be most fearful, with Gen Z (38 per cent) around twice as likely as baby boomers (19 per cent) to feel this way."

"Fear of reprisals". "Scared to speak out". "Fearful". Scared and fearful to advocate for women's rights. In an environment where a supposed majority feel that women's rights have 'gone too far'. These two things together, the fear and the gone-too-far, suggests a bullying environment where those who bray about it all having gone too far are putting the fear of reprisal into those who would speak out to say no it hasn't.

Not a good picture of Britain, is it?

I wonder what they mean by reprisals?

It makes me think of my daughter, who is 19. ABout a year or so ago there was a new masking mandate at her school that she and her friends were ticked off about. I suggested maybe they should have a protest, or do a petition, or something. Anything rather than just passivly accept it, not be be dicks but to show they had an opinion.

Her comment was, "Oh, we couldn't do that, they might think we are anti-vaxxers."

I was flabbergasted. They seem to be incredibly delicate about going against certain types of moral authority, I've noticed this in a lot of other kids too.

JellySaurus · 09/03/2023 18:50

The generations that have grown up with women having the right to be treated equally to men (if not the reality), now see equity of access for women as discrimination against men.

No wonder some women find it so easy to give our spaces to men.

Perhaps you don't value something if you did not pay for it.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 09/03/2023 19:19

JellySaurus · 09/03/2023 18:50

The generations that have grown up with women having the right to be treated equally to men (if not the reality), now see equity of access for women as discrimination against men.

No wonder some women find it so easy to give our spaces to men.

Perhaps you don't value something if you did not pay for it.

@JellySaurus is right but I think a lot of it boils down to the immaturity of youth, a phase we all go through & see everything in black & white think we're right & older people are wrong.

Also if you haven't experienced or seen the inequality & discrimination that women have had to deal & seen the fight & struggles of the 60s/70s/80s/90s/early 00s then unless you make the effort to find out about it all & explore then you won't have a clue.

Then as we grow older & mature we see all the various shades of grey in the world & realise how daft & virtue signalling we were as young adults.
Though I know some people never grow out of it!

Plus I really think the skill of critical thinking seems to be now lacking or non existent in education.
During my education in the 80s & 90s we were highly encouraged to use our brains & debate all aspects of things to get to an informed view.
We were expected to find out stuff for ourselves & were not spoonfed the facts unlike in my DC's education or unless it's just the school.
All information is acquired instantly from the internet & no fact checking is done & social media has a hell of a lot to play in pushing false narratives.

BlessedKali · 09/03/2023 22:26

I think referring to these generations with stupid names, confuses what is at hand... For example...

''Gen z thinks....'
''Millenials think....'

But then take away the stupid names and what you actually have is -

''Teenagers think.....''

And ''20 year olds think....''

And then you realise it doesn't matter what they think because they will get educated by the university of LIFE and their opinions and views will mature.

MrGHardy · 09/03/2023 23:09

RoseslnTheHospital · 09/03/2023 10:35

At the end of that summary, there is a paragraph which says:

"At the same time, about half of Gen Z (52%) and Millennials (53%) agree that things have gone so far in promoting women’s equality that men are being discriminated against, falling to 46% of Gen X and 40% of Baby Boomers. Younger generations are also the most likely to agree that a man who stays home to look after his children is less of a man, with 30% each of Gen Z and Millennials agreeing with this statement compared to 22% of Gen X and just 14% of Baby Boomers."

This quote is somehow hilarious.

The old white men that are part of the baby boomers and who are so evil are the ones who are the most progressive when it comes to this and the self-proclaimed progressive young ones are the most regressive.

mach2 · 10/03/2023 06:34

DysonSpheres post has crystallised something I've batted around, half-formed in my noggin. I don't think sex equality in work can be built around male working patterns. Male working patterns aren't that good for males really.

Overlying this, as pointed out above, is the sheer cost of everything which forces couple to both work full time while looking after children.

The system (government and society) sees children as a burden in a "If you must have the things, on your own head be it" sort of way, however gooey the cooing over new arrivals.

I haven't got a Scooby on how to solve this but I know that work and society would have to look radically different for both sexes.

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