Valentine said much of the current framing presented trans people as predators, regardless of the caveats employed. “There’s only so many times you can say ‘we don’t want to associate trans people with sex offenders’ when you’re only having conversations about trans rights in the context of sex offending.
So change the narrative. Stop trying to muscle into women's single sex spaces - which forces us to point out why we need them!
Trans rights should be about supporting Trans people to live with no obstacles put in their way due to being Trans, and also ensuring that concerns specific to Trans people (such as suitable medical care) is appropriately supported (balanced with the needs of other groups in society, eg for limited NHS resources). But recognising that sex is immutable and transwomen remain men, regardless of gender identity or hormones/surgery.
There is a huge conversation to be had about when sex genuinely matters vs when it doesn't matter. Then we can dismantle left-over gender stereotypes so that Trans people aren't unnecessarily restricted (ie unless the boundary is necessary to protect other people, or give other people fair access). That would also benefit other non-gender-conforming people (wouldn't that be great!). Pretending that sex never matters isn't helpful.
ALSO: fix the problem of men's violence against women and girls and sexual offending! AFTER you (men) have achieved that, we (women) can stop mentioning that as a reason we need single sex spaces. (although we'll still need them for sport, dignity, and occasionally to redress sexist barriers women face).
I actually worry about this focus on rapists and male murderers in women's prisons. Whilst it's so outrageous that it does make people sit up and take notice, it too easily leads to the compromise that convicted rapists and male murderers should be excluded, but other men still allowed in. Given that less than 1% of rapes are convicted, I don't think that's anything like good enough. There should be no males in women's prisons, regardless of their crime, whilst VAWG still exists.