It’s another non binary person helping women to not feel bad about their periods

[Shallysally]

Jeffrey Marsh on tik tok

And hurrah, he is going to help us against the patriarchy 🙄

That bloke needs a fucking hard drive check

I don't actually understand what he was trying to say.

I shouldn't feel "bad" about my periods (whatever the fuck that means) because what exactly ? Transmen... non binary... something something... patriarchy... cis men...

If he had a point it got lost in translation.

Mansplaining does seem to be built-in. Or lecturing at women about something they know a zillion times more about than the lecturer.

You're a man you silly plonker.

Non-binary is very very tedious.

I wouldn't trust Jeffrey within a 100 miles of kids!
I think it's way past time, that a few adults took jeffrey behind the bike sheds sat the bloke down and had a kindly word or two with him about the child catcher vibes he gives off.
He seriously creeps me out!

He said men find you (and me and all the other women in the world) disgusting.
That our bodily functions are ‘gross, disgusting, a joke’

And then he tried to pretend he was insulting us for our own benefit, and then he added in transmen and NB AFAB people (because obvs, they are also female, and thus are also disgusting to Jeffrey)

And finally he implied that we think we’re better than him, but really we should remember our proper place, which is as second class citizens.

Remember when your big sibling used to hit you with your own arm whilst saying ‘why are you hitting yourself? WHY ARE YOU HITTING YOURSELF?’ over and over again?

Jeffrey just did the online equivalent of that to all of us, just substitute the word ‘hit’ for the word ‘hate’.

I don't hate myself mate. I hate having periods because as someone who is child-free by choice they are a messy painful inconvenience, but I definitely don't hate myself.
But thank you for the faux-concern.

Jeffrey is the living embodiment of the phrase 'creepy as fuck.'

Haven't clicked, but I assume he is using his usual repulsive "non-binary" voice and beyond-creepy head tilt. He's utterly vile, absolutely turns my stomach. Actually,worse than vile, he's quite frightening IMO.

Jeffery Marsh is the patriarchy, you can't get much more patriarchal than paying a man to promote tampons. He's vile and creepy.

Nothing that actually made sense then.

“I’m not going to tell you what to do, BUT…”
🤣

What a pile of fucking tripe. I struggled to watch that. Who the fuck does he think he is? Not in my name thank you very much.

Getting strong psychopath vibes from that fella.

I’ve just had a look on the website, there’s a disclaimer referencing that Jeffrey is not a therapist, psychotherapist etc.
Apparently he has gained the status of Zen master with Buddhist monks.

So he is apparently free to spout this bile, and people have the honour of actually paying for his dangerous, non regulated “wisdom” at the cost of $99 for a very short 20 minute session.

He is very popular as a speaker in the US. Although this is balanced with a lot of criticism.
There are several tik tokers who have called out the tampon debacle.

And I realise there is no point to this post, was just hoping to maybe find a regulatory body to report him to.

Creepy individual. His statements are meaningless but he thinks that interspersing them with images of a bloody-faced Jesus on the cross etc makes him profound. Is this the kind of shit that kids are being exposed to on TikTok?

My FYP is normally parenting and food, but since this video and the equally ridiculous one by Dylan it’s entirely TERFtok. Hopefully it’ll be showing those videos to lots of people who haven’t gone out looking for them.

What adult male goes public saying children should go no contact with their parents, and they will be their family, and talks to another male about tampons, without knowing it's off the scale wrong?

Marsh must know it's wrong, must also know that everyone else knows it. So what the fuck are they doing??

This aspect is one of the most sinister of this ideology. We see right through it. Youngsters have been well and truly targeted by adults.

Alarm bells ring in my head anytime males talk about how they want to "end period stigma" or start talking about menstruation in detail. Menstruation is a very private thing. I don't feel stigmatized by it but I don't see why any men would feel the need to know anything about a woman's menstruation or to talk about it with that woman, other than the woman's husband and gynecologist (if male, which I prefer not, but there you go). It's as if someone were telling you to lift your skirt for them to see underneath and when you say no, they tell you that there's nothing to be ashamed of, body parts are natural. Yeah I know it's natural but I don't want you involved in it because it's private. Males should just stay far away from such topics, it's none of their business.

Again, I just feel that it's telling women and girls that we are not allowed to have boundaries. Males have decided women and girls have put our boundaries in the wrong place, or don't need boundaries at all, and women and girls who disagree are bigots.

I agree aloris it’s feels invasive and one step away from rooting through sanpro bins for our used tampons and sanitary towels. Pervy.

Presumably as nobody ever tells these people "no" their behaviour escalates off the scale. It's interesting that whenever there are demonstrations - especially against women meeting / talking there's always abuse, threats of sexual violence, insults, violence and more. Nobody ever says no with the Stonewall captured police standing by watching (until very recently) The behaviour we see suggests they believe there are no boundaries that they cannot violate.

I’m not saying anything new here I know but I’m just so tired of being expected to ignore my instincts in the cause of being kind and liberal and woke and whatever.

Guys who are as creepy as fuck have set off our alarms our whole lives. When we ignore those alarms we regret it. I refuse to change my mind on this because creepy men do not change, whatever they label themselves.

I was watching a program about Michael Jackson where they showed a clip of him talking about loving children and how innocent it was to share their bed.
It took a long time for people to accept (and some still have not) that what he had was a paedophile ... I wonder how many years it will be before these risks that are being taken now will horrify people in the future who will ask themselves "how could they do this?"

Just looking at him made me nauseous. He is so obviously a man and hasn't even got the famous trans skill at applying make up. And patronising,.so bloody patronising.