I have a dream.
What do I want from feminism? I want a female parallel economy that honors and respects my biology.
I do not have a male body and I do not want to work like a man. Men don't have periods like I do, or suffer cramps like I do, or have to wear two pairs of knickers over night time pads and have to take frequent toilet breaks like I do, or suffer anaemia like I do, suffer peri-menopausal symptoms like I do, have the exhaustion of early pregnancy like I do. I therefore don't want to feel I have to reach their targets to fulfill some notion of equality based on what they can do.
I do not want to work the same as a man does in order to 'earn' my equality. I am still equal even if I decide that I want to stay at home all day with my baby and never return to work, or that I just prefer the domestic sphere.
I want an entirely separate healthcare system based on my unique female biology, administered predominantly by women, based on research actually conducted on women's bodies, working within ranges based on women's bodies, not mens. I want birthing experiences to be better and the maternity system overhauled. I want women only spaces in hospitals and men to be the exception in fields like gynaecology.
I want a separate woman based education system with courses tailored for women and girls in every stage of their lives. Courses extended so women don't feel they have to compromise so much of their domestic life in order to reach or further their career goals. I want lectures where women can bring their babies in. Or dial or zoom in. Or females lecturers can zoom in. I want all university libraries open 24/7 for women to study at night if they need with rooms for mothers with children and not just quiet spaces. I want streets around designated areas just for women.
I want children to be seen more. So women don't feel they are somehow less professional for bringing them with them. I want acceptance and acknowledgement that women bloody have children.
I want a welfare system that doesn't discriminate against mothers and punish their children. I want acknowledgement that women have more hygiene and personal care needs and need more money. I want benefits to be more generous for women with children, and acknowledgment of the key role women play in their children's lives as an extension of the bond that formed in the womb and an end to women being forced into work when children hit some magical number that represents independence like 3. I want society to be respectful and appreciative of how having children contributes to the future economy and society and the role women play in that. I want tax credits to women taking career breaks to be far more generous in acknowledgement of this, and careers centered around child raising to be far more accessible down the chain of class.
I want bank accounts for young women that factor in future child care expenses, I want women to have easier access to loans to start businesses. Health insurance for women that caters for the ill health often emerges after menopause.
None of these things are ever going to happen, because feminism in it's current incarnation has marked equality as outcome and keeps focusing on this definition of parity and success. Rather ironically imo, It has ignored what a woman is in favour of how a woman can do what a man does.
It has encouraged women into a pre-existing patriarchal capitalist economic system, that is literally structured for men, and how men work -literally structured for men's bodies - ( which aren't prone to wide hormonal fluctuations in the way womens are, and absorb stress better due to greater levels of testosterone whereas excessive stress can cause pituitary adrenal axis dysfunction in women) and told them to keep up with them and called that equality. Obvious disparities are 'remedied' with a few tweaks. Maternity leave etc, while the system inevitable continues to do what it does unabated. It can't do anything else as it is goal driven.
Keeping pace with men means when women demand things that suit their biology like wanting time off for periods, or earlier retirement for menopause, other women come out against them because, well then, we won't be employable! and we will prove that we're somehow not as good or as capable as men!. No we're just as good, but we're different. With different needs and wants. And maybe, maybe different emphasis on what is important.
Let's cater for that.