Its the cake and eat it too problem.
Either trans is entirely a person's choice and feeling irrespective of who they are, what they do, what they've done, which makes the group as a whole inevitably containing of those flat out dangerous to women and unable to use women's spaces
or
trans is something strictly gatekept, in the expectation of those males using women's spaces not actually being a direct threat to those women's life and limb.
It can't be both.
This totally ignores that the bar for women's rights is set so low that it's even being quibbled about as whether not actually being raped or beaten up or killed is a sufficient reason to say no to men. Or that women are excluded even by fully transitioned, delightful and entirely safe males in their spaces. But it shows the utter unreasonability of the TQ+ political position.
And why women are now so totally fed up that they're fairly clear about no, no males, at all, ever, find other solutions, and repeal the GRA.